Is it really human nature to impose one's will on others? I mean even with husbands and wives if one impose their will on the other there will be war

Husband wants to have beer with buddies, wife wants to impose her will that husband should stay home...pag humirit si mister bakbakan na!!
Same with world politics, I dont want your kind of government change that or we put sanctions on you, pag pumalag yung isa bakbakan na!! Or, why do you have those weapons, dispose of that or we will invade you. Pag pumalag bakbakan nanaman.