Sa high school batch namin konti palang nag aasawa samin.. Mapa babae man or lalaki.. 30s na din kami.. Sa college friends..Originally Posted by _Cathy_
Sa college friends ko yung marami na nag asawa..
Sa colleagues marami pa din ang single.. kaso yung kaedaran ko dun mga lalaki.. Nabbad trip ako kapag tinatanong ako sa relationship status ko.. Hahaha.. Plano ko silang unahan.. For bragging rights.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
So far oks pa naman dami pa single at pede kasama sa trip..
Pero kapag may ginagawa na ako like travel, maintain ng kotse, pagbuhat ng mabibigat, atbp.. naturally naiisip ko na.. mas masaya siguro kung may bf naman..
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February 19th, 2020 05:08 PM #2Swerte mo naman, pero I assume early 30s ka, ako kasi late 30s na Originally Posted by misseksaherada
I never thought I would reach this point in my life when I am losing my friends due to distance or marriage. I've been reading a US based forum and apparently that's a common life cycle pala (losing friends)
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February 19th, 2020 05:40 PM #3Losing friends sa distance and marriage.. Sad but true.. Yung mga friends ko na nag asawa na pinababayaan ko na.. Kahit nga yung may bf/gf na.. wala ehhhh ganun talaga.. Originally Posted by _Cathy_
Swerte mo naman, pero I assume early 30s ka, ako kasi late 30s na
I never thought I would reach this point in my life when I am losing my friends due to distance or marriage. I've been reading a US based forum and apparently that's a common life cycle pala (losing friends)
Ms. Cathy don't worry a good husband/wife ay gift kay God. Ang gawin na lang natin let's continue to do our best para maging best version of ourselves.. Para naman magiging gift din tayo sa mga husbands natin.. Yun lang ang kaya natin ma control, so focus tayo sa pwede pa ma improve at magawa pa natin.. Ikaw pa, for sure meron nagkakagusto sayo.. Di ba Ray? Hahahahahaha
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February 19th, 2020 06:06 PM #4 Originally Posted by _Cathy_
I'm surprised nga how I was able to cope with being alone, that was unthinkable in my youth. When I was in my teens and early 20s I ALWAYS had a guy around (dating or BF) but these "relationships" were always short lived. Dun lang ako sa 5 yr BF ko tumagal na wala naman pinatunguhan
May isang group of friends ako ang last na single kasi yung isa married last year (pero may 2 single mom na walang BF pero sakin pag may anak hindi na counted as single) Sa former office friends ko LAHAT single pa and we are all in our 30s. Sa HS friends ko 3 lang kami na single (pero pareho silang mistress). Sa college 2 na lang kami na single, yung isa hiwalay sa asawa
Childhood BFF ko, siya kasi yun madalas mag dala ng food or regalo sa house and always offers to do errands for me (dog food ni fat lab, buy my kimchi, call people or stuff I need when she is out) I just realized I depend on her a lot too...Don't worry, di kayo nagiisa, may mga nephews and nieces ako, may late 30's, early 30's and mid 30's, until now wala pang asawa, talked to my sister and brother, ayaw pa daw ng mga anak nila mag asawa hehehe. Originally Posