how do you get over a broken heart?

[gambit5]

'Preng sHoCkAbSoRbEr,

take a vacation para di mo muna sya makita..... happened to me...effective kc naiinggit sya kaya pagbalik ko nagbakasyon din....

parang kailan lang yung mga alaala na yun ........

[kimpOy]

sHoCkAbSoRbEr,

eh talagang mind over matter iyan kasi nga everyday nakikita mo, ultimung katiting na bagay ay ma associate mo sa kanya dahil nga sa memories, tapos in the flesh mo pang kasama, ang masama diyan lalo na kung alam ng boung office na may relasyon kayo dati, dahil kapag nagdala ka o siya ng ibang ka date im sure maraming ang bubulong...

uy si ganito may kasama ganyan etc etc etc...blah blah

advice ko lang ma'am is suffering is optional
it's your choice if you want to suffer from the past, but it is optional, you can also enjoy what lies ahead, suffer? enjoy? parang simple answer

basta everytime sad ka think "suffering is optional"

OTEP, pajerokid
pinag aralan ko kasi ang love life mo otep kaya sensitive na ako ngayon he..he.
PK sama ka sa high peak pati mga secrets ni otep malalaman mo

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

i dont know, pero it somehow eases the pain kapag nalaman mo na nagiging miserable yung ex mo... ehehe.. :twisted:

not that i want her to be miserable. naisip ko lang na siguro most of the hurt comes from a bruised ego.. :roll:

advisable ba ang makipag-fling in this case? :wink:

[kimpOy]

and one more thing minsan what keep us attached to our EX in anger, revenge,
akala mo connected ka pa sa kanya una sa memories, tapos galit!
you cannot let go, if anger and revenge is still in our heart, dapat clean ang heart before
moving on

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

and one more thing minsan what keep us attached to our EX in anger, revenge,
akala mo connected ka pa sa kanya una sa memories, tapos galit!
you cannot let go, if anger and revenge is still in our heart, dapat clean ang heart before
moving on

kaya nga minsan iniisip ko na lang na it's his lost! :wink: altho deep inside eh... hainakew!

gambit5, take a vacation? hmm... i think he's not worth my one day absent... :wink: pagganito naman attitude mo, parang you're showing your weaker side... :roll:

[gambit5]

Mam'

that doesn't mean naman he's the reason ur taking a vacation..... it's for urself sometimes, kailangan ng maiba ng konti yung surroundings at least for a few days.... also it's a good time for soul searching, and other things......

[kimpOy]

hainakew!

hmmm, basta your choice to suffer but its optional, mind you

i've said it time and again, its only time, wala ka talagang magagawa diyan
maybe masaya ka with all your friends pero deep inside your brain, not your heart, hurt ka pa rin
nakaka drain ano
makinig ka na lang sa kanta ni regine "you made me stronger by breaking my heart...."
teka nandiyan naman si otep ah sweet yan, mahilig man harana yan he..he

[Chie8]

paano nga ba?

or what if your beloved other seems to be falling (or has fallen already) for someone? ano gagawin mo?

brokenhearted ka ba? :?:

shopping ka na lng.. nothing beats shopping sa pag mend a broken heart..
or work.. work ng work.. syempre para mey pang-shopping dba?

basta anything that won't make u think or ur ex..

"minsan akala mo love mo pa rin EX mo pero in truth hindi na
you're just in love with memories, ganyan ako dati, akala ko love ko pa
pero hindi na pala, time will just tell to let go of the memories "

this is true...

ngayon evrytime makita ko pic namin.. naiisip ko..
"ANO BA NAGUSTUHAN KO SAYO?!" ..

i remember the boy.. but i dont remember the feeling.. anymore

[logbook]

Chie8, musta na po? ano balita? :mrgreen: ako heart broken? sabi nga ni faye wong...."maybe yes, maybe no" hehehe ....e ikaw? heart broken ka rin ba? ;)

sHoCkAbSoRbEr, ang sagot pala ata sa mga hinaing ng puso ay gawin ang gusto mo....example (accdg to ms chie) shopping, kain ng chocolate, vacation (sabi ni sir gambit), matulog (ok din na idea hehehe).

one thing that makes me feel a little better is to drive (naks, sakto ba sa atin? hehehe) either HARD driving or cruising during sunset or late in the evening. better yet, out of town drive, kahit magisa. peaceful ang dating e....gives you time to think at your own pace. sarap talaga ng feeling. gawin nyo lang ng weekend or holiday.....baka matraffic ka lalu ka lang ma-bad trip hehehe.

kimpOy, resident joe d mango a! hehehe

[cliffjumper]

advisable ba ang makipag-fling in this case? :wink:

parang alak ang fling.. temporary solution, kapag natauhan ka na, nandun pa rin yung chaket sha pusho. eheh .. not unless your attracted to that person.. e di ok. :wink:

in case lang you feel a little depressed.. try eating ice cream, preferably yung chocolate flavor as what logbook said.. i read somewhere na its somekind of anti-depressant, dont know if theres any medical explanation for this pero it works for me.. ehehe, kakain lang din naman kayo e di ice cream na.. :mrgreen:

[gretzy]

der's nothing wrong wid going out...

but it helps not to see the person first... be good to yourself, iwas muna from more pain brought by seeing the person... this is quite effective for me

[OTEP]

teka nandiyan naman si otep ah sweet yan, mahilig man harana yan he..he

Hayuf, binugaw na naman ako ni Kim! :mrgreen:

Pero masarap nga kausap si Kim pagdating sa matters of the heart.

