Si Ma'am CFY on the hot seat again.
I guess late bloomer lang sya kaya medyo confused. Maybe when she experience the real thing she will find the answers.
Unfortunately for filipinos, PMS is an accepted practice nowadays
Just imagine your kids esp your little girl.. Sa panahon ngayon mahirap bantayan yan.
i'm back
re relationships being like business deals
what do you want? what does the other side want?
what do you want from a man?
you wanna be swept off your feet... you want a man's love, attention, loyalty
how do you get that from a man?
will some Prince Charming appear out of nowhere and give you what you want and make you the happiest girl in the world and not ask for anything in return?
dream on
this is the real world
WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?
ask any guy here in tsikot
what made them choose their gf or wife?
what made their gf or wife choose them?
what did they want from the women?
what did the women want from them?
like in business, what did they bring to the table?
the men probably brought their youth and their good looks, their great personalities, their education, their industriousness, their financial assets to the table
what did the women bring to the table?
(the guys can answer that)
this isnt about manipulation
just coz women ask their men for something or ask their men to do something for them isnt manipulation
it's about their part of the deal
Last edited by uls; November 24th, 2010 at 03:51 PM.
now what the hell does this have to do with pre marital *** for women?
it's about discovery
discovering what men are all about thru experience
discovering what men need and want from women
discovering men's strengths and weaknesses
and most important, discovering your power, your leverage, for your part of the deal
it helps women mature faster
experience breaks down misconceptions and assumptions
Last edited by uls; November 24th, 2010 at 04:15 PM.
Its a matter or reference kung gusto mo ng virgin o hindi. As per my experience, mas maganda pa nga kung hindi na virgin kasi hindi mo kelangan mag-hold back ng sasabihin mo or pwede ninyong pag-usapan. Mas open pa nga kayo sa isa't-isa eh, which is for me good.
Somehow namulat ang mata ko na paano nga kung kayo na nga talaga at hindi kayo compatible sa kama. Grounds for annulment of wedding ang incompatibility sa kama. So ano ang gagawin, do the deed!
We do the deed, pero ang akin lang, both of you must be responsible lang. Kung gusto ninyo gawin, gawin ninyo, pero be aware of the consequences like unwanted pregnancy or STD. Di maiiwasan yan lalo na kung mahal ninyo ang isa't isa. Part of relationship na yan and nothing can change that fact.
And I agree sa sinabi ni Uls at GH, doing the deed changes one's personality. Di lang sa babae, kundi pati na rin sa lalake.
So, to answer the question on agree or disagree, I agree para sa stability, compatibility, and security. Disagree kung gusto lang ninyo magparaos/taking advantage at kung hindi i-prapractice ang safe ***.