I don't think he's a moderator in this part of the forums, so he's not necessarily posting as one.
I also see GhostHunter's views as being a little over the top, but the thing is, that's what he learned (or chose to learn) from his own situation. His methods and outlook don't necessarily apply to each of us if we were to find ourselves in the same circumstance. Some may find less destructive means to deal with it, while others might as well go all the way.
Marriage has different effects on people, which is really saying that marriage isn't for everyone.