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  1. Join Date
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    #21
    Basta when in doubt, then DON'T GET MARRIED!!! As simple as that! (hehehehe)

    Eka nga ng isang kanta, "Sometimes love just 'aint enough...."


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    #22
    how do you know you married the right person? you will never know, because there are no positive signs.
    how do you know you married the wrong person? you will know. immediately, like a ton of bricks falling on you.

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    #23
    There is no such thing as right person, it's up to you to make him/her the right person for you.

    The question here is, are you also perfect for him/her? Baka naman sarili mo lang iniisip mo.

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    #24
    Quote Originally Posted by dr. d View Post
    how do you know you married the right person? you will never know, because there are no positive signs.
    how do you know you married the wrong person? you will know. immediately, like a ton of bricks falling on you.
    and i am waiting for this thing to happen. para ma-realize niya na for me, she did not marry the right person...

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    #25
    Marriage counselor Allan Petersen says, "Most people get married believing in myth...that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for: companionship, ***ual fulfillment, intimacy, friendship.
    "The truth is that marriage, at the start, is an empty box. You must put something in before you can take anything out. There is no love in marriage; love is in people, and people put it into marriage. There is no romance in marriage; people have to infuse it into their marriages.
    "A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising..keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will empty."

    Problem arises if only one of the couple is "putting in" and the other doesn't care. Marriage is what couples make it.
    It takes two to tango.

  6. Join Date
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    #26
    Quote Originally Posted by LadyRider View Post


    Eka nga ng isang kanta, "Sometimes love just 'aint enough...."

    i need your credit card, too

  7. Join Date
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    #27
    Quote Originally Posted by ans_lim168 View Post
    Been over that period, you marry because you are ready and able to start your own family. In marriage you never ask this question for this will start cracks and eventually broken families..
    + 1

    If you keep on asking this question (Did I marry the right person?), it might open the floodgate of discontent.

    The better question to ask yourself is: "How can I be a better husband/wife?" Try asking that to yourself everyday the moment you wake up, take positive action, and soon you will see improvements in your relationship.

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    #28
    Quote Originally Posted by speedlimit View Post
    Marriage counselor Allan Petersen says, "Most people get married believing in myth...that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for: companionship, ***ual fulfillment, intimacy, friendship.
    "The truth is that marriage, at the start, is an empty box. You must put something in before you can take anything out. There is no love in marriage; love is in people, and people put it into marriage. There is no romance in marriage; people have to infuse it into their marriages.
    "A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising..keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will empty."

    Problem arises if only one of the couple is "putting in" and the other doesn't care. Marriage is what couples make it.
    It takes two to tango.
    Indeed..marriage and love are two different things.

  9. Join Date
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    #29
    i married the imperfect person whom im loving perfectly..

    think there is no such thing as right or wrong person when in love..

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    #30
    Quote Originally Posted by chinaheart View Post
    i married the imperfect person whom im loving perfectly..

    think there is no such thing as right or wrong person when in love..

    True, but what happens when that imperfect person falls in love in a person less imperfect than you?

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    #31
    We come not to love a perfect person but rather to love an imperfect person perfectly.

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    #32
    ^ correct bro.. mukhang nag seminar ka rin ah..hehehe..

    ^^ well, in case he falls for somebody else, so be it.. that is something beyond my control i believe.. its his call.. all is fair in love.. kaya nga dapat you're happy in everything you do, para in case it doesnt go the way you planned it, at least naging happy ka di ba.. love is unconditional..kahit love mo ang isang tao, you cant command them to reciprocate your love..

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    #33
    Pag iniputan ka sa ulo at iniwan ka ng mahal mo,there are 2 choices you can make. Either put a gun in your mouth, then gently squeeze the trigger.....the weak option but less hassle, easier way out.

    OR

    Summon all positive energy you can muster and divert it to your own success, financially and physically. Simply put, magpayaman ka at magpa gwapo ka.

    Pag naka Porsche ka na at tatlo tatlong BB Pilipinas at model ang kasama mo gabi gabi, ang sarap siguro maka salubong ng umiwan sa yo

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    #34
    I am married for 20 years na...hehehe..halata tuloy edad. Ang masasabi ko lang, di talaga biro ang mag-asawa. Kaya think a 100 times before you tie the knot.

    Marriage is a vocation....latin for "calling"... is a term for an occupation to which a person is specially drawn or for which they are suited or trained. This calling is to a way of life rather than to a particular job. But it's not the only vocation out there. If it's not for you, choose another vocation. You can be married to God, your career, your immediate family, or whatever. The thing is, if if you think it is something you can dedicate your life doing it, then make that as your vocation.

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    #35
    when you first meet him/her and fall in love. next thing you know you give her an engagement ring. then comes the wedding day when you get married and give each other a wedding ring. this is when all is fine and dandy and later you wear the suffer ring.

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    #36
    Ahhhhhh... marriage.

    Such a short word... but it does spell a long sentence.

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    #37
    Quote Originally Posted by oliver1013 View Post
    Pag iniputan ka sa ulo at iniwan ka ng mahal mo,there are 2 choices you can make. Either put a gun in your mouth, then gently squeeze the trigger.....the weak option but less hassle, easier way out.

    OR

    Summon all positive energy you can muster and divert it to your own success, financially and physically. Simply put, magpayaman ka at magpa gwapo ka.

    Pag naka Porsche ka na at tatlo tatlong BB Pilipinas at model ang kasama mo gabi gabi, ang sarap siguro maka salubong ng umiwan sa yo



    "Sucess is the best revenge!"

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    #38
    tip: live in muna before deciding to tie the knot
    advantages: you will get to know your partner really well. . .plus unlimited ***

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    #39
    Quote Originally Posted by digitalron View Post
    Ahhhhhh... marriage.

    Such a short word... but it does spell a long sentence.

    Now that reminds me of a joke... A husband was discovered crying by himself after 20 years of marriage... When asked why,- he told his friend,- "Dapat laya na ako".... :hysterical:

    9606:hippie:

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    #40
    Quote Originally Posted by vito corleone View Post
    tip: live in muna before deciding to tie the knot
    advantages: you will get to know your partner really well. . .plus unlimited ***


    "unlimited ***" is the upside on this one!!!parang laging honeymooners ang dating...




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