Paano mo malalaman kung in love ka na?

[sean-archer]

Panu malaman if in love?

Edi yung tips sa YouTube,

Sa harap ng guy,
Lumilitaw crow's feet when she laughs
High pitch /excited lagi ang boses
Tatawa sa lamest joke

All true. Haha.

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[_Cathy_]

A trait that is nakaka inlove - when a man is consistent

Not sure if men find this trait desirable in women as well

[dr. d]

A trait that is nakaka inlove - when a man is consistent

Not sure if men find this trait desirable in women as well

"consistent" is good for business.
"no surprises."
'swhy the clown and the bee are very popular.

the wife of a known womanizer was interviewed, as to why she is very loyal to her spouse.
"because he's very loyal to me. no matter who he carouses with in the daytime, he always comes home to me at the end of the day. and he is a good provider to me and our children."

[uls]

meron kami new staff isang 20something guy he added me on fb so i see his posts...

meron siya gf...

a couple of weeks ago he seems to be the happiest guy in the world... kasama niya gf niya kain sila sa labas, malling...

then last week pati this week he was sad-posting... di na nga daw sila nagkikita kasi lagi busy gf niya... tapos wala pa gana makipagchat gf niya

That's disappointing for the guy coz the girl isn't being consistent

i think it also has to do with expectations

he probably thought magiging routine ung makakasama niya gf niya every weekend or something pero hindi pala

and he thought lagi sila magchachat pag hindi magkasama



lesson: manage your expectations

[dr. d]

happiness is not having what you want.
happiness is wanting what you have.

[ray_noel]

Usapang pag-ibig... hehehe...
Cycle din itong pag-ibig... parang politika lang... hahaha...

Me i would know if im inlove if im doing extra mile for the girl na hindi ko ginagawa before and with emotional attachment... kasi pwede rin naman gagawa ng extra mile pero instead of emotion, lust... [emoji4][emoji106]


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[dr. d]

. kasi pwede rin naman gagawa ng extra mile pero instead of emotion, lust... [emoji4][emoji106]


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i'll probably get pomelo'ed for asking this, but
"meron bang pagkaka-iba?"
heh heh.

[ray_noel]

i'll probably get pomelo'ed for asking this, but
"meron bang pagkaka-iba?"
heh heh.

Of course doc... hehehe... alam natin mga guys yan...
[emoji4][emoji1787][emoji16][emoji16][emoji38][emoji1][emoji2][emoji3]


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[Little Missy]

This is weird but If I'm dating a guy tapos it's going well but I ask to end it, it's most likely kasi na-aattach na ako I'm panicking. It's the fear of falling and getting hurt kicking in. [emoji45]

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[_Cathy_]

This is weird but If I'm dating a guy tapos it's going well but I ask to end it, it's most likely kasi na-aattach na ako I'm panicking. It's the fear of falling and getting hurt kicking in. [emoji45]

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I'm exactly like that! I tried so hard to break the cycle but it seems like I'm hard wired to do it. I had a happy childhood, don't come from a broken family, parents give me unconditional love, grandparents and Aunts who gave me everything as well, so I don't know why I have these emotional/psychological issues

A guy I was with me told me "You are not capable of handling a normal relationship". That was in 2011 pero hanggang ngayon nakatatak na sakin. And he was right, I had numerous would be and failed relationships.

So the next time I fell in love, I told the guy that I have a tendency to push away people I love and when I do, please don't give up on me. But he did.

Usapang pag-ibig... hehehe...
Cycle din itong pag-ibig... parang politika lang... hahaha...

Me i would know if im inlove if im doing extra mile for the girl na hindi ko ginagawa before and with emotional attachment... kasi pwede rin naman gagawa ng extra mile pero instead of emotion, lust... [emoji4][emoji106]


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Love and lust, it comes together, at least in my case.

"consistent" is good for business.
"no surprises."
'swhy the clown and the bee are very popular.

the wife of a known womanizer was interviewed, as to why she is very loyal to her spouse.
"because he's very loyal to me. no matter who he carouses with in the daytime, he always comes home to me at the end of the day. and he is a good provider to me and our children."

