Dating mid-30's & older women... [merged]

[CVT]

Women are like fine wine.

I don't quite agree bro. There's always that 'inflection point', where almost all of them (note: I didn't say all) tend to lose 'market value' (sorry for the lack of a better term). When I say it, I meant opportunity for a serious and lasting relationship with a younger man, consistent with this thread....

7606:mobile1:

[goldencoil]

Very well said Horsepower.

[testament11]

Dating women in their early 30's is very different with dating naive youngsters.

They have experience and they already know what you are after. Wiser. Some of them appear dumb and fall for you even though they know you're just after some good time.

They could get a bit possessive though.

Most of the girls you can date in this age bracket are lawyers, executives, single moms, graduate school students, usually very beautiful women who let the trains pass by waiting for a better one.

Remember, if you know the woman is married, walk away. No matter how hot she is, it is not worth it to be imprisoned and get raped in the ass. hehe.

This age bracket requires maturity and intelligence. They usually despise men who lack those.

But of course, like any other thing, after the orgasm, things are clearer. It always is. You begin to realize that this is not what you want. That, as a young man, you need a younger woman because you need someone within a safe reproductive age bracket unless you don't have any plan of continuing your lineage. You begin to think, what your parents and siblings are going to say about her. Will people laugh at you when you're seen together? What are your batchmates gonna say?

Then you quit. Then they get heartbroken again. And the cycle continues.

In short, forget about it. Don't even think of doing it.

Women are humans who have feelings, who deserve to be respected and loved genuinely by someone who'll be with them through good and bad times - regardless of age and intellectual capacity. They are not toys to play with whenever one is bored.


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at ganito ang nangyari sa best friend ko. wala siyang nakuhang matinong supporta sa amin nang gawin niya eto, though the girl is 29 only.

i agree sa sinabi ni hp. this does not apply only in the range of 30+, but to ladies older than the guy. ano nangyari sa best friend ko, nakuha ang gusto niya pero the lady, left crying. they broke up after a month na naging sila.

blutut, its better you go for younger women. hindi sa porke't bata sila, pero for me, you must preserve your pride and what other people, especially your relatives and friends might say to you

[shadow]

sali sana ako usapan pero summer na talaga at maraming sensitive na members lately...hehehe

isa lang masasabi ko....tigilan na ang mag imagine ng mga bgay bagay...

[shadow]

I think so too. I have a very strong suspicion alternick lang si blutut. Attention-whores are going to love this thread. (Sheesh, kunwari pa kasing may love life eh)

IP check, anyone?

^If you are implying that I am blutut, go ahead check my IP.

blutut's join date is MAR 2007. Mine is JUL 2007.

natawa ako dito.... cathy wala naman sinabi si Galactus na ikaw yun attention whre eh...hehehe

[uls]

observation ko lang ---

successful, older women tend to attract younger men who are only after their money

[ab_initio]

observation ko lang ---

successful, older women tend to attract younger men who are only after their money

true. totoy bibo na magkagusto ng tita, naku! caveat lang sa mga manang...they'll be doomed to feed a parasite....but i guess, successful women now know better...i have known a lot of women who just wana have kids but no husband, much less a parasite. so sa naghahanap...goodluck.

[lugarai]

true. totoy bibo na magkagusto ng tita, naku! caveat lang sa mga manang...they'll be doomed to feed a parasite....but i guess, successful women now know better...i have known a lot of women who just wana have kids but no husband, much less a parasite. so sa naghahanap...goodluck.

Ab- how old are you?

[lugarai]

Agree.... Hehehe... Hindi tulad ng isa naming kaibigang Alabanger... Pinung-pinong kumilos na parang hindi makabasag pinggan. Pero, matindi magtrabaho at walang kakupas-kupas..... At, puno pa ng ebidensiya..... :naughty2:

7606:mobile1:

Sir CVT kilala ko ba to?

[blutut]

at ganito ang nangyari sa best friend ko. wala siyang nakuhang matinong supporta sa amin nang gawin niya eto, though the girl is 29 only.

i agree sa sinabi ni hp. this does not apply only in the range of 30+, but to ladies older than the guy. ano nangyari sa best friend ko, nakuha ang gusto niya pero the lady, left crying. they broke up after a month na naging sila.

blutut, its better you go for younger women. hindi sa porke't bata sila, pero for me, you must preserve your pride and what other people, especially your relatives and friends might say to you

guess i'm really so phucked-up huh

anyways the way i see it, if my candidate MILF turns out to be just what i've been looking for then why not? I'm not a person who gives a d*mn about what other people say. if we're happy the rest of the world can just die hehehe

[ab_initio]

Ab- how old are you?

IT WOULD TAKE YEARS AND YEARS FOR ME TO DATE THE TS...

is there such a requirement before i can rant, Sir?

[CVT]

Sir CVT kilala ko ba to?

Bro.,- isa sa mga palagi mong kausap o ka-text na Alabanger iyan....

Kita mo,- tumahimik ulit. Hibernate mode dahil may gimik mamayang gabi..... Ooopppsss baka sa Lunes na ulit pala...... :hysterical:

7606:mobile1:

[testament11]

guess i'm really so phucked-up huh

anyways the way i see it, if my candidate MILF turns out to be just what i've been looking for then why not? I'm not a person who gives a d*mn about what other people say. if we're happy the rest of the world can just die hehehe

hindi naman blutu. i'm just sharing my obeservations. just that ayoko lang ulit makita ang ganitong scenario.

in the end kasi sa kwento ko, kawawa lang yung babae. for me, women should be treated as a woman, not just a slave, animal, or something not human (o humane? pasensya hindi ako magaling sa english eh, hehehe...). i just really hate to see women to end up being battered, heartbroken, or something miserable. they should be loved, not meant to be hurt

[blutut]

Instead of just focusing on the 30+ bracket, let's talk about relative age.

What's your opinion on women dating a younger man? How much of a gap do you still deem "acceptable"? 2 years? more?

[lugarai]

IT WOULD TAKE YEARS AND YEARS FOR ME TO DATE THE TS... Ha..ha..ha....Yari si TS mga ilang taon kana Sir?

is there such a requirement before i can rant, Sir?

Syempre wala...just asking lang po baka pwede tayu magdate...

[lugarai]

Bro.,- isa sa mga palagi mong kausap o ka-text na Alabanger iyan....

Kita mo,- tumahimik ulit. Hibernate mode dahil may gimik mamayang gabi..... Ooopppsss baka sa Lunes na ulit pala...... :hysterical:

7606:mobile1:

Palagay ko Lunes na yan...magrereport payan mamaya...he...he...he...

[testament11]

lower limit for me (younger): -3 or -4 from my age

upper limit for me (older): hanggang +2 or +3 lang from my age

[HyBrideVo]

[HyBrideVo]

[jeDi13]

any guy dating a woman not on his same age bracket is taking advantage of her

just kidding