Your opinion please?

[cast_no_shadow]

to the TS: is your mom a housewife?
how long have you been together with your wife?

chances are, if housewife mom mo, may tendency talaga makialam siya sa household affairs niyo especially how your maids work, treat her, their suweldo etc etc.

if matagal na kayo ng wife mo, as in long time GF and magkasundo naman sila ng mom mo, why not rent their apartment muna as a springboard since starting pa lang kayo ng wife mo. give it at least a year.

good luck!

Yup my mom is a full time housewife, we're not yet married 6 years na kami ng gf ko..

[jansky]

- time will come.. small problem nagiging malaking problem.....
maganda bumukod..

[cast_no_shadow]

*Jimnyeatworld nice one, ibang point of view so hows the iphone 4? haha planning to get one na din..

Regarding my soon to be wife, i can say i had a good catch. Wala ako masabi sa kanya, regarding financial matters mas magaling siya saken in short mas barat and mas practical. I can't imagine ano na ako kung ang nakatuluyan ko is kagaya ko din. Dun ko lang hindi makita ang pagiging practical niya, it's not like na gusto ko na kunin yung alok ng parents ko kaso the idea of it pa lang ayaw na niya. Regarding my folks wala naman ako makita na magiging problem nila vice verse but as they always say, and sa mga nakita ko sa kakilala/kamag anak ko time will come may issues na darating pag ganun na set-up. About our acquired condo, ewan ko ba it's not may regret ako pero parang binili namin yun ng hindi gaano pinag isipan yung ibang considerations like yun nga ang layo sa workplace namin which is a burden, as if i bought a shirt nung kinuha namin yun..

[four-rings]

i thought married na kayo.
question lang nag half ba kayo ng gf mo sa condo?

[spongee]

from a woman's point of view naman....it's best na tumira kayo somewhere farther sa mga parents nyo..rent somewhere near your workplace...

pinakamaganda pa rin na maging 100% independent kayo lalo na pag naguumpisa..kayong dalawa dumidiskarte sa lahat..

plus nasa honeymoon stage pa lang kayo...syempre you might want to have fun dahil finally magkasama na kayo...maiilang ang asawa mo lalo na nasa tabi nyo lang ang mother mo..maganda na yung wala kayong iniintindi na katabi na pwedeng may masabi..

dont take advantage of the "free" stuffs...are you sure na yung matitipid nyo sa rent derecho talaga sa savings? maganda na rin yung maramdaman nyo yung bigat ng responsibilites and obligations..in that sense..mas magiging magaling kayo magmanage ng finances nyo..

sa tingin ko naman you are ready kasi may early investment na kayo..continue nyo na lang...

[CVT]

You can stay with your parents for a while,- say 1-2 months, pero do not extend. Heto iyong tinatawag na honeymoon stage with the in-laws,- okay lang iyan.

After that,- bumukod na kayo... Too much familiarity na ang mangyayari... Before you know it,- magkaka-asaran na kayo....

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[cast_no_shadow]

i thought married na kayo.
question lang nag half ba kayo ng gf mo sa condo?

Not yet married maybe late 2011..
yup share kami dun sa condo..

[cast_no_shadow]

*spongee Yup thats her exact words.. Natumbok mo ah

[cktlcmd]

Live AWAY from the parents for your mental peace.

In-Laws tend to meddle a lot in their children's affairs even if they have already married.

Take it from someone with experience. Just visit the in-laws on the weekends and they would be fine.

OHHH YES!!!! Take this advise.

Look I am not married yet. But I don't plan on staying near them or my aunt in my case. They tend to meddle... that is just how Filipino families are.

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[roninblade]

i'll also add in my advice to not stay with your parents.
better rent a place near your work nalang.