What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[Gumusut_Amige]

I just want a stable loving relationship. I won't forget what the guy I dated back in 2011 told me "You can't handle having a normal relationship" Alam ni uls yan, halos ma nervous breakdown ako.

a relationship will work out if it's two-way. di pwede na isa lang ang magpaparaya and you have to know when.
kahit sinasabi namin na "happy wife, happy life" meron din syang imaginary fine thin line kung hanggang saan ang kaya naming ibigay.

[_Cathy_]

a relationship will work out if it's two-way. di pwede na isa lang ang magpaparaya and you have to know when.
kahit sinasabi namin na "happy wife, happy life" meron din syang imaginary fine thin line kung hanggang saan ang kaya naming ibigay.

Patriarchal kasi family namin kaya hindi ako naniniwala sa happy wife happy life. Lol. Bata pa ko I grew up hearing na ang lalaki pinagsisilbihan. Mom ko nga kulang pa sa silbi sa Dad ko kaya minsan napag sasabihan ng Lola ko (Dad's Mom) hahaha. Lola ko sobra maalaga yun.

Anyway, gusto ko talaga pagsilbihan si crush. I wish he would let me.

Alam mo balak ko pa nga mag enrol massage course sa tesda hahaha! Yung luto kasi di siya mahilig sa food. Pero yung kapatid ko sinabihan din ako napaka importante yung pagsilbi at pag alaga. I'd be the happiest person if I could help him get dressed up and take care of everything he needs. In turn, his presence gives me comfort and makes me feel protected

Sana he won't keep on hurting and making me feel disappointed, dunno kung gusto ba niya ko ma fall out of love?

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[uls]

hindi na kami magkakabalikan? like we can't have a romantic relationship anymore? yung kina inlove ko nga yung intensity namin e.

so friends na lang talaga? akala ko pag naguusap na kami ni crush hindi na ko iiyak, was I so wrong...

look, everyone who knew you long enough eventually discover the same thing -- that you're a brat

ex boyfriends, si SO mo, your officemates, your boss, me...

your crush also discovered the same thing (poor guy hehe)

after that i don't know how things can be the same again

[_Cathy_]

look, everyone who knew you long enough eventually discover the same thing -- that you're a brat

ex boyfriends, si SO mo, your officemates, your boss, me...

your crush also discovered the same thing (poor guy hehe)

after that i don't know how things can be the same again

Kahit ganito ako I have tight circles, some friends I've known since grade school. Tawang tawa ka sa tawag sakin sa office na B but I don't get pikon at all :P

That's exactly the reason why I need an alpha male SO, because I need someone with a personality strong enough to manage me. I need a man that I respect and look up to. When I was with crush he was able to establish a routine with me, something that even my boss could not do

Re my boss, we have a good relationship in the 10 yrs that we have worked together, may anak nga daw siya na kindergarten sa office - that's me LOL! Masunurin ako, if my boss says jump, I say how high, and he is attuned to me, alam niya when he did something to disappoint me. Lahat naman ng boss that I worked with alam ugali ko, swerte ko ang babait nila. If I'm that bad, why are the people around me nice to me?

Anyway, are you saying we can't get back together anymore? or it is possible pero guarded na siya sakin? I am tired of heart breaks, gusto ko lang ng tahimik at stable na relationship and I want that to be him. I know it will be challenging given the complications, pero sabi naman ng friends ko, crush can handle it. Sino ba nagsabi na love is a decision.

I really can't imagine myself getting intimate with any other guy that him. I am so crazy in love with him, so handsome, s3xy, intelligent and all other superlative positive adjectives I could think of

[ray_noel]

I Read an online article...

So what is love then?

Love is there in the good times, and especially in the bad times. It isn’t only present during the highs and disappears during the lows.

Love is deliberate action. It is about consciously making the choice to put in the effort and the commitment into the relationship.

Attraction, good looks, lust and intense feelings may be something that just happens, but that true love after the sparks have long fizzled out require our effort and willingness to make it all work.

Blinded by "love"? 11 signs that what you're experiencing isn't love |i

As they said, different writer, differwnt story...
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[uls]

Re my boss, we have a good relationship in the 10 yrs that we have worked together, may anak nga daw siya na kindergarten sa office - that's me LOL! Masunurin ako, if my boss says jump, I say how high, and he is attuned to me, alam niya when he did something to disappoint me. Lahat naman ng boss that I worked with alam ugali ko, swerte ko ang babait nila. If I'm that bad, why are the people around me nice to me?

coz you're their friend not girlfriend

as a girlfriend iba yun

you're a lot of work

[uls]

pero sabi mo nga your crush can handle you

[_Cathy_]

pero sabi mo nga your crush can handle you

Yes. I look up to him more now seeing how he handled the pandemic. I expect everyone to have some kind of anxiety or depression but his strength of character is really something. He is so in control and take charge, so totoo nga talaga na these high powered executives are really excellent at separating emotions from problems, kasi he was more busy with work during the lockdown , kung ako yun baka nga nag breakdown na ko, pero siya he just does what needs to be done, no complaints whatsoever. Ako sobrang worried with him going out then he just says "I'm taking all precautions" Wow talaga, siya talaga kailangan ko sa buhay ko to balance my neurotic side

[misseksaherada]

sana hindi ako nag-backread.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23] duda na tuloy ako sa sarili ko kung sociopath nga ako...
Check ko nga kung meron free online test sa sociopath..

[misseksaherada]

Ma"am Cathy, lower your expectations po para di ka ma-sad.. [emoji3590]