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[TrueEnthusiast]

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hahaha ano yan? si victoria? yun mga signs yan na nakikita ko kahit saan ako pumunta. kahit nga sa mga drifting cars nakikita ko din yan sticker sa oto nila

[oliver1013]

isa lang yan sa reason nya. pero hindi ko naman sinabi na stop caring. total sa races andyan naman sya para bigyan ako ng support diba?

and lagi nya ako down na wala daw ako ka-skill skill. hindi pa nga nya nakikita capabilities ko. hindi pa nga nya nakikita kung paano ako talaga magdrive. dahil pagkasama ko sya, nahihiya paa ko. natataranta ako kakabunganga nya at dictate sa pagdrive ko.

kung sya naman support ko naman sya sa car shows kahit pagod na pagod ako kakatayo or kakahintay ng whole day para lng ma-judge yun car. kahit it's not my thing i give him my support. pero ako i happen to like racing. gusto nya enthusiast lang ako, as in manood lang.

siguro he got paranoid kasi his friends become very close to me kasi yun isa same driving stlye as me, yun isa naman same na wants to join that particular motorsport. and when it comes to cars, we can all relate to each other, minsan they ask me probs ng oto and i happen to know ano sagot. he said to me "baka mamaya madevelop sila sayo"
WTF?

mag gran turismo ka nalang ate para safe

[TrueEnthusiast]

mag gran turismo ka nalang ate para safe

haha ayaw ko nun walang thrill. hindi mo naman nararamdaman yun adrenaline rush sa games. kahit pa midnight club 3, need for speed, and so on, would never compare to the thrill of driving fast.

BT:

Here's what I think are some of the more common reasons (not arranged in any order of popularity):

1. Maslow's 5th motivational factor - for self gratification
(because it is there, for the challenge);

2. for variety (someone once said that variety was the spice of life, to try something new, comparison shopping, to find out if he got the raw end of the deal);

3. katuwaan (just for the kicks of it);

4. to reach a different level of mental and/or physical satisfaction (can't get it from home);

5. testing lang to see if he still has 'it' (insecurity check, test post please ignore);

6. kalibugan (just plain ***-starved, el pito caliente no conoce pariente <a hot prick does not recognize relatives>);

7. bored, needs some excitement in life;

8. role playing (be what he cannot be in real life);

9. feels good to be loved by so many (he just wants to be loved, can loving be so wrong?);

10. it's forbidden (wants to see if he can get away with it);

11. status symbol (feels good bragging about it to the barkada, one more notch on the pecker);

12. god's answer to women (they need to try his to know what life is all about, if not him then who?);

13. they asked for it (he was tempted and was too weak to resist, sapagkat tayo ay tao lamang, how can one kick a naked Demy Moore out of bed?);

14. love has no boundaries nor limitations;

15. uso kasi ('in' yan, everyone's doing it, so why not?);

16. just kidding pero kumagat naman, so might as well see it through;

17. it started just being friends and it blossomed into a full-blown affair (hindi niya sinasadya, 8 hrs/day 5 days/wk exposure tends to create sparks that can catch fire); => this sucks!

18. madaling i-confess yan (6 Hail Mary's lang ang penance niyan, if the wife finds out he'd just break down and confess and ask to be forgiven);

19. el pito caliente no conoce pariente (a hot prick does not
recognize relatives).

[cktlcmd]

If a guy is over possessive...as in you can't move or make a decision on your own, then don't stay with him. He's not going to change...and that's a fact. It's a sign of deep insecurity.

Old stupid Filipino beliefs needs to thrashed.

I do not believe in sacrificing ones happiness for the sake of the kids...if this is your reason for staying with your husband. Life is short and precious, you need to live it fully while you are still young. Even if you are both together but you fight everyday, it is unhealthy not just to both you and your husband but it creates more damage to your kids. Trust me on this.

[cktlcmd]

i chose him because of the kids, i can sacrifice my own personal happiness for the sake of my kids.

he is selfish and he is not open to making any sacrifices and he won't compromise. natitiis lang ako kasi i love my kids so much. even if it meant that i have to be miserable for the rest of my life.

FYI i have been physically, emotionally, psychologically battered for 7yrs of our miserable married life. that's why i have been ranting because i don't have anyone to talk to and nobody will ever understand the pain, misery and torture i have gone through and going through.

so yan if im so selfish i will really do it, i'd race to my heart's content.

hindi ko naman napapabayaan responsibilities ko i just want him to cut me some slack and let me be happy kahit na konti lang. life is short, i just want to enjoy the remaining time i have here. you can never tell baka bukas or the next day i may die of a freak accident.

