ako naman, right now, i want to take a rest, i used to date a lot of guys, reason ko if may nagcocomment "what's wrong with that im not committed to anyone!" nakakapagod din...
i got hurt a couple of times, pero ok lang pa-date-date pa rin, until i get sooo tired n so hurt. right now, i dont wanna go out on dates, i dont want a relationship, i would still go out with guy friends but only for very platonic reasons.
right now, i want to recover fully, know myself better, plan my future n spend time with friends first
Last edited by gretzy; April 29th, 2004 at 02:04 PM.
Originally posted by gretzy looks like, Otep has finally found the ONE!
Actually, pag nakita mo na soul mate mo, commitment starts right away. Nine years ko GF si Mrs bago kami nagpakasal and during those 9 years, na-prove ko sa sarili ko na sya na nga. We even agreed na wag muna mag baby for at least a year after marriage kasi we really love each other's company. Ibang commitment pa rin yung may anak, actually for me, mas masarap kasi we got to extend our love for each other to our children. We don't even count the years na married kami, but always celebrate the day she said "yes TEAL, i love you too".
So sa tanong mo kung buhay single o married, ang sagot ko is "it doesn't matter as long as kasama mo soul mate mo".
iba pa rin talaga at mas masarap pag may asawa't anak ka na lalo na yung magkaroon ng anak. In my case talagang nag-iba pananaw ko sa buhay (lalim ata a).
ako buhay single for 38 years, then all of a sudden i met my wife. ayun change of outlook, kasal agad hehehehe!
sabi ko nuon sa sarili ko after, alam nyo na, being broken hearted a second time, na hindi na ako magaasawa, magkakalat na lang ako ng lagim sa mundo nyahahahahaha! so i did!
kaso 1 day at SM city ayun there was this beauty, ewan ko ba ano pumasok sa utak ko. i just had to know her name! so although i'm basically shy i introduced myself. di naman pala suplada, so to make a long story short, naging kami, kinasal, at may anak na kami ngayon.
sarap ng buhay single, pero mas masarap ang buhay family man. may napupuntahan kasi ang hirap, di gaya nung single pa ako na puro kalokohan lang.
but of course that's just me. madami singles dyan na may katuturan ang buhay nila, unlike me when i did not give a hoot about the world.