[Split:] When is the right time to get married?

[morrissey_05]

when you think you have had enough of being a bachelor.

[66bunny]

They say love is blind, that's true but marriage is the real eye-opener.

[Karding]

dapat kasi para di ako magsisi sa pakakasalan ninyo ehh iverify muna ninyo sa census para di ako maloko...sana may diciplinary action na ibigay sa member dito na niloko ang family niya...just bcoz gusto pumunta sa US nagpakasal sa iba...db nakakaloka ipinagpalit ang pamilya dahil sa ambisyon na di naman tama.....kilala ninyo tinutukoy ko.......

cno ang mahiwagang member na itooooo :hihihi:

BlueBimmer, hang in there bro. Im sure it will work out fine. Kagaya ng sinabi ni jigs, adaptation, patience and open communication. Optional naman kung isasama mo ang sarili mong God sa relationship nyo. In our case, God is in between our relationship as I have learned it from Engaged Encounter Retreat.

Changes, very true. I just sold my 2004 Civic to afford buying a townhouse, furnitures, and appliances. Not once na nagsisi ako when I sacrificed my own luxury.

3 more months for my fiancee and I!

[Rediesel]

dapat kasi para di ako magsisi sa pakakasalan ninyo ehh iverify muna ninyo sa census para di ako maloko...sana may diciplinary action na ibigay sa member dito na niloko ang family niya...just bcoz gusto pumunta sa US nagpakasal sa iba...db nakakaloka ipinagpalit ang pamilya dahil sa ambisyon na di naman tama.....kilala ninyo tinutukoy ko.......

Why don't you name names?

Hindi nga naman tama yan kung sakaling totoo.

[Karding]

dapat kasi para di ako magsisi sa pakakasalan ninyo ehh iverify muna ninyo sa census para di ako maloko...sana may diciplinary action na ibigay sa member dito na niloko ang family niya...just bcoz gusto pumunta sa US nagpakasal sa iba...db nakakaloka ipinagpalit ang pamilya dahil sa ambisyon na di naman tama.....kilala ninyo tinutukoy ko.......

Baka naman para din sa kapakanan ng pamilya nyo yon? Fixed-marriage na tinatawag para lang magkaroon ng Green Card. Hindi ko alam kung anong ambisyon sa buhay ang hindi tama. Usually, ang ambisyon eh para mabuhay ng maginhawa. Pero kung totally na iniwan kayo, mali nga yon.

[IceColdBeer]

Congrats BB!

Hmmm sino kaya yung member na yun?

[BlueBimmer]

be open to her suggestions on the wedding preparations... usually, we guys tend to be "too practical" when it comes to this event... but to the girls this is a very BIG thing for them.

by the way, kwento naman ng proposal moment mo... hehehe...

well mahyain kc cya..di nga romantic proposal ko e parang tanong lng hehe sumthing along the lines of "gus2 mo ba gawin na natin permanent ito?" and "dun din naman punta natin e..lets do it na"

onga pla, pag married na panu na mga 'collection' ko mga bro? tapon ba hehehe...

[IceColdBeer]

Dapat pagpasok pa lang nyo ng bahay, impose mo kagad authority mo by saying "sino ba masusunod sa ating dalawa? di ba ikaw?" hehehe. Joke lang pero yung mga "collections" mo pwede mo muna itago hehehe.

[RafRaf]

baka magamit niyo din pareho yung collection mo.... depende kung ano collection yan... at kung open siya sa mga ganyan...

[BlueBimmer]

collections ko mostly multimedia..full divx n mpg videos courtesy of bit*******
panu ko kaya i-open up sa kanya bout this stuff..if u guys were in my shoes how would u tell ur wife bout it and make her like it and not offend her? hehe..

[ARB]

for me financially stable will be the last reason for not getting married. since we as humans will never be contented, we will always say that more, more i need more money. if this is the reason that stops you on marrying then you will never get married. get married and then work your a** off since you have now a spouse to feed and when you have children more work to feed you family, use this as motivation.

dont worry, you will learn to use the bathroom properly, the tv, the lights when you sleep, the bed, the pillows, the blanket, even how you use the toothpaste, how you throw your used clothes around, everything will change, its not that she will have to adapt to you, its also that you have to change for the better. or as they say "be a good dog".

it also will de a be a significant change when you know that she is pregnant, it weems that what yo will be worried about is what how will she feel, need to buy this and that. you will forget to buy things for your beloved car na. he he.

