stumbled on a neat article about entitlement and kids answering back

When ODD Kids, Entitlement Mentality and Verbal Abuse Collide

i just observed that there's ADHD, Asperger's syndrome and other "labels" and varying degrees of special education case children today which was very different if you were a child growing up in the 80's "sink or swim attitude" in child rearing and parents still spank their kids.