Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
Need input please. I am not sure if I am causing more harm than good to my friend's love life. I don't think I am the best person to give her advise because we have opposite personalities. Sa relationships she gives her all, while I am very reserved. She knows the guys I dated and likes how in my relationships (romance and friends) I get so much attention. Hindi ko naman alam paano sagutin tanong niya na how she will get the same kind of attention?

Nagulat nga siya na one of the reasons why I fell out of love on crush kasi I felt like minimum 1 hr of talk time a day means he is not interested in me na and I don't wanna be with a man naman na hindi into me. Siya kasi more than happy na daw siya with one hour a day, with her ex BF of 10 yrs they rarely talk, text or meet up. WTF. He rarely gives her gifts or takes her out on dates so swerte ng BF kasi parang walang saving grace?

So this app guy, they started chatting 1st week of March, he called her thrice pa lang and they only exchange messages daily BUT starting last week very minimal na yung messages at yung guy ang iksi ng message at siya ang haba. Anyway she showed me the exchange at eto payo ko. I told her do NOT initiate messaging the guy, sa relationships ko RARE na mauna ako unless may kasalanan ako or it's business. I also told her stop with the "Have a great day" "Eat lunch na" etc etc OMG I told her to let the guy initiate and show interest at wag niya pakita na dead na dead siya e hindi pa nga nanliligaw, give him challenge naman BUT when he does message e show him a good time

Last week the guy seen zoned her and I told her I will NEVER initiate a message pag ako na seen zone. Aba 4 days pa lang hindi nakatiis at nag initiate ng message kaya I told her straightout she has low EQ hahaha So yesterday nag initiate naman ng Happy Mother's day to her Mom yung buy tapos yung reply inaabot ng 1 hour. In one day 4 na exchange of message. WTF, personally I would not accept crumbs of time from a guy.

Men made new religion, abdicated thrones, started wars for the women they want. I experienced with different men, kahit meeting nakaka ninja text yan, with the guys I dated sobrang dami instances proving na ang lalaki pag gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan. I keep on telling my friend na kaya siya neglected kasi she allows it? Sakin kasi reading their exchange, by my standards hindi na interested yung guy e, pero I dunno kung normal ba yun? 3 calls in 2 months? Never asked to meet? 3 or 4 exchange of message in a day, minsan wala pa?
Kung gusto nya talaga ang guy Ms. Cathy... kahit anong payo pa dyan gugustuhin nya pa rin yan.. Hehehe hindi natin control ang feelings natin..
Matatauhan din yan ng kusa, may kanya-kanya tayong limitation.. Mahirap na masaya yang pinagdadaanan nya.. Buti pa sya may love life ngayong pandemic.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
Sundin lang ang tinitibok ng puso para wala syang "what ifs"..