Do you believe in second chances?

[_Cathy_]

So I asked for a sign na pag si crush hindi tumawag sakin bukas, I will ACTIVELY try to get him out of my system even as a friend. I was surprised he said he will call me but short lang, medyo cute pa yung question niya na "is that fair enough?", yes naman ako. LOL. I asked him again if he can take me fish ball sa UP, ayaw talaga e HAHA

Lately kasi masyado ako disappointed that he calls me less and never initiates messaging me. BTW pinanindigan ko na yung I will stop messaging him na since seen zone naman ako parati hahaha! It is so hard pa to be friends with someone you are s3xually attracted to, so I thought maybe we can't stay friends din, at least while I am still lusting over him. But I guess I just have to learn how to get that lust out of my system.

Pero ayoko na talaga siya maging BF, realization ko talaga, mas mahirap na mas mahal ng babae ang lalaki. At least for me, I will be miserable that way. Dati kasi I felt like match kami.

Anyway, I am so proud of him, may billion peso achievement na naman sa work. I wonder if that is the reason why he got promoted. I am still a little sad that he hasn't shared this victory with me yet.

[misseksaherada]

Pero ayoko na talaga siya maging BF, realization ko talaga, mas mahirap na mas mahal ng babae ang lalaki. At least for me, I will be miserable that way.

Same.. Never ko ginusto na maging bf ko mga crush ko.. Nawawala interes ko in the long run.. Andyan lang ang crush sakin para kiligin.. Kapag nakaka-close ko na crush ko, wala na kilig.. Tapos normal na lang nalilimutan ko yung feeling ng kilig.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23] andyan lang ang crush para maging perfect, kapag nakita ko na normal lang sya nagfi-fade kilig ko..
May isang crush lang ako na talagang record breaking.. Hirap alisin sa sistema.. [emoji28] Pero nag success naman ako.

[_Cathy_]

Same.. Never ko ginusto na maging bf ko mga crush ko.. Nawawala interes ko in the long run.. Andyan lang ang crush sakin para kiligin.. Kapag nakaka-close ko na crush ko, wala na kilig.. Tapos normal na lang nalilimutan ko yung feeling ng kilig.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23] andyan lang ang crush para maging perfect, kapag nakita ko na normal lang sya nagfi-fade kilig ko..
May isang crush lang ako na talagang record breaking.. Hirap alisin sa sistema.. [emoji28] Pero nag success naman ako.

Ako gusto ko maging BF crush ko That is one of the many reasons why it's so hard for me to get over crush because it's NOT too often that I crush on a guy. For example, I worked for more than a decade in our company, I probably found less than 5 guys attractive.

Si crush, matagal ko na siyang crush so I was really surprised when he initiated conversation with me and then it was instant s3xual chemistry. We had more chemistry than the periodic table! hahaha! Before I met crush, I've been called a prude so many times, my ex BF even said I had no libido LOL! I may be a serial dater pero naaalagan ko sarili ko, if you know what I mean. It turns out you just had to meet the right person to lose control, and not everyone meets THAT person in their lifetime. It was a great feeling. And then everyday I found something new to like him even more, which is quite the opposite with what normally happens to me with men, usually nga like you said nawawala interest ko or I get turned off in the long run, pero sa kanya mas lalo naging intense habang tumatagal, and I think I got scared of that subconsciously

Now it's very different, I thought after 3 yrs things would go back to normal, and I did everything to win him back. Ngayon kasi gusto ko siya pero di na niya ko gusto. His constant rejections - seen zoned messages, refusing to call me or see me, ignoring my flirtations, refusing to accept my gifts/cooking that is like being stabbed in the heart over and over again, but like I said, I have my limits like with the messages, I won't initiate messaging him anymore because it makes me like an idiot when he just ignores. Good thing he still calls me for 1 hr thrice a week, its been like that for months, sana mas dumalas or tumagal tawag pero walang development e. Like LM said, I don't know why he still does it, he doesn't wanna date me and he doesn't wanna have s3x with me. I've outright asked him if he can take me fishballs in UP ayaw niya, he doesn't counter it with where else he plans to take me. I mentioned that I wanna explore the scout area but he never made a suggestion. Each rejection makes me want him less and less romantically. I think beneficial sakin yun kasi ayoko na humabol ever, it's not a good feeling. I was never the type of person to run after anyone kasi ma pride ako but I made an exception for crush. Even my friends ko na botong boto sa kanya, and even told me to win him back, may iba bumaliktad na kasi wala nga progress.

Kaya ngayon tinanggap ko na na friends na lang kami, if he wants me, siya na magpakita ng motibo. Pero ako, I am done sa paghahabol. I also have a hard time taking him out of my system because of our s3xual chemistry, but I won't deny the fact, there are instances when he speaks I can't concentrate because I am having naughty thoughts of him I even have naughty dreams of him because that is probably how far I can go with him Pero yung lust ko nagwa wane na rin kasi he also rejects me in that aspect, sakit niyan para sa babae. I'm not gorgeous but I am not ugly and each rejection hurts my already damaged self esteem even more. I may be a "brand new Nokia" but at least other people see my value, siya hindi e

Also, may inkling ako na may iba na, though he says wala. There is no other reason why he would reject my s3xual advances. What guy does that diba? Only reason is he is loyal to someone else

[dr. d]

There is no other reason why he would reject my s3xual advances. What guy does that diba?

any sane guy who does not wish to get into any trouble.

[travajante]

any sane guy who does not wish to get into any trouble.

Or 1 who's really not into the other.

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[_Cathy_]

any sane guy who does not wish to get into any trouble.

How am I trouble? It's not like we weren't intimate before. Either he is not attracted/into me anymore or there is someone else

Anyway, UF told me to believe what he says. If he says there is no one, then there is no one.

Or 1 who's really not into the other.

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I think that is very apparent na. Blows my mind really, ngayon lang ako nakatagpo ng guy who did that to me.

Naalala ko tuloy yung tagalog comedy na there is this ugly group of women seducing this group of men, yung isa ayaw, then someone said "laman tiyan din yan" so they made patol HAHAHA!

[dr. d]

How am I trouble? It's not like we weren't intimate before. Either he is not attracted/into me anymore or there is someone else

!

no trouble at all, if everything goes according to his plan.
big trouble, if something doesn't.

[_Cathy_]

no trouble at all, if everything goes according to his plan.
big trouble, if something doesn't.

what do you mean dr? So you think he has someone else na?

[uls]

ung sinasabi ni doc na "any sane guy who does not wish to get into any trouble"

Doc doesn't mean you, Cathy, are trouble

i think Doc means kung may ibang ka-relasyon ang guy and if he doesn't want to jeopardize his relationship dapat marunong siya umiwas sa temptation

in other words huwag siya #marupok

hehe

[ninjababez]

babaw ng mga kwento pero nakakatuwa basahin ..
anti lungkot cathy oh!
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