Quote Originally Posted by safeorigin View Post
i still believe in comebacks.
And most people prefer happy endings to their movies but real life works differently from how relationships fair in movies... unfortunately.

if all efforts should fail, prepare for contingency plans. but imho, that's rather unthinkable for the wife to leave you since a)she confessed b)you are aware of the situation c)you have kids d)you are calm about it.
I don't think "revealing about a marital affair in the heat of an arguement" is a valid confession. It is more like insult to injury to me.


try to replace what should be a bitter treatment with sweetness. eventually, it's her conscience that will rule over her.
Without trust, you can throw everything else you have said out of the window. And since the wifey seems to be keen on keeping the current details away from the hubby, it is literally a situation defined as "sleeping with the enemy".

If sweetness is anywhere near the surface of the wifey's thoughts, I don't think it includes any plans with the hubby. Given she already has been keeping the affair going even with her revelation, its doubtful her conscience is giving the wifey any trouble.

How do I know? It's because I have been there and experienced through it already.

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Advise to the TS: check your financials and properties. Because if and when your wife leaves you, she can legally claim & take 50% of everything you have & own unless you make certain precautions. (Do you really want to finance "their" honeymoon?)