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[uls]

ang mabait na mister binibigay buong sweldo sa misis tapos ung misis ang nagbibigay ng allowance sa mister

[_Cathy_]

ang mabait na mister binibigay buong sweldo sa misis tapos ung misis ang nagbibigay ng allowance sa mister

My Dad does that. 100% of his corporate salary goes to my Mom pero yung from his other income, that's 100% his and my Mom doesn't "pakialam" [emoji23]

Growing up my Dad (and Lolo) would always tell us to have a corporate job AND a business

Pero kung ako lalaki with just my salary and no other source of income, hindi ba unfair na ikaw work pero ikaw naka allowance [emoji15]

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[Little Missy]

Eh kung binibigay nga buo ang sweldo sa misis pero verbally abusive, babaero, mabisyo, etc.

Tapos hindi din naman sapat yung sweldo problemado si misis pano pagkakasyahin.

To me bare minimum yun. Kung kasal kayo yung pera ng mister is pera din ng wife.

Parang yung mga lalaking nagpopost sa socmed ng groceries at diapers. Kahit na daw wala na siya basta daw meron ang family. Na-bash tuloy, eh yun naman daw talaga ang bare minimum na expectation sa kanya.


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[_Cathy_]

Eh kung binibigay nga buo ang sweldo sa misis pero verbally abusive, babaero, mabisyo, etc.

Tapos hindi din naman sapat yung sweldo problemado si misis pano pagkakasyahin.


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Hindi ko naisip yan, problema nga yan kung hindi sapat

Kaya dapat tayong mga babae may sariling pera pa rin. Yung friend ko na housewife, when her Dad passed away bigla nag iba view niya on marriage. She told me since wala na siyang aasahan (Dad), she will fight for her husband kung mambabae, dati ang view niya iiwan niya at babalik siya sa parents niya.

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[Little Missy]

Ideally, yung misis sana is living a soft life where she can focus on her feminine roles and doesn't need to worry about masculine roles (san hahanap ng pera). Pero syempre may mga dreams din naman ang babae (higher tier of Maslow's needs) kaya she pursues a career minsan. Pero realistically speaking, whatever money they both make is pera nila pareho. Pero ang ideal nga is, hindi pressured si wife to worry about money kasi the husband got it covered.


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[Little Missy]

Kaya dapat tayong mga babae may sariling pera pa rin. Yung friend ko na housewife, when her Dad passed away bigla nag iba view niya on marriage. She told me since wala na siyang aasahan (Dad), she will fight for her husband kung mambabae, dati ang view niya iiwan niya at babalik siya sa parents niya.

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Kaya hindi makaalis ang mga abused wife kasi wala silang sariling pera. And sometimes men use that to trap women into staying. Babaero na ipaglalaban pa because of provision. Absurd diba.

Ideally talaga dapat may sarili siyang pera to stand on her own kapag iniwan siya or when she needs to leave.

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[_Cathy_]

Ideally, yung misis sana is living a soft life where she can focus on her feminine roles and doesn't need to worry about masculine roles (san hahanap ng pera). Pero syempre may mga dreams din naman ang babae (higher tier of Maslow's needs) kaya she pursues a career minsan. Pero realistically speaking, whatever money they both make is pera nila pareho. Pero ang ideal nga is, hindi pressured si wife to worry about money kasi the husband got it covered.


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My Mom insisted on a career kasi sayang daw education niya. My paternal lola was against my Mom working because it might give people the impression that my Dad is not earning enough, so my Mom gave in for a few years pero di talaga nakatiis as housewife. Pero ang usapan it's my Dad's money that will run the household and her money is hers only. Kaya that's also my ideal setup [emoji5]

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[uls]

sensya na

meron kasi mga mister di binibigay ang sweldo sa misis

nagbibigay lang ng pampalengke

kaya mabait ung mister binibigay buo

yun pala dapat lang

bare minimum pa nga lang yan eh

haha

[_Cathy_]

Kaya hindi makaalis ang mga abused wife kasi wala silang sariling pera. And sometimes men use that to trap women into staying. Babaero na ipaglalaban pa because of provision. Absurd diba.

