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Yup that's right. Treat them like family. Because they are. When we go out to eat or shop we make it a point to get them what they want as well. Treat them to the movies once in a while.
I even try to teach them how to manage their finances so at least they can put up a small store or something when the time to leave comes.
What frustrates me is when someone gets pregnant or family members drag then down so much they become almost impossible to help.