Definitely. My brother told me "first with the mind, then with the heart"
Marriage is really a lottery no? You really don't know what you are getting until after you live as husband and wife. What I meant was when you love someone, you will support his choices and decisions because you love, trust and respect. My Mom cannot help but comment (to me) on women that undermine, control or boss around their husbands/bfs. It's not nice naman talaga