Ideally talaga dapat may sarili siyang pera to stand on her own kapag iniwan siya or when she needs to leave.

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My friend's Dad brought home the illegitimate child for the wife to raise For so long pinalabas na adopted but my friend told me the real story. Her Mom is a housewife. I don't know if she wanted to keep the family together or because she had no choice.

Aside from leaving, if the husband dies suddenly, she's fcked din if she doesn't have her own money.

[Little Missy]

Nge ano kaya yun. Just because may nambubugbog na husbands di ibig sabihin exceptional na yung hindi nambubugbog. Bare minimum na wag mo saktan asawa mo.

Same with provision. Hindi ibig sabihin may husbands na di nag eentrega ng buong sweldo mabait na yung ganun.

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[dreamur]

Nge ano kaya yun. Just because may nambubugbog na husbands di ibig sabihin exceptional na yung hindi nambubugbog. Bare minimum na wag mo saktan asawa mo.

Same with provision. Hindi ibig sabihin may husbands na di nag eentrega ng buong sweldo mabait na yung ganun.

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Ouch! Hindi ako nag-eentrega ng sahod bbg. Confiscated nga lang atm ko. [emoji28]

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[papi smith]

Ouch! Hindi ako nag-eentrega ng sahod bbg. Confiscated nga lang atm ko. [emoji28]

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No need mag entrega kung Automatic To Misis naman [emoji16]

[papi smith]

My friend's Dad brought home the illegitimate child for the wife to raise For so long pinalabas na adopted but my friend told me the real story. Her Mom is a housewife. I don't know if she wanted to keep the family together or because she had no choice.

Aside from leaving, if the husband dies suddenly, she's fcked din if she doesn't have her own money.

If her husband dies, she gets 50% naman di ba.

[_Cathy_]

If her husband dies, she gets 50% naman di ba.

IF they have a lot of savings and passive income, I guess the family won't have financial issues. But if their only source of income is her husband' salary (or a business she can't run), she's fcked. Lalo na pag maraming anak.

Sa case ng housewife friend ko, salary lang ng husband ang income nila. AFAIK both their parents are helping them out financially pa (eg they live in a house owned by her parents so no rent and maintenance is paid for by her parents pa rin)

[uls]

dami nga sa pinas ung misis ang nagtatrabaho tapos sa bahay lang ung mister

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kakaiba din mga pinay

western women would have left their husband long ago

pero tanggap ng mga pinay ang ganyan setup

[uls]

kaya madami underachiever na pinoy

pinoys don't really need to strive for success para may pumatol sa kanila

diskarte lang... pa-inlab-in lang ang babae

[Little Missy]

Nasa culture din siguro, may societal pressure kasi sa mga babae to get hitched at maging mommy kaya they are settling.

I can't count ilang beses ako biniro ng mga kapitbahay naming tatay/tito na mag asawa na.

Even Heart Evangelista got bullied by netizens for being childless. Tingin nila mas better sila kay Heart kasi nanay sila lol.



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[uls]

in other asian countries if a man doesn't have a condo (tawag nila apartment) good luck finding a wife

there's pressure on men to be ready to support a family bago makipagligawan

pressure to finish school, get a job, become a professional, mag business...

dito walang pressure

ligawan muna... tsaka na problemahin ang pera pag may pamilya na

kaya madami OFW

if pinays demanded more from pinoys before giving them s#x, the whole landscape will change

when men in your society only need diskarte/pambobola to get s#x, there's no incentive to do more (like become a provider)

[shadow]

dami nga sa pinas ung misis ang nagtatrabaho tapos sa bahay lang ung mister

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kakaiba din mga pinay

western women would have left their husband long ago

pero tanggap ng mga pinay ang ganyan setup

Uso na din yan sa America. Kung mas malaki talaga kita ng babae eh di househusband na lang meron pa magbantay sa anak


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[_Cathy_]

Uso na din yan sa America. Kung mas malaki talaga kita ng babae eh di househusband na lang meron pa magbantay sa anak


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Maybe among pinoy couples na nurse or medical field yung wife, pero I think that is rare sa Caucasians.

Ang hirap respetuhin ng houseband. That's so against nature/biology. Role reversal, that can't be good for the children.

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