Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
Yes, I know that we are in charge of our own happiness but it makes me happy when I make him happy. He has a very stressful job and I love the feeling when I am able to make him smile, laugh or destress. That is what makes him so appealing nga, he is the powerful and serious man, and I want to be THAT woman who relaxes him When we were together, he did everything that he can to meet my demands and make me happy and YET I still ended up hurting him I hate myself for it. I understand why he has this wall between us and I want to break that down.

Why would you think naman that he doesn't deserve me He has been nothing but good to me. It only hurts me when he is being aloof, I want more of him...
Well, you had your chance but you squandered it. And just anybody else, he doesn’t want to get burned twice. As they say, no use in crying over spilt milk.

If you really want more of him, he must want more of you too.

Most driven, successful and powerful people do not settle for less. I’m not saying that you’re less though. Most of them go for somebody of substance, of value: one that inspire them to dream more, to do more and become more.

It’s only in the movies, like in “Pretty Woman”, that a CEO fall for a hooker.

I agree to the one who said: be a person of value rather than one of success. If you’re the same person he met 3 or 5 years ago, then I’m sorry to say this, but you’re not growing and why would he take a second hard look at you if he has everything.

Add value to yourself: learn a new language (german , french, Italian etc) or a new skill (you skydive or scuba, bungy jump) hit the gym, be the best version of yourself. Make him feel that this time it’s his loss, not yours.





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