I'm happy as long as my guy is consistent. It's an extremely admirable trait. Few people can remain consistent not only in relationships but also in health, finances, and work etc

re the wife of known womanizer, my Mom thinks the same. I know this will anger feminists but we have traditional values. My Dad doesn't have kabit though:P My Mom does not believe in hiwalayan kasi, the ONE reason she said I should leave my husband is when he physically hurts me. All others, you work it out. Malas na lang talaga pag natapat sa babaero/walang respeto sa asawa

I think CVT says the share values na your spouse can make or break your life. I truly believe in that (and I am a witness). I do hope I end up with a man as good as my Dad and I will be as good a wife to him as my Mom is to my Dad. I think all children find their parents marriage ideal naman

[uls]

ang "consistent" para kay Cathy ung oras oras araw araw katext/kausap at mabilis mag reply and the guy has to keep that up for 3 months hanggang magpanic si Cathy at siya umayaw

[ray_noel]

ang "consistent" para kay Cathy ung oras oras araw araw katext/kausap at mabilis mag reply and the guy has to keep that up for 3 months hanggang magpanic si Cathy at siya umayaw

Hehehe... iba din si ms cath... im sure may guy swak sa kanya, hindi naman mahirap ang gawin yan pag ang kapalit naman ay ang love and care from ms cath... bonus na yung performance sa bed once married na... and of course yung masarap na ulam pag uwi sa bahay after work... [emoji4]


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[uls]

^^^

omg hindi mahirap ung oras oras kausap at katext ang isang girl?

try mo hehe

di ka na maka trabaho at lagi ka puyat

bigyan kita medal pag nagawa mo 1 month straight heheh

[_Cathy_]

^^^

omg hindi mahirap ung oras oras kausap at katext ang isang girl?

try mo hehe

di ka na maka trabaho at lagi ka puyat

bigyan kita medal pag nagawa mo 1 month straight heheh

Si crush need ng trophy. Haha. I just realised yung pagka baliw ko kay crush, malaking factor yung kaya niya ibigay and even more the time and attention that I needed.

Naninibago ako sa nothing the whole day, I know we're not together anymore pero this feels so different for me siguro dahil our relationship before was really intense.

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[_Cathy_]

ang "consistent" para kay Cathy ung oras oras araw araw katext/kausap at mabilis mag reply and the guy has to keep that up for 3 months hanggang magpanic si Cathy at siya umayaw

This is so true. Pag hindi ako nire reply agad nasasaktan ako (that's if I like the person)

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[uls]

haha

1 year ago pala last post dito sa thread

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kilalang kilala ko si Cathy hehe

[_Cathy_]

haha

1 year ago pala last post dito sa thread

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kilalang kilala ko si Cathy hehe

Yeah I have a tendency to feel unwanted so I leave when a guy is not consistent anymore

Looking back, days before crush and I broke up, I told him na I felt like he is getting sawa of me (less text and calls na kasi)

[_Cathy_]

How does one control lust? Serious question because I think men lust more than women

Bakit naman kasi he already has the character, brains, personality and success in life, ginawa pang guapo!!! Nakakabaliw!!! Sheesh, I now know how men feel like around women that are 10/10

Bigla nawala lahat ng iniisip ko sa buhay

[uls]

ang hirap maging gf si Cathy haha

oo di nga siya magdedemand na magkita kayo araw araw

pero dapat oras oras katext or kausap mo

pag matagal ka magreply makakatanggap ka ng psycho texts haha

[_Cathy_]

ang hirap maging gf si Cathy haha

oo di nga siya magdedemand na magkita kayo araw araw

pero dapat oras oras katext or kausap mo

pag matagal ka magreply makakatanggap ka ng psycho texts haha

hahaha! Effort to text and call < meet up

Once a week is just right, you know naman, I also make a lot of effort when I meet my man

Talagang nat trigger pyscho ko pag hindi reply agad, how hard is it to send a text? Maximum na yan 3 hrs kung nasa meeting. Kaya pag ang sagot sakin lumampas ng 2 hrs ibig sabihin hindi na interested sakin ang lalaki. HIndi ako naniniwala sa busy, kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan