Would You Let a Whole Family Move In (Temporarily)?

[uls]

More like gubat. Yung all around nga namin natakot kasi sabi ng asawa ng labandera namin may kapre daw yung isang puno kaya sinemento yung bintana tapos di nag move in haha

yan din sabi tungkol sa bahay namin may kapre daw nakatira sa mga puno

nakakatakot daw lalo sa gabi haunted house daw

[_Cathy_]

yan din sabi tungkol sa bahay namin may kapre daw nakatira sa mga puno

nakakatakot daw lalo sa gabi haunted house daw

Nakakatakot nga house niyo mapuno din. Ang hindi ko malimutan yun lanai na pwede mag roller blades sa space lol

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[timtonymanu]

Cathy,

I would not let them in, if I was in your position.

6 mos stay - medyo malabo yan, considering that they still have a debt to your family that is long overdue. Para sa akin ang pagbabayad ng utang sa napagkasunduang panahon (na hindi sinisingil ha) ang isang mabigat na sukatan ng katapatan ng isang tao. Palabra de honor. Kung doon pa lang ay bagsak na ang driver nyo, I will not trust him completely to honor his "6 months only" promise.

Maapektuhan talaga ang privacy nyo, hindi maiiwasan yan. May ibang tao eh, hindi man directly sa loob ng bahay, pero nasa same bakuran pa din.

There are so many unknowns kapag pinatuloy mo sila. So why bother thread that part? May problema ba sa part mo kapag di mo sila pinatuloy? Wala naman di, ba?

If you are only being bothered about the issue of not helping others especially those in need, pwede mo naman silang tulungan sa ibang paraan. Provide them small monetary assistance, especially if they decided to rent an apartment, among other things. Madaming paraan. But surrendering your privacy, comfort and security that your home provides, I deem, is not one of them.

Please listen to the overwhelming advice of other tsikoteers here Ms. Cathy.

[benchph1]

Hindi ko naman sinasadya mag manipulate



I have to ask those details but they've been constructing the house long before pa. Kaya asila titira samin kasi 6 months na lang naman tapos na yung pinapagawa nila.

No way will I help financially, they still owe us money, and I have my own challenges with money (still have to look for a new job)



Yeah! Bilis ng panahon, is your family there already?



Yung utang nga nila ng 2017, sabi 2 yrs to pay pero 3rd year na kalahati pa rin, at least may half



Definitely bawal magpa punta ng ibang tao sa house

OMG MY FAT LAB, RULE NUMBER 1, do not touch. That was my main concern, sa dami ng allergy ng fat lab ko and she gets sick so easily.

I don't expect them to help around the house, pero yeah dapat wag sila magkalat. Basta ayaw namin sa maingay.

Eto wala pa din. Pero malapit na. Hopefully in 6 mos. sorry OT ulit.

Hope you decide on something that will be fair to all concerned parties [emoji4]


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[uls]

Cathy, within 6 months sigurado at least meron isa sa kanila mag birthday

so mag hahanda yan at mag invite ng ibang tao

lupet mo naman kung di mo payagan mag celebrate hehe

[12vdc]

Set the house rules, put up perimeter, install CCTV, inform village scurity of the new tenants

Most crimes are committed by people whom you trust

[yubby24]

Set the house rules, put up perimeter, install CCTV, inform village scurity of the new tenants

Most crimes are committed by people whom you trust

I suggest that when installing CCTVs inside the house, try to hide it as much as possible.

Dapat di rin alam ng ibang tao, gaya nung kung magpapatira ka ng ibang pamilya. Para if something happens, and person of interest denies it, pwede icheck sa CCTV na hindi nya alam na meron pala.

[12vdc]

I always let them now that they are monitored-that alters human behavior, matino ang galawan kung aware sila.

A good CCTV installation usually has a hidden DVR/NVR in parallel to the common CCTV location. Yan kasi target for destruction kung planado ang krimen.

[shadow]

Hinde na kailan lahat yan security system dahil hinde naman pa patirahin ni cath sa kanila


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[misseksaherada]

Bawasan nyo na lang po utang nila.. Na equal sa rent ng bahay bilang tulong para maluwag sa loob yung pagtanggi nyo sa pagpapatira nyo sa bahay nyo..
Pwede nyo din po sabihin na ang pagtanggi nyo ay hindi magdadamot or hindi nyo pagdamay sa oras ng pangangailangan nila.. Kaya nyo po ginagawa ang pagtanggi ay dahil pinahahalagahan nyo ang relationship na na build nyo at sa mahusay nilang pakikisama ba ayaw nyo masira.. Dahil di natin alam ang pwede pang mangayari at pwedeng maging problema.. Ipaliwanag nyo lang po ng mahusay na sa tingin nyo po yun ang makakabuti para sa lahat.. Na nandyan po kayo for extra support hindi lang sa paraan na naisip nila at sa finacial.

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