Whatever you decide to do, forget any sort of revenge just to spite him. It's probably tempting right now. But don't do it, for the unborn kid's sake. The unborn kid is innocent in all these and deserves better. You have to think beyond yourself and see how many lives will be wrecked if you remain in your ex's life. That's why the farther you distance yourself, the better.

It's best to walk away and wish him and his family well without animosity. Once you can do that, your own healing can begin. It's best to surround yourself with family and friends because they know you're vulnerable and will be protective of you.

Good luck.....again