Facebook Dating

[jakewise]

Haha I may be one of the few na lang without a FB account hehe.

ditto, bugsmobile

[minicarph]

...what about your un-married friends?

eh di kahit sino doc, car sales agent, insurance agent, CASA lady guard, customer service,

eh free ka naman eh,

[uls]

been analyzing this life of men talaga

yun kasabihan can't live em, can't live without them

yep

when you're alone, you're gonna seek company. it will creep on you whether you like it or not.

tapos pag may live-in ka na, the tendency is you gonna want space coz everything seems to be being observed, noticed as in every move.

yep

pag wala chicks naghahanap

pag meron na, i wanted space

sa relationships naman, wala eh you gonna need companionship uls.

yep i acknowledge that

bahala na

[uls]

...what about your un-married friends?

i just realized i only have 1 unmarried friend

[uls]

this is data gathered from one of the world's top dating apps

this chart shows that men, regardless of age, are most attracted to women in their early 20s



this is absolutely consistent with what we observe -- ang pinaka in-demand na babae nasa ganyan age

sa economics it's a seller's market -- a situation where there's strong demand for something but supply is limited

so if you're a seller pwede ka maging mayabang -- pwede ka mag presyo nang mataas... presyong ayaw magbenta

if you're a fairly attractive 22 yr old girl, you definitely have tons of friend and message requests from strange men and you can afford to ignore them all

seller's market

to be continued...

[uls]

continuation:

how couples meet

meeting your future honey online has beaten all other methods



now what am i getting at?

balik tayo sa seller's market

there has never been a better time in history for women (in their prime) to look for mates coz the pool of prospects is massive

(baby boomers' and gen X's pool of prospects were much smaller before online dating)

Because young women now have so many prospects there's less pressure to settle (andami alternative eh)

They can always meet someone better



to be continued

[uls]

continuation:

And coz of so many choices it's harder for women to remain mono

and since liberal ideology has separated s#x from love/emotional attachment women have s#x outside of their mono-relationships and go back to their boyfriends/husbands like nothing happened

i see lots of evidence of that nowadays

so what am i getting at?

non-monogamy is the trend for women

we all know men are poly by nature but society wants women to be mono

that's increasingly being challenged

and when it becomes more acceptable for women to be non-mono, men will be the losers

since there's great demand for physically attractive women and not a lot of supply, i observed men accept being "the other man" or even just one of the other men ng mga babae

this is becoming a trend and a lot of men are having a hard time dealing with it

Of course due to jealousy (humans evolved jealousy to motivate mate-guarding which is an ancient adaptive response to a problem called infidelity)

but since men will be sharing their women with other men, they need to deal with that evolutionary adaptation

mahirap labanan ang nature so....

[minicarph]

ang porblema sa women na poly, ni-nag ka pa din eh kahit hinde naman kayo exclusive. di ba tulad tayo men pag poly, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas ang slogan

[kagalingan]

tsikoteers,

dito ko ipopost mga clean escapade ko ngayon pandemic. Pero not all sa facebook kasi nagdating site din ako ng iba. Meron doctor, meron nagmamasterals, at meron vavavoom katawan gandara parang naughty america julia ann. Yung vavavoom nagualt ako nung binigay facebook sikat pala meon 150,000 followers eh hindi namna sya car show girl. Just a simple blue collar worker na nabiyayaan maganda katawan and somehow medyo above average face pero sa pagsasalita ang masasabi ko eh hush hush darling dont speak.

Ito pa pala meron pa ako isang chicks nakakachat pero mataba na charming attractive. Isa sya streamer. Tawag ko sa kanya BBW tapos natatawa sya hindi ako binabanned kahit ganun tawag ko nakikiroleplay sya maybe sanay na kasi makipagusap sa foreigner. . Sa mga hindi nakakaalam eh BBW stands for Big Beautifu Women. Syempre yan ang term pag wholesome. Ewan ko ba nafefetish ko matataba pero dapat attractive na jolly type

hooootaena talaga!!!! Napupuyat ako lately hindi pwede ganito baka magkasorethroat ako. Pero grabe sa datingsite dami walang trabaho mga "proud singlemom"

Tapos lagi pa ako tinatanong kung taga pinas ba daw ako. Tatawa ako pag entrada ko "hi" " are you single" Tapos pag nagtagalog na ako "taga saan ka" = Doon magugualt sasabiin, pinoy ka pala? Ikaw ba yan sa picture? (So ang respomnse ko gusto mo videocall para makita mo ako )

by the way may nameet na ako this year, doktora na singol !!!! PEro hindi ko kaya taluhin masyado kagalang-galang a very decent woman. Pero magkikita kami ulit pero I wont make any damoves. Grabe lineup ko this month kasi imemeet ko yung madami followers sa facebook na 2nd account nya yung 150,000followers puro nasa gym mga picture. Ang luhpet talagan katawan!!!!

mapapabili ako 2nd smartphone kasi ang bilis malowbat kakavideocall.

[ray_noel]

Sample photos nga kags.... kahit walang ulo.... para naman maging kapanipaniwala post mo...


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[kagalingan]

ka-noel, try ko kung paano i-edit sa windows paint. Sikat kasi yung secxy girl, malay ko baka may nakafollow dito sa tsikot. She is not the educada type pero yung wangkata ohlalala talaga. May trabaho sya pang blue collar pero mataas na position, pinapahawakan ng ng payroll, Kung baga comfortable na buhay. Yun nga lang meron ito "SM Bonus."

yung docktora at yung nagmamasterals hindi ko na pwede ipost yun. Pareha ito hindi pa nag-aasawa at walang anak.

