well i must've struck a nerve with abby hehehe
actually the whole point of this thread is to simply get insights into the mind of the single, mid-30's woman with no BF.
I was just wondering how they feel? Pressured? knowing that they're past the optimal reproductive age. Mid-life crises? The psychology of it.
As i've said i don't usually date older women... I just wanna be prepared when the opportunity arises, which seems like it's coming very soon
ano nalang sasabihin ni officemate nyan sa yo? ako, may kutob ako na may ineexpect na yan sa yo. ikaw din, nasa sa yo na yan
^If you are implying that I am blutut, go ahead check my IP.
blutut's join date is MAR 2007. Mine is JUL 2007.
Last edited by _Cathy_; March 12th, 2009 at 03:28 PM.
di naman siguro ikaw yun, cathy. ang banggit ni Galactus ay nagkukunwaring may lovelife. alam naman natin lahat na wala kang love life. unless, may iba pang istorya pa ito.
dumadami love struck sa tsikot a... tapos na spring... summer na....sabagay, para pag dating ng tag-ulan hhehe..
anyways, blutu, dating a mid-30's girl is just like dating any girl.. dapat huhuliin mo kiliti...para mapalagay ang loob sa yo.. babae din yan, magugustuhan ka nya not how you impress her, but how the girl sees you...
ang pagkakaiba lang kasi, pag older ung girl minsan, medyo may expectation na ikaw dapat ma-meet sa yo..and kung naging kayo, everytime mag-qquarrel kayo, age will be the issue--masmatanda sya kaya dapat mo syang sundin...
and kung older yung girl, dapat pumantay ka sa "level" nya in order magkaintindihan kayo. plus, lalo na kung yung "stature-in-life" nyo ay malaki gap din, wag mo paramdam sa older girl na you making up to her because of what material things she could give you. Be blessed na natangap ka nya kahit mahirap ka, wag mo naman abusuhin yun...
theoretically, sabi nila, girls matures earlier than man.. kaya nga pinaka-ideal daw ang man is older than women because of that theory. pero akin lang, mo matter what age between you, "respect" lang to each other ang kailangan...
[SIZE="4"]*GALACTUS: Just for the record
Blutut does not share the same IP address as Cathy_for_you. His IP address is unique as Cathy's IP.
I suggest you look for other outlets for your frustrations instead of pestering tsikot.com members with unfounded suspicions.[/SIZE]