Quote Originally Posted by CVT View Post
If he was like a God to you then it is bound to become an unhealthy relationship as you will later discover chipouts in this armor and dead pixels in his lightning bolt. And you will be prone to abuse. It has to be a partnership from the very start.

Maybe a preview of what's coming.... The best is yet to come....
It's just me. I am attracted to men that I can look up to e. I know that there is no perfect person but he is perfect for me. I don't think he will ever abuse me. He respected me. I even told him I think we will last a long time because he knows how to "manage" me.

I agree that marriage is a partnership but in the end it's the man's decision that prevails. The wife is there to support. That's how it is in our family. And I personally I prefer that. I've been making decisions and holding the responsibility in our family (being the only child) since I became an adult so I would rather be with someone who can take the lead. That's why I am very attracted to men that have strong personalities.