Are you single or married?

[dr. d]

Great opportunity doc!

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yespo!
these are modern times.
tapos na yung nakaraang naghihintay lang sa bahay, naka-upo sa sofa.
nowadays, one might go out on missions or reconnaissance maneuvers.

"if mohammed will not go to the mountain, the mountain will go to mohammed,"

[travajante]

yespo!
these are modern times.
tapos na yung nakaraang naghihintay lang sa bahay, naka-upo sa sofa.
nowadays, one might go out on missions or reconnaissance maneuvers.

"if mohammed will not go to the mountain, the mountain will go to mohammed,"

Had you a choice, doc....Simpler or modern times?[emoji16]

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[Gumusut_Amige]

yespo!
these are modern times.
tapos na yung nakaraang naghihintay lang sa bahay, naka-upo sa sofa.
nowadays, one might go out on missions or reconnaissance maneuvers.

"if mohammed will not go to the mountain, the mountain will go to mohammed,"

will do the same especially if time is running out!

[uls]

parents to teen children: "anak tapusin muna pag aaral huwag muna mag bf/gf"

masunurin na children: "opo"

parents to single children in their 40s: "anak, wala ka ba nililigawan? / wala ba nanliligaw sayo?"

haha

[shadow]

Sobrang taas talaga ng value ng single and successful men in their 40s.

My Mom had lunch with her HS classmates today and she told me that one of her classmates mentioned that she has a DOCTOR bachelor son that's 47. My Mom said she has a single daughter (me) Then 2 other classmates said they also have daughters that are still single. Same age range naman (though my Mom had me late)

My Mom told her classmates "nauna na ko" (me for the doctor son) HAHAHA! That's all in jest naman. Problema nila ngayon mga anak nila sa single pa

Bading yun anak.


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[Little Missy]

Sobrang taas talaga ng value ng single and successful men in their 40s.

My Mom had lunch with her HS classmates today and she told me that one of her classmates mentioned that she has a DOCTOR bachelor son that's 47. My Mom said she has a single daughter (me) Then 2 other classmates said they also have daughters that are still single. Same age range naman (though my Mom had me late)

My Mom told her classmates "nauna na ko" (me for the doctor son) HAHAHA! That's all in jest naman. Problema nila ngayon mga anak nila sa single pa

May nagbigay sakin na guy ng unsolicited opinion. A woman daw can be single at 40 and still be a catch pero pag guy daw unlikely. Didn't understand him at first but after talking to those guys, parang I now get it na lol. He can be successful pero emotionally unavailable, hindi marunong mag handle ng date/ getting to know phase, doesn't know how to treat a woman right, basta something to do with his personality and character.

Parang ang sweet spot is guys in their 30s. Yung mga guys na natatauhan na at gusto na magsettle down. Mas progressive daw and open to learn.

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[shadow]

Basta 40+ male and still single. Bading yan.


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[_Cathy_]

May nagbigay sakin na guy ng unsolicited opinion. A woman daw can be single at 40 and still be a catch pero pag guy daw unlikely. Didn't understand him at first but after talking to those guys, parang I now get it na lol. He can be successful pero emotionally unavailable, hindi marunong mag handle ng date/ getting to know phase, doesn't know how to treat a woman right, basta something to do with his personality and character.

Parang ang sweet spot is guys in their 30s. Yung mga guys na natatauhan na at gusto na magsettle down. Mas progressive daw and open to learn.

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My belief naman is that applies for BOTH men and women. When we were in our 30s my UF and I were talking about how being single in our 30s is like having a sign in our forehead that there's something wrong with us (issue/trauma) LOL.

Si UF naman (as in Unicorn friend), code name pala sa kanya ng girls "Miss Perfect". She's the type na hated by women because she has it all. Had her first BF at 38, he proposed after 3 months. Swerte ng guy because he came at the right time na goal ni UF to marry kasi dati lahat ng guys busted.

Sa Bumble, dun mo makikita why people in their 30s to 50s are in dating apps. Pero sa office namin meron mga kinasal na sa dating app nagkakilala kaya yung friend ko si He Huang umaasa.

Basta 40+ male and still single. Bading yan.

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There will always be exceptions. Yung Uncle ko na pinaka guapo sa angkan namin remained single all his life. But it looks like an act of rebellion kasi lahat ng GF na pinakilala niya tutol Lola ko. Lahat kami nanghihinayang sa genes niya

Pwede din financially unstable pero ang taas ng standards like my 5 yr ex, my little cousin is in his late 30s, papunta na rin dun.

[uls]

sinabi ko kay friend ung sinabi ni shadow

pag lalake 40+ single = bading

tinanong ko kung mukha ako bading



parang gusto niya awayin

hehe

[misseksaherada]

Basta ang alam ko ayaw mag-commit sa added responsibility both male and female na nakausap ko (30+ age).. Hindi pa din daw nila ma-imagine mag-alaga ng kids..
Naiisip ko din yan.. May mali sa personality ko.. [emoji23]

[_Cathy_]

Im ready to get married and have children since I was 28 but I don't wanna make the wrong choice. I know that my husband can make or break my life so I'd rather be single than make a mistake

I subconsciously sabotage all my relationships and tend to end it parati kaya I know I'm the problem talaga.

Sobrang lakas ng nurturing and maternal instincts ko, even my friends say that, kaya kay Fat lab ko na binubuhos haha

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[misseksaherada]

Im ready to get married and have children since I was 28 but I don't wanna make the wrong choice. I know that my husband can make or break my life so I'd rather be single than make a mistake

I subconsciously sabotage all my relationships and tend to end it parati kaya I know I'm the problem talaga.

Sobrang lakas ng nurturing and maternal instincts ko, even my friends say that, kaya kay Fat lab ko na binubuhos haha

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Lumaki kasi ako na walang kids sa bahay, never ko naranasan mag-bantay ng bata..
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Naiisip ko na mahirap mag-working mom kahit may yaya kailangan mo pa din alagaan sa gabi.. Tapos kapag 2-3 years old na ang taas ng energy..
Kaya mga katrabaho ko na may anak 4 hours lang nagta-trabaho, minsan nga online lang di nagta trabaho, lugi kami na mga single.. [emoji28] Kaya nga hindi kami nagpamilya kasi focus sa work, ayun pala kami magsa-sacrifice para sa pagiging working mom ng iba.. Dalawa kasi yung katrabaho ko na nanay, parehong ginagamit na excuse ang babies nila.. Charity work, bayad sila ng kumpanya sa pag-aalaga ng anak nila.. [emoji1303] (excuse po sa mga working moms, gusto ko lang mag-rant dito hehehe [emoji23])
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Tapos iniisip ko pa, mag-iisip na din kung ano ang uulamin, mga labahin, iba pang gawaing bahay, etc.. Ang dami-dami na responsibilidad.. Kapag mayaman, baka madali lang magpamilya dahil madami naman ang kasambahay..

[uls]

Hindi pa din daw nila ma-imagine mag-alaga ng kids. Naiisip ko din yan.

imagine mo din kung ready ka mag alaga ng mister

mas mahirap daw yan kesa mag alaga ng anak

hehe

[misseksaherada]

imagine mo din kung ready ka mag alaga ng mister

mas mahirap daw yan kesa mag alaga ng anak

hehe

Ganun ba? Baka hindi ko lang napapansin sa friends ko.. Mga husbands kasi nila ang maalaga [emoji16]..
Nakakatawa nga kapag nagkukwento, yung mga asawa daw nila ang mabunganga..
Yung pinsan ko din, nung new year yung husband nya bumangka.. Ang dami reklamo sa gawaing bahay, sya din kasi ang maasikaso.. [emoji4]

[Little Missy]

Ganun ba? Baka hindi ko lang napapansin sa friends ko.. Mga husbands kasi nila ang maalaga [emoji16]..
Nakakatawa nga kapag nagkukwento, yung mga asawa daw nila ang mabunganga..
Yung pinsan ko din, nung new year yung husband nya bumangka.. Ang dami reklamo sa gawaing bahay, sya din kasi ang maasikaso.. [emoji4]

Yung brother ko ganyan noon, nakikita ko nung nakitira sila samin nung bagong panganak misis niya. Siya na nagwowork, sa bahay siya pa naglalaba and luto and hugas pinggan. Si wife focus lang talaga sa baby. I used to think na lugi brother ko pero now I realized hindi pala, green flag pala yun. Provider protector servant leader energy lol. (Kung mayaman si husband na hindi mo mapaglalaba ang equivalent nito yung magbayad ng help para kay wife).

Yung wife niya nurse pero hindi na nagwork. Full time house wife. As a loving tita to my niece lol, mas okay nga naman for me na siya ang nag aalaga kesa magwowork siya tapos kukuha Yaya (though wala masama kung afford pero hindi dapat maneglect ang bata). Yun, ang ganda ng pagpapalaki nila dun sa bata tapos ang talino. Kaya minsan I give financial help pero pinapalabas ko bigay ko yun sa niece ko.

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[uls]

Ganun ba? Baka hindi ko lang napapansin sa friends ko.. Mga husbands kasi nila ang maalaga [emoji16]..

sabagay it's unlikely makikilala ko mga babaeng happily married happy sa mister nila

wala na sila sa circulation

mga nakikilala ko puro failed relationships hehe

puro reklamo sa lalake mga naririnig ko

[uls]

[misseksaherada]

Yung brother ko ganyan noon, nakikita ko nung nakitira sila samin nung bagong panganak misis niya. Siya na nagwowork, sa bahay siya pa naglalaba and luto and hugas pinggan. Si wife focus lang talaga sa baby. I used to think na lugi brother ko pero now I realized hindi pala, green flag pala yun. Provider protector servant leader energy lol. (Kung mayaman si husband na hindi mo mapaglalaba ang equivalent nito yung magbayad ng help para kay wife).

Yung wife niya nurse pero hindi na nagwork. Full time house wife. As a loving tita to my niece lol, mas okay nga naman for me na siya ang nag aalaga kesa magwowork siya tapos kukuha Yaya (though wala masama kung afford pero hindi dapat maneglect ang bata). Yun, ang ganda ng pagpapalaki nila dun sa bata tapos ang talino. Kaya minsan I give financial help pero pinapalabas ko bigay ko yun sa niece ko.

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Wow naman.. Isa sa mga rare kind yung brother mo.. Marami sa mga friends ko na maalaga ang husbands nila..
Tuwing may outing/overnight, ang mga husband ang abala sa pag aalaga ng anak.. Mga friends ko focus lang sa amin.. Iba't ibang group of friends ito (meron sa high school, college and colleagues).. Kapag maganda ang asawa maalaga ang lalaki.. [emoji4]
Mga husbands din nila ok makisama.. Parang friend na din ang turing samin, kaya nakakatuwa.. Meron pa nga pinayagan overnight yung wife nya, hindi sya kasama pero ang dami naman pinabaon na food na luto nya.. Yung wife nya pa ang naiinis kasi ang dami njya daw dala.. hihihi [emoji2960]
May college friend din ako mas devoted yun, tuwing may okasyon sa kanila sya talaga ang busy sa pagluluto at asikaso.. Pero gusto nya talaga, hindi napipilitan, masaya sya na napapasaya nya wife nya at kaming friends nya..

[misseksaherada]

sabagay it's unlikely makikilala ko mga babaeng happily married happy sa mister nila

wala na sila sa circulation

mga nakikilala ko puro failed relationships hehe

puro reklamo sa lalake mga naririnig ko

Kapag nasa 40s na din ako sana may Tsikot pa.. Baka naman meron magbago sa mga currently masaya sa marriage life nila.. Hehehe [emoji16]

[uls]

when you listen to women who are happy with their husband talk about their husband it's always sobra bait ng mister nila

ung life of the husband revolves around the wife and children