What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[_Cathy_]

I'm not stuck in HS naman, a lot of tragedies happened kasi after HS but even up until my mid 20s on track pa yung goals/plans sa buhay ko. Nag down hill na lang in my late 20s and I don't know paano pa ko makaka ahon

It also does not help when others put down people my age It's like short of saying, you've gone past the age where you can still turn your life around.

I talk to my friends about crush naman, they've been very encouraging. but I think I should stop making my life revolve around him, I'm being realistic at mukhang malabo na that it will turn romantic, but I think we can remain friends

May sinabi kasi si crush kanina, na almost 70% na ko na he has no s3xual attraction towards me na, and that is so important in a romantic relationship. without that, friends lang talaga diba? Mukhang yun naman ang gusto niya talaga, at least I won't make him feel awkward anymore with all the fan girling.

Focus ko lang ngayon to be healthy again and strengthen my immunity. I want to live longer even if my life is sh1tty.

[thenightcrawler]

May sinabi kasi si crush kanina, na almost 70% na ko na he has no s3xual attraction towards me na, and that is so important in a romantic relationship. without that, friends lang talaga diba? Mukhang yun naman ang gusto niya talaga, at least I won't make him feel awkward anymore with all the fan girling.

Focus ko lang ngayon to be healthy again and strengthen my immunity. I want to live longer even if my life is sh1tty.

What did he tell you?

Masarap magpaganda after maheart broken .. Liberating.. Sarap sa pakiramdam.. Parang Ganda Ganda mo after, empowered ka to meet and love again .. Haha

You'd be surprised when you realize how easy it is to have a new and happy life.. You just have to make a decision.

Let's go and get busy! Hehe



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[_Cathy_]

I told him I had an x rated dream about us and he said wag ko na ikwento (blocked kaagad haha) But he was nice enough to ask me about the wholesome parts (my dream was we were in a yacht) He asked me where were we daw and he remembered a detail about me, he said, "don't you hate the beach?" (I do hate the beach)

I won't push the romance aspect anymore, I will let him take the lead, if it's just friendship he wants, fine by me also. Ang importante lang he is still in my life.

Now I have to figure out how to get rid of this crazy s3xual attraction for him, ako rin kasi nahihirapan, it's unrequited. Nasisira pagka rational/objective ko e hehe

[BlancNoir]

You just need a man that will treat you right. [emoji16]

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[_Cathy_]

That cannot make me fall naman. I dated good men when I was younger, admittedly most ended because it was my fault. Pero none that I was as crazy for as crush. Considering ang iksi ng relationship namin. Oh well, dati kasi we were as crazy for each other, but I have to accept na baka di na bumalik yun. Also, it takes more than looks to turn me on, it's the combination of specs ni crush.

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[uls]

You just need a man that will treat you right. [emoji16]

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wala naman yata na-date si Cathy who treated her wrong

gentleman naman lahat

[_Cathy_]

wala naman yata na-date si Cathy who treated her wrong

gentleman naman lahat

Oo nga e, dunno what gave that impression that I dated aholes

I won't even consider a man that is crass or uncouth

I know I complain about my ex and SO pero those are guys I've known for decades at siyempre yung mga unusual nakakainis napo post ko. Other men I dated, wala ako masasabing masama naman, it's only now that I realized na I get easily turned off for ridiculous reasons.

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[uls]

you dumped those poor guys for ridiculous reasons

[BlancNoir]

Oh my bad. Did cathy dump them kasi she ia still hung up kay crush?

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[uls]

Oh my bad. Did cathy dump them kasi she ia still hung up kay crush?

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no no

I meant the guys Cathy dated in her past like during her 20s... puro mga konyo well bred

Puro mga naturuan ng magulang so wala naman nadate si Cathy who didn't treat her like a lady

Kaya I replied to you wala naman nadate si Cathy na guy who treated her wrong

Sayang lang Cathy dump all of them