[Karding]

well mahyain kc cya..di nga romantic proposal ko e parang tanong lng hehe sumthing along the lines of "gus2 mo ba gawin na natin permanent ito?" and "dun din naman punta natin e..lets do it na"

onga pla, pag married na panu na mga 'collection' ko mga bro? tapon ba hehehe...

RE: Proposal

Hindi din romantic na de-paluhod ang proposal ko.

Last year on my b-day, we were on our way to Catalina Island off the coast of Los Angeles on-board the helicopter when I proposed and said, "Lets make it official sweetie..."

RE: Collections

I never really had any **** collection so it wasnt a problem, goodluck tho

[kiper]

Basta ako, hindi ako magpapakasal.

Mambabae lang.

[jiggs84]

cno ang mahiwagang member na itooooo :hihihi:

3 more months for my fiancee and I!

congrats in advance.. and good luck Karding.... im sure the countdown has begun...

thats the way to start it... by sacrificing your 2004 civic... hope you end up very well... good that you had your engagement retreat...

hope you beget a child fast... pero.. if you have problems.. just PM me.. am no doctor.. but i teach (no kidding)... hehehehe..

[jiggs84]

so im assuming if i marry her she wouldn't be a demanding wife...a nagger or makulit na palaging nakadikit..parang hulog ng langit ugali nya hehe financially and emotionally im ready to marry..im just making sure i dont make a mistake..

hmm i guess wat im trying to say is nagbabago ba ang babae when she is ur gf then became ur wife?

YES. hindi sa nagbabago sila when you marry them but its more of, you thought you know her too much only to find out iba pala.

same with your comment on - not being a nagger or demanding. maybe now ganun ang ugali niya but only to find out iba pala. and sabi nga ng matatanda - ang pag-aasawa daw ay hindi kanin na isusubo......... etc etc..

so that means, when you get to marry her - yun na yun! wala nang atrasan wala nang palitan. dont mean to scare you but both of you should and would be able to handle those things... because of LOVE...

even you yourself, you become a different person once you marry your spouse. you should become less selfish and more for your wife. and vice versa... thats how it should be for marriage to work out....

uuyyy.. parang obvious na matagal na akong married ah... hehehehe...

[aann]

nung nag-propose ba kyo e may hawak na kyong engagement ring o chka nyo na binigay? ehehehe..

[BlueBimmer]

walang hawak e, di na ata uso ung luhod sabay present ring? hehe

[mazdamazda]

cno ang mahiwagang member na itooooo :hihihi:

BlueBimmer, hang in there bro. Im sure it will work out fine. Kagaya ng sinabi ni jigs, adaptation, patience and open communication. Optional naman kung isasama mo ang sarili mong God sa relationship nyo. In our case, God is in between our relationship as I have learned it from Engaged Encounter Retreat.

Changes, very true. I just sold my 2004 Civic to afford buying a townhouse, furnitures, and appliances. Not once na nagsisi ako when I sacrificed my own luxury.

3 more months for my fiancee and I!

saludo ako sa iyo bro!

[kimpOy]

alam ninyo guys words cannot explain the upside of my life since i got married...
its kinda, a lot of "more" sa buhay ko
more responsible
more preactive ( dati kasi reactive ako)
more patient
more blah blah...
lalo na kapag may anak ka na...
3pm pa lang gusto mo 5pm na para makauwi...(i think this deserves another thread)

[Karding]

congrats in advance.. and good luck Karding.... im sure the countdown has begun...

thats the way to start it... by sacrificing your 2004 civic... hope you end up very well... good that you had your engagement retreat...

hope you beget a child fast... pero.. if you have problems.. just PM me.. am no doctor.. but i teach (no kidding)... hehehehe..

thanks kapatid. Child, we dont have any plan until we finish both our graduate studies.

saludo ako sa iyo bro!

salamat kapatid.

aann,

I said those words while pulling out the ring from my pocket. The movement is very limited kse 4-seater lang yung helicopter. I cant kneel kse naka seatbelt kami all the time while in the air.

I plan on proposing again, this time a more romantic one. Of course, how many women expects to get proposed twice? Now the ring for the second proposal. I'll ask her to take it off kse papalinisan ko. And ini-isip ko na lang eh kung saan ako mag propose, hmmmm.