What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[_Cathy_]

wait, si crush ba to? bakit may ex-crush? sino si ex-crush?

same person, I am trying to convince myself na hindi ko na siya mahal pero that's not what my heart says. There are days when I am disappointed in him and want to forget about him, but in the end I still want him. Nararamdaman ko naman kasi na ayaw na niya sakin romantically and I just confirmed it kanina. Masakit pala pag narinig mo na.

Kung sinabi niyang may iba na that would be the easiest way for me to let him go, pero sabi niya wala naman. And yet he won't let me in. I don't want to hurt anymore. Literally ang sakit ng dibdib ko ngayon, may kumikirot sa heart/chest ko. Gusto ko na lang lumaklak ng valium so I could numb the pain.

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[_Cathy_]

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I admit to it naman e. I am jealous of the woman he loves and it always makes me wonder how beautiful, smart, kind and perfect she is.

WTF ka shadow! Naiyak ako sa kanta na yan! I'm gonna lose my mind soon so I am going to consult a psychiatrist even if my family does not want. I finally got Dr Cutie to give me a recommendation, pero bakit kaya puro babae mga psychiatrist?

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I admit to it naman e. I am jealous of the woman he loves and it always makes me wonder how beautiful, smart, kind and perfect she is.

WTF ka shadow! Naiyak ako sa kanta na yan! I'm gonna lose my mind soon so I am going to consult a psychiatrist even if my family does not want. I finally got Dr Cutie to give me a recommendation, pero bakit kaya puro babae mga psychiatrist?

Baka sa psychiatrist ka naman ma-inlive pag lalake dahil yun ka kausapin ka talaga, your inner thoughts. [emoji23]


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[_Cathy_]

Isa pa yan kasi ex crush knows my innermost thoughts, pag nag kwento kami, agree ako sa lahat, wala kami arguments, politics, religion, fashion, showbiz, food, people etc

Alam mo yung may daily diary ka, someone you look forward to talk to about your day? si SO, we used to talk a lot din pero nagkaka asaran lang kami kasi, madalas taliwas kami ng thoughts, and same din with my ex, I can't stand talking to him anymore.

Yung nanligaw sakin nung college nabuhay din late last year pero hindi na kami same wave length, e dati telebabad kami. He called me jaded and immature Kaya XXX siya ulit sakin!

Pero wala e, nanggaling na kay ex crush na he doesn't want me that way again. Saka yung s3xual advances ko, he makes me feel like I am a leper or have HIV. Pangit na pangit na talaga ko sa sarili ko sa pangyayari.

[Little Missy]

I love this article for how it was written and the practical wisdom and advice.

https://medium.com/*AaronBleyaert/ho...s-1f135f7e1dec


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[BlancNoir]

same person, I am trying to convince myself na hindi ko na siya mahal pero that's not what my heart says. There are days when I am disappointed in him and want to forget about him, but in the end I still want him. Nararamdaman ko naman kasi na ayaw na niya sakin romantically and I just confirmed it kanina. Masakit pala pag narinig mo na.

Kung sinabi niyang may iba na that would be the easiest way for me to let him go, pero sabi niya wala naman. And yet he won't let me in. I don't want to hurt anymore. Literally ang sakit ng dibdib ko ngayon, may kumikirot sa heart/chest ko. Gusto ko na lang lumaklak ng valium so I could numb the pain.

Baliw. Valium wont numb the pain. it will however knock you out for a good 10 to 12 hours. Then pag gising mo ganon ulit. Kirot ulit sa dibdib.

Might as well develop a healthier coping mechanism? Like mag alaga ka ng plants? Magluto ka? Learn a new language para you can tell him you love him/or murahin in different languages?

Also, cut your hair short! Hehe

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[Ry_Tower]

Also, cut your hair short! Hehe

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This is a nice suggestion! Para poging cathy!!!

[dr. d]

I love this article for how it was written and the practical wisdom and advice.

https://medium.com/*AaronBleyaert/ho...s-1f135f7e1dec


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short version:
"everything comes to he who waits."

[_Cathy_]

Baliw. Valium wont numb the pain. it will however knock you out for a good 10 to 12 hours. Then pag gising mo ganon ulit. Kirot ulit sa dibdib.

Might as well develop a healthier coping mechanism? Like mag alaga ka ng plants? Magluto ka? Learn a new language para you can tell him you love him/or murahin in different languages?

Also, cut your hair short! Hehe

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Yes I know it won't numb the pain but when I am asleep I feel no pain. I have no patience for plants. I know how to cook, diba tinatanggihan nga ni crush yung luto ko? I took too many language courses already and not interested anymore. Bottomline, wala akong gana sa lahat ng bagay

I want to cut my hair nga, had it cut short in Jan pero I have no intention to go to a salon until there is a vaccine. Hayaan ko na yan umabot ulit ng waist

This is a nice suggestion! Para poging cathy!!!

Short hair na ko nung Jan (shoulder length) pero ngayon mahaba na naman

short version:
"everything comes to he who waits."

dr, I've waited a very long time. But no good thing has come to me. Ex crush gave me one of my most painful rejections kanina, ang sakit sakit talaga na feel ko hindi siya nasaktan sa pag iyak ko and to tell me na there is no button for him to push to want me again Until now kumikirot chest ko.

He gave me something to look forward to but I feel like my life is hopeless. The love of my life does not love me, I have no career, I'm in bad shape and I'm OLD. I feel this sense of doom kaya I want professional help na.