maaksaya din nung tanong mo sa isang thread...
http://tsikot.yehey.com/forums/showt...42#post1635942
For us girls, mahalaga sa amin yung black and white ang closure. We want it clear. I came from a relationship na kahit ako nahirapang intindihin. We broke up April last year. Dunno if may break-up words nga ba or what. The guy hates me because I can't satisfy his needs. (Ooops, hindi po yung needs na iniisip nyo LOL). Gusto nya lagi ko syang sinasabihan ng gwapo. (Errr, childish masyado). Don't wanna elaborate but more or less dyan umikot ang relationship. So we part ways. When all the pain subsides, I decided that I want to talk to him for some closure and then finally move on. Galit pa rin sya so I just let him. September last year he talked to me over gmail chat telling me that he still love me so much and he's sorry for what he did to me. He even calls himself "Tanga" (I guess he is LOL). Since then lagi syang nagte-text or nagcha-chat. Early this year kinausap nya ako. He told me kasalanan ko daw bakit ganito takbo ng buhay nya ngayon specifically his lovelife. He admit to have some kind of relationship with this girl which he doesn't know if he really love. Basta ang alam daw nya mahal na mahal nya ako.
for closure, mahirap yung isang bagsakan lang, i prefer to let the water cool first, let the time passed for the moment then when the coast is clear, when oppurtunity arises, do the closure it would be better because its all under the bridge and both of you could talk upon the problem how it arises, the suppose remedy and why it ended.
I don't feel the need for closure. Ang importante pag break na total cut off ng communication, minsan nagiging dahilan pa closure to start talking again.
Somehow if you move in the same circle, you'll come across your ex again, maybe after a few months or even years and you'd be cordial again.
sabi lang po:
pag girls ang nakipag hiwalay = pwede pang magbago isip,
pag lalaki nakipaghiwalay = hiwalay na talaga period..