Dealing with my Anger after Wife Confessed Affair

[HyBrideVo]

i don't get the logic of going after the guy.

pardon my harsh words...

pero kung malandi talaga ung babae, wala ka magagawa.

get rid of the guy?

she's just gonna meet other guys.

palitan ng SIM? ya sure...

kung memorize nya ung cell number ng guy?

Confiscate mo celphone ng wife?

makikitext lang yan sa friend or kapitbahay...

Gagamit ng landline or payphone sa labas para tawagan ung guy.

she can disappear for an hour or 2... quickie na yan.

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nasa babae yan.

meron nagpapatukso...

meron hindi nagpapatukso.

+1 on this.

i have to agree with uls here. walang kakamot ng makati kung walang kumakati...

i remember a similar occasion with one of my close friends' folks having the same issue. They're in the same house but now lives in NYC and both of 'em have their own 'kalaguyo/kabits'. And same thing si babae ang naghanap ng attention sa iba but before that pinagbintangan muna nya si lalake na niloloko sya without any evidence/facts to her assumption..Ooppss no more further details

BTT:
What can a marriage counselor do about this? suggest and try to save the marriage for the sake of the kids? And the 15 or so years that they've spent together? IMO, you can't save a relationship if there's no more love or even a grain of trust. If the wife can't trust his husband then why would he even trust her back?

love+***+trust+faith = years of togetherness..