This I don't agree...why sacrifice your own happiness? Your kids will understand you when they grow up. The "M" in marriage does not mean "Martyrdom".

Your husband is blackmailing you with your kids...why not do the same to him. I am a strong believer of the golden rule..."Don't do unto others what you don't want them done unto you". Just disappear suddenly and don't come back till he begs you. If your kids are big enough, explain it to them or take them with you.

[chua_riwap]

Sagasaan mo na lang asawa mo. Ha-ha! Problem solved........

[SIZE="1"](joke!)[/SIZE]

[CVT]

Here's what I think are some of the more common reasons (not arranged in any order of popularity):

13. they asked for it (he was tempted and was too weak to resist, sapagkat tayo ay tao lamang, how can one kick a naked Demy Moore out of bed?);

Puwede bang hindi si Demi Moore?.... :hysterical:

17. it started just being friends and it blossomed into a full-blown affair (hindi niya sinasadya, 8 hrs/day 5 days/wk exposure tends to create sparks that can catch fire); => this sucks!

Ang kahoy, kahit na nababad sa tubig,- pag isinalang sa apoy, pilit magdirigkit.... I like the word,- 'spark'.... :naughty2:

18. madaling i-confess yan (6 Hail Mary's lang ang penance niyan, if the wife finds out he'd just break down and confess and ask to be forgiven);

Maraming ganito kakitid ang utak.....

19. el pito caliente no conoce pariente (a hot prick does not
recognize relatives).

Mamili ka naman.....Hindi lahat talo....

9000:snowfight1:

[CVT]

FYI i have been [SIZE="4"]physically[/SIZE], emotionally, psychologically battered for 7yrs of our miserable married life. that's why i have been ranting because i don't have anyone to talk to and nobody will ever understand the pain, misery and torture i have gone through and going through.
.

Iba na iyan kapag sinasaktan ka na niya....

9000:snowfight1:

[oliver1013]

Kaya Madam True, kung gusto mo gawin, gawin mo na, then lets see what happens, sabi mo minsan lang tayo mabuhay so this is it go for it. BTW ano type of race ba gusto mo salihan? Mga drag races ng mga kabataan or yung seryoso?

[Quint]

haha ayaw ko nun walang thrill. hindi mo naman nararamdaman yun adrenaline rush sa games. kahit pa midnight club 3, need for speed, and so on, would never compare to the thrill of driving fast.

BT:

Here's what I think are some of the more common reasons (not arranged in any order of popularity):

1. Maslow's 5th motivational factor - for self gratification
(because it is there, for the challenge);

2. for variety (someone once said that variety was the spice of life, to try something new, comparison shopping, to find out if he got the raw end of the deal);

3. katuwaan (just for the kicks of it);

4. to reach a different level of mental and/or physical satisfaction (can't get it from home);

5. testing lang to see if he still has 'it' (insecurity check, test post please ignore);

6. kalibugan (just plain ***-starved, el pito caliente no conoce pariente <a hot prick does not recognize relatives>);

7. bored, needs some excitement in life;

8. role playing (be what he cannot be in real life);

9. feels good to be loved by so many (he just wants to be loved, can loving be so wrong?);

10. it's forbidden (wants to see if he can get away with it);

11. status symbol (feels good bragging about it to the barkada, one more notch on the pecker);

12. god's answer to women (they need to try his to know what life is all about, if not him then who?);

13. they asked for it (he was tempted and was too weak to resist, sapagkat tayo ay tao lamang, how can one kick a naked Demy Moore out of bed?);

14. love has no boundaries nor limitations;

15. uso kasi ('in' yan, everyone's doing it, so why not?);

16. just kidding pero kumagat naman, so might as well see it through;

17. it started just being friends and it blossomed into a full-blown affair (hindi niya sinasadya, 8 hrs/day 5 days/wk exposure tends to create sparks that can catch fire); => this sucks!

18. madaling i-confess yan (6 Hail Mary's lang ang penance niyan, if the wife finds out he'd just break down and confess and ask to be forgiven);

19. el pito caliente no conoce pariente (a hot prick does not
recognize relatives).

True Enthusiast

I don't know if this will work, but here it goes...

If you say you have common friends with the same interests, then why don't you set something up where you can race. If they are his friends too then you probably can create a "cushion" just in case he reacts adversely.

Join a race, a training, etc., with your common friends. Don't tell your hubby just yet. Just ask your friends to invite him (and tell your friends to tell your hubby to invite you) so you both go together. Let's see how he reacts when your friends ask you in front of your hubby to "try it out with the boys and race." Then show him your stuff...

You go girl!