Paano mo malalaman kung in love ka na?

[_Cathy_]

Crush and I

[_Cathy_]

Crush made me cry again...

FROM LAUGHING SO HARD! I love his funny side! What's so s3xy is he is so serious and respectable at work, but when we talk we are just laughing about the silliest things. I can't post it here because it's something only family, close friends and SOs could laugh about :P

And of course, pareho talaga kami ng opinion on topics. He AGREES na we share the same opinion/values on everything EXCEPT my penchant for poverty p0rn and kagalingan character! He knows kags by kwento, yung galit sa Makati at nag coin ng word na True QC LOL

I hope I destressed him din naman kasi his job isn't easy, esp now that they have to reduce their workforce, such a stressful job. I really admire his discipline, dedication and commitment in work. I would love for him to call me everyday, but I understand na currently that is hard sa dami ng work. Hope this china virus goes away na. I STILL want to cook for him

[_Cathy_]

I never get sawa of talking to crush. Sa iba nagsasawa ako 😂

[_Cathy_]

Masaya din kaya siya pag kausap niya ko? I always get bitin when we talk! Dami ko pa gusto i kwento He must be so stressed out with work since he has to be the bearer of bad news (retrenchments) Sa amin din MD ang kasama ng HR sa "talk"

[_Cathy_]

May improvement na si crush because he does not miss a day anymore to text or call me. When will I get to see him kaya and touch him kahit platonic lang haha. There are days when I want him so bad and then days when I feel like cutting ties with him (when he disappoints or hurts me). Ewan ko lang why he refuses to call me on his drive to and from work and I also don't know why I don't turn him on anymore.

[dr. d]

Ewan ko lang why he refuses to call me on his drive to and from work and I also don't know why I don't turn him on anymore.

i do not want to use my phone while driving, either.

[StockEngine]

if there's no Christmas photo together, its not love

[misseksaherada]

May improvement na si crush because he does not miss a day anymore to text or call me. When will I get to see him kaya and touch him kahit platonic lang haha. There are days when I want him so bad and then days when I feel like cutting ties with him (when he disappoints or hurts me). Ewan ko lang why he refuses to call me on his drive to and from work and I also don't know why I don't turn him on anymore.

Nung nagri-research ako nakita ko yung "LIMERENCE".. I-google nyo Ms. Cathy.. Baka makatulong sa pag-manage ng feelings nyo kay crush.. Associated sa low levels ng serotonin and elevated level naman ng dopamine and norepinephrine.. May mga checklist din para maiwasan ang limerence..
Nakaka-amaze lang din talaga how these chemicals work sa brain natin.. Grabe yung physical attraction, once na maisip mo it sends signal from stomach area down.. Tapos sasakit puson.. [emoji23] Tapos makaka isip nga ng iba't ibang scenario.. Kahit aware ka sa reality, mag-take over talaga yung fantasies ng what ifs.. Palakasan na lang talaga ng isip.. Di dapat marupok..
Magpa-chase ka lang Ms. Cathy, kung back na sya sa pagiging consistent sa pag call sayo para kamustahin kung ano naging araw mo.. That's a good sign, kahit as friends lang.. Lalo na yan ang new normal.

[ray_noel]

Nung nagri-research ako nakita ko yung "LIMERENCE".. I-google nyo Ms. Cathy.. Baka makatulong sa pag-manage ng feelings nyo kay crush.. Associated sa low levels ng serotonin and elevated level naman ng dopamine and norepinephrine..

Limerence... hmmm... [emoji3][emoji3][emoji3][emoji3577][emoji3577][emoji3577]



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[_Cathy_]

Nung nagri-research ako nakita ko yung "LIMERENCE".. I-google nyo Ms. Cathy.. Baka makatulong sa pag-manage ng feelings nyo kay crush.. Associated sa low levels ng serotonin and elevated level naman ng dopamine and norepinephrine.. May mga checklist din para maiwasan ang limerence..
Nakaka-amaze lang din talaga how these chemicals work sa brain natin.. Grabe yung physical attraction, once na maisip mo it sends signal from stomach area down.. Tapos sasakit puson.. [emoji23] Tapos makaka isip nga ng iba't ibang scenario.. Kahit aware ka sa reality, mag-take over talaga yung fantasies ng what ifs.. Palakasan na lang talaga ng isip.. Di dapat marupok..
Magpa-chase ka lang Ms. Cathy, kung back na sya sa pagiging consistent sa pag call sayo para kamustahin kung ano naging araw mo.. That's a good sign, kahit as friends lang.. Lalo na yan ang new normal.

lim·er·ence

the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings but not primarily for a ***ual relationship.

Opposite ata kasi yung s3xual attraction ko kay crush ang hindi mawala LOL. Talagang nang gigigil ako sa kanya I get turned on with even the simplest things, sometimes I think, para naman ako manyak kasi he does something so ordinary and it becomes s3xual to me Imagine, him turning pages of documents and I find it hot?

Kanina pala he called me and his secretary interrupted him multiple times and I found it so hot when he told his secretary that it should not need his signature anymore. I asked him about it and I agree na that amount dapat manager level lang (AM pa nga e). I told him I will apply as his secretary and he said hindi ako pwede kasi I am always late HAHAHA! He also told me I get away with murder with my bosses, hmm parang gusto sabihin na sa kanya hindi ako uubra? haha

I'm pleased nga na consistent na siya kasi that's one of his traits na nagustuhan ko. Pero yung emails ko dati first thing in the morning sumagot, ngayon inaabot na ilang araw

[_Cathy_]

Me with crush. I bought sailor moon item with the exact design lol



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[_Cathy_]

Can't sleep, longing for crush. He's my ultimate turn on. I just want to touch his face... at the minimum lol

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[dreamur]

Can't sleep, longing for crush. He's my ultimate turn on. I just want to touch his face... at the minimum lol

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Haay naku Cathy. I though you were over him na. Sumama ka nga sa EB para ma meet up mo si EQ at Whistler. Try mo ibang alpha naman.

[Egan101]

Haay naku Cathy. I though you were over him na. Sumama ka nga sa EB para ma meet up mo si EQ at Whistler. Try mo ibang alpha naman.

Dalawa pa lang yan, kapag isama mo pa si vinj at cast_no_shadow at ninjababes. Buffet na yun!


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[_Cathy_]

Haay naku Cathy. I though you were over him na. Sumama ka nga sa EB para ma meet up mo si EQ at Whistler. Try mo ibang alpha naman.

I thought so too, but I don't know why there are days when I'd be so turned on by him and he is all I think about 24/7. But when he does a seen zone on me or when my suspicion that he has someone else grows kasi he keeps dodging my flirtation, that is what makes me want to cut off ties with him. Siguro if he totally loses me, that is when he will realize that he wants me back, pero I can't totally cut him off for now because I can't imagine myself being intimate with anyone else. I am so patay na patay e HAHAHA

[dr. d]

I thought so too, but I don't know why there are days when I'd be so turned on by him and he is all I think about 24/7. But when he does a seen zone on me or when my suspicion that he has someone else grows kasi he keeps dodging my flirtation, that is what makes me want to cut off ties with him. Siguro if he totally loses me, that is when he will realize that he wants me back, pero I can't totally cut him off for now because I can't imagine myself being intimate with anyone else. I am so patay na patay e HAHAHA

this is such a one-sided conservation.

i wonder what the other side has to seigh...

[_Cathy_]

this is such a one-sided conservation.

i wonder what the other side has to seigh...

What do you mean dr? Wala naman ako sinasalaysay na storya so there is no "other side". Those are just my own thoughts and feelings.

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[bloowolf]

Pag alam mo na hindi ka na na-aarouse tuwing kasama mo sya pero nasa isip mo pa rin sya.


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[CVT]

Pag alam mo na hindi ka na na-aarouse tuwing kasama mo sya pero nasa isip mo pa rin sya.


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Ang lalim nito ha, bro?...

Parehong tao naman iyong 'sya' di ba?..

[bloowolf]

Ang lalim nito ha, bro?...

Parehong tao naman iyong 'sya' di ba?..

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You read my mind. Love is “complicated”


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