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

sHoCkAbSoRbEr, ang sagot pala ata sa mga hinaing ng puso ay gawin ang gusto mo....example (accdg to ms chie) shopping, kain ng chocolate, vacation (sabi ni sir gambit), matulog (ok din na idea hehehe).

ok din... :wink:

one thing that makes me feel a little better is to drive (naks, sakto ba sa atin? hehehe) either HARD driving or cruising during sunset or late in the evening. better yet, out of town drive, kahit magisa. peaceful ang dating e....gives you time to think at your own pace. sarap talaga ng feeling. gawin nyo lang ng weekend or holiday.....baka matraffic ka lalu ka lang ma-bad trip hehehe.

pero eto mas ok... :mrgreen: a li'l bit of road rage... nature trippin'...

[GlennSter]

sHoCkAbSoRbEr, ang sagot pala ata sa mga hinaing ng puso ay gawin ang gusto mo....example (accdg to ms chie) shopping, kain ng chocolate, vacation (sabi ni sir gambit), matulog (ok din na idea hehehe).

ok din... :wink:

one thing that makes me feel a little better is to drive (naks, sakto ba sa atin? hehehe) either HARD driving or cruising during sunset or late in the evening. better yet, out of town drive, kahit magisa. peaceful ang dating e....gives you time to think at your own pace. sarap talaga ng feeling. gawin nyo lang ng weekend or holiday.....baka matraffic ka lalu ka lang ma-bad trip hehehe.

pero eto mas ok... :mrgreen: a li'l bit of road rage... nature trippin'...

ayosh yan...ill be on a trip to sta rosa laguna-tagaytay next week..all by myself..sarap mag senti....

[preytoryan]

dami yatang naging broken hearted ah, dahil kaya sa tsikot?

-- opismeyt mo kasi sya
torture nga ito, biruin mo love of your life, tapos everyday you see him
and knowing you can just call his name, but not touch him, hold him, kiss him

-- mas masakit kung ang pinalit sa yo eh opismeyt nyo din!
di lang torture to, no words can describe what you feel

ang masasabi ko lang eh, let time heal the wound. follow the advice of the peeps here.
go shopping, keep yourself busy because the moment that you are alone, that's
when you start thinking about him again.

-- eh paano kung matutulog ka na?
read the Bible, or a book. something inspiring na iisipin mo pa rin hangang makatulog

-- fling?
op kors! NO.
this will only complicate matters. because you'll just end up loving him more! why?
because what u'll gonna do is just comparing and comparing the good qualities of your
ex.

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

dami yatang naging broken hearted ah, dahil kaya sa tsikot?

hehe... nawalan ng time para sa kanya... :mrgreen: :wink:

setup na lang muna tayo ng sounds sa oto to forget those stuffs! :mrgreen: :twisted:














orayt!

[pajerokid]

pajerokid,

Dapat kasi sumama ka Hi-Peak. Bunkmate ko si Kim. Napakalawak ng 'sensitive side' niya. Dami kong napulot na aral.

Ika nga niya: "To the wounds that never heals..."

Naks!!! Kipoy the mango ang dating! hehehe :D

Ako dati super sensitive.... pag nakakakita ako ng sunset, naiiyak na ako (ala Brendan Fraser in Bedazzled) hehehe :D

Di bale kimps, im gonna try to make it sa next event. Pagka-isahan natin si Otep. :D

[logbook]

-- eh paano kung matutulog ka na?
read the Bible, or a book. something inspiring na iisipin mo pa rin hangang makatulog

killer yan pag matutulog ka na! :roll: wag naman bible....puro love nakasulat dun....lalu ka lang ma-senti :lol:

i found a book about automotive engineering sa bahay, hehehe...oks na oks! makakatulog ka na, matututo ka pa! :mrgreen:

-- fling?
op kors! NO.
this will only complicate matters. because you'll just end up loving him more! why?
because what u'll gonna do is just comparing and comparing the good qualities of your
ex.

dash true....tried, lalu lang ako na-bad trip. kung di mo type yung susunod sa ex mo, wag mo na ituloy. paikot ikot lang nga yan tulad ng sabi ni sir preytoryan.

[gretzy]

at last lumabas ang serious side of tsikot peeps, galing mag-advice ni kimpoy! pano naman if the person u like is already committed to some1, he feels that she's the girl he wanna grow old wid,but he likes you a lot too n even told you that if he just met u earlier... uve accepted the fact that wat u r having is just a fantasy n u have to face reaLITY SOONER.. so ur trying to move away from him, n mejo naka let go ka na sa feeling but the guy is holding on... ang gulo noh?

[gambit5]

tama!!!!.... long drive na lang..... manila hanggang pagudpud ....ala grand tsikot tour of northern luzon ....... pagdating duon sa maira-ira beach ....camping ---gleng gleng nyan

cguradong makakalimutan nyu heart aches nyo...ehehehehehe....

mahabahabang driving yun lalo pa pag dami mo dalang CDs --- new waves, 80's,

katulad nga ng isang thread dyan.....to the tune of let me in ni Mike Francis habang ng lolong drive papuntang ilocos....