Kaya nga pag nakikpagmeet ako eh napapaligo ako ng di-oras.

Alam mo ba way back friendster days early 2000 meron din ako naging close na pre-med. Ngayon dean na sya ng maliit na med/nursing school. Single pa din.

[ray_noel]

Send mo sa akin ako na mag edit... dami mo palang chicks ngayon kags... lalo na yung may blue collar job.... sa description mo pa lang parang jatawan ni jessy mendiolla yata yan?


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[Gumusut_Amige]

Send mo sa akin ako na mag edit... dami mo palang chicks ngayon kags... lalo na yung may blue collar job.... sa description mo pa lang parang jatawan ni jessy mendiolla yata yan?


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isa na ako sa mag-aabang sa pix na i-post ni kags! kahit mala kim domingo pwedeng-pwede na

[dreamur]

Just parking this here...

DYHP RMN CEBU - JUST IN: 23 ANYOS NGA LALAKI NGA... | Facebook

[kagalingan]

hirap pag lagare sa online dating scene.

May kausap ako isang app video call tapos biglang may tatawag sa facebook ko videocall din so napuputol yung usapan namin sa isang app.

Meron ako nakakachat single mom. Meron startup business. Maganda face babae the pang-asawa type pero not secxy walang usbong eh. Payat halos wala boobs parang pwede tropahin relationship pero secxuual hindi talaga. Just like mga naging girlfriends ko mga pang seryosohan. Alam mo yung kahit ano ganda ng face malungkot talaga pag utung-agad. Been there many times eh. Ang palusot ng mga mahilig sa ganito body type eh "perky" daw. Pinasosy pa eh hahahaha.

Kaso ang hindi ko gusto kay startup girl eh masyado utak negosyante. Nung nakita ako sa cam tanong ng tanong bakit hinid pa daw ako aasawa eh gwapings daw ako & kung totoo ba daw nasa 40s na ako eh mukha daw ako late 20s to early 30s.. TApos nagpaparing kung ano ba ok na business at kailangan pa daw nya ng partners sa new business naisio nya. Infairy maayos yung shop nya may palag malawak may class puro washing machine ng LG.

Pero Yan ang hirap pag maaga nag-anak, isip ng isip business. Lahat papatusin. Yung dati ko girlfriend ng late 90s bale single mom na sya ngayon eh kinausap ako kung ok ba milkteh business. Sabi ko ok sa ok pero dapat pag-aaralan mo aaalamin pasikut-sikut and number 1 alam mo daat top products all the way sa cheapipay. Kung baga nasa puso at may yabang ka dapat. Hindi pwede puro Return Of Investment ang isip kasi makakahon ka nyan mukhang kwarta. Ang business kasi give & take relationship. Wag mo gugulangan customer. Donot be puro marketing ala america, (kaya minamalas sila ngayon)

Kaya yan ang advantage ng single like me you can business at your own phase tapos nakakapangchicks pa eh ako na sumusuko.

[kagalingan]

tsikoteers,

yung nakameet ko dr eh magmeemeet kami ulit. Scheduel na. Mukhang nagwapuhan sa akin.

Yung kahcat ko naman na bluecollar eh nagdadalawang isip ako kasi yung mga terms eh charot, weeeh. Hinid ko kakayanin kahit sobragn secxy pa. Im so past the manyakis stage.

Si starup girl eh nakita ko sa messenger ko You missed a call from..... Interesado sa akin tinatawagan ako.

Alam nyo tumitingin ako sa mirror kasi lagi ako nasasabihan. Taga pilipiinas ka ba? They think Im a foreigner pag looks ang usapan. Hindi daw ako mukhang chinese-filipino sa pinas. (eh sabi ko nga sa inyo yung lolo ko pumunta ng pinas may kwarta hindi pipitsugin malaemperor. Compare nyo mga taipan sa pinas walang pleasing to the eyes puro katas ng pagisiskap.

Sarap pa ngayon waley traffic ang dali makipagmeetups.

[travajante]

tsikoteers,

yung nakameet ko dr eh magmeemeet kami ulit. Scheduel na. Mukhang nagwapuhan sa akin.

Yung kahcat ko naman na bluecollar eh nagdadalawang isip ako kasi yung mga terms eh charot, weeeh. Hinid ko kakayanin kahit sobragn secxy pa. Im so past the manyakis stage.

Si starup girl eh nakita ko sa messenger ko You missed a call from..... Interesado sa akin tinatawagan ako.

Alam nyo tumitingin ako sa mirror kasi lagi ako nasasabihan. Taga pilipiinas ka ba? They think Im a foreigner pag looks ang usapan. Hindi daw ako mukhang chinese-filipino sa pinas. (eh sabi ko nga sa inyo yung lolo ko pumunta ng pinas may kwarta hindi pipitsugin malaemperor. Compare nyo mga taipan sa pinas walang pleasing to the eyes puro katas ng pagisiskap.

Sarap pa ngayon waley traffic ang dali makipagmeetups.

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[_Cathy_]

If you talk to a girl on the phone for an average of 2-3 hours, would that mean you are fond of her? I am growing fond of this guy that I've never seen pa I can't let this happen though

[Egan101]

If you talk to a girl on the phone for an average of 2-3 hours, would that mean you are fond of her? I am growing fond of this guy that I've never seen pa I can't let this happen though

Really? Why not just go out and eat?

You can check sincerity of the other person when you talk to them face to face.


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[Walter]

Video call ...