Women and their tests!

[blutut]

good faith governs good human relations. smart girls dealing in good faith with boys playing in bad faith...hmmm? we'll see, how far will you both go...

ok so now she's the one dealing in good faith with all her mind games!

[ab_initio]

I don't think they have plans to stay together that long considering the events that transpired.

Like I said, a test of character...

neither am i seeing it that way too...the probability of them staying together is very slim...unless the woman wants to be fanning his man's ego. (sorry, TS) she'll just get tired.

yeah...test of character---how sound your self-confidence is.

[ab_initio]

ok so now she's the one dealing in good faith with all her mind games!

you need not play naman...(i'm lazy backreading this thread, but) you're in a relationship, right?

so why the hell appear from nowhere and rock somebody's otherwise peaceful life? it is giving the girls some hint of you wanting something that you yourself don't know e. well...this has a different high, perhaps.

[empy]

women and men have been playing mind games with each other since the days of Adam and Eve. what else is new?

[blutut]

women and men have been playing mind games with each other since the days of Adam and Eve. what else is new?

exactly!

so make sure you know how to play else you lose...

[blutut]

you need not play naman...(i'm lazy backreading this thread, but) you're in a relationship, right?

so why the hell appear from nowhere and rock somebody's otherwise peaceful life? it is giving the girls some hint of you wanting something that you yourself don't know e. well...this has a different high, perhaps.

no i'm not in a relationship right now...

but the problem is she's playing so i have to as well

but if i had my way i'd skip all these mind games and play a different type of game

[mbeige]

uhhmmm what plans? we just went out 1 time and you're thinking long-term already?

but the problem is she's playing so i have to as well

Nevermind, I understand...

[_Cathy_]

and for the cost of a 20 peso pen I got in exchange an italian dinner worth 700.

she even did the driving back to our city and paid the toll fees while i slept in the car

What I understand from your post is that the girl wants to have the upper hand so she was playing mind games with you but then again sa sobrang galing mo, you were able to turn things around in your favor or in other words supertrump her.

Kasi she paid for dinner, she brought the car, she paid for the toll and I assume pay for the parking as well? I am not saying that men should pay for everything on the first date but to have a woman take care of everything and seemingly be proud of it, tells me something about you.

Don't you find it odd that the girl took care of everything? For all you know, this is part of her mind games. Boosting your ego I suppose? It seems to be working.

[_Cathy_]

Consider this a test of your character as well...

I couldn't agree with you more.

Some people are real characters.

[blutut]

What I understand from your post is that the girl wants to have the upper hand so she was playing mind games with you but then again sa sobrang galing mo, you were able to turn things around in your favor or in other words supertrump her.

Kasi she paid for dinner, she brought the car, she paid for the toll and I assume pay for the parking as well? I am not saying that men should pay for everything on the first date but to have a woman take care of everything and seemingly be proud of it, tells me something about you.

Don't you find it odd that the girl took care of everything? For all you know, this is part of her mind games. Boosting your ego I suppose? It seems to be working.

actually the initial plan was for her pick me up at my house, take me to the coffee place, buy me coffee + 2 desserts, then take me back to my doorstep.

it was a joke coz it's preposterous but she was riding with it coz it was fun.

what actually happened was she left her suv at a safe parking lot and we took my car. I drove to the destination but along the way she said she would drive on the return trip. I let her pay for the restaurant coz that was the agreement I paid for the rides.

It's not like she paid for everything

and i really wasn't sleeping, was just pretending to be asleep... pang-buwisit lang ba hehehehe

[uls]

haha

cool

[_Cathy_]

actually the initial plan was for her pick me up at my house, take me to the coffee place, buy me coffee + 2 desserts, then take me back to my doorstep.

it was a joke coz it's preposterous but she was riding with it coz it was fun.

what actually happened was she left her suv at a safe parking lot and we took my car. I drove to the destination but along the way she said she would drive on the return trip. I let her pay for the restaurant coz that was the agreement I paid for the rides.

It's not like she paid for everything

and i really wasn't sleeping, was just pretending to be asleep... pang-buwisit lang ba hehehehe

It's cute that you let her drive your car. You could have gained more pogi points if you didn't sleep on her.

[uls]

i guess blutut didnt have to impress the girl anymore

he already got into her head

that girl is owned

hehe

[deathlance]

oh, lets see what happens next? serious ka ba dyan blutut or your just there for the fun run?

[uls]

the fun part is the process, there's really no end goal

the flirting part, the mind games, the part kung saan malapit mo na mahuli ung weakness ng girl, when she finally lets down her guard and reveals her true self...

[Lucius]

Some people just don't get it, or is just too serious about the man-woman thing.

Anyway, in my opinion the guy did the job well. Women, like us men eat the same food, takes a crap everyday -- pretty much lives like any other men in this world. So why on earth would you go head over heels someone eh? The perfect 10 woman doesn't exist so as a perfect 10 man. Parepareho lang tayong mga tao.

Trying to impress a girl will get you nothing but a cold night. Just look at DL, he tried his best and yet he DIDN'T score at all. Sometimes, hindi uubra ang pa-gentleman, pa-gwapo or pagpapa-sikat kahit ano pang sabihin mo if you weren't able to pull it off at the start or before you get into the middle.

[Lucius]

the fun part is the process, there's really no end goal

the flirting part, the mind games, the part kung saan malapit mo na mahuli ung weakness ng girl, when she finally lets down her guard and reveals her true self...

Correct, just go with the flow and have fun. So what if you're playing games, everybody does it -- in the office, in school even in your own house sometimes (unconsciously) you're playing mind games with your mom blah blah.

Pag masyado tayong seryoso laging bad vibes. Believe me, put 2 average guys in a diffrent room with 3 pretty girls. Guy A is rich, attractive, but so negative about things and somehow boring. Guy B on the other hand is pretty much the same as Guy A diffrence lang eh si Guy B is more alive and takes things lightly.

Give it an hour or 2, Guy B takes all 3 girls. Guy A leaves alone

[deathlance]

Some people just don't get it, or is just too serious about the man-woman thing.

Anyway, in my opinion the guy did the job well. Women, like us men eat the same food, takes a crap everyday -- pretty much lives like any other men in this world. So why on earth would you go head over heels someone eh? The perfect 10 woman doesn't exist so as a perfect 10 man. Parepareho lang tayong mga tao.

Trying to impress a girl will get you nothing but a cold night. Just look at DL, he tried his best and yet he DIDN'T score at all. Sometimes, hindi uubra ang pa-gentleman, pa-gwapo or pagpapa-sikat kahit ano pang sabihin mo if you weren't able to pull it off at the start or before you get into the middle.

so your point is wag na tayung mag seryoso? at wag na rin mainlove? yun po ba ? hmmm

[uls]

di yan ang point ni Lucius

At the start, don't go to a girl with relationship in mind agad

kung yan ang goal mo agad, you will do things that are kinda awkward

friends muna, barkada muna

[deathlance]

di yan ang point ni Lucius

At the start, don't go to a girl with relationship in mind agad

kung yan ang goal mo agad, you will do things that are kinda awkward

friends muna, barkada muna

ah oki gets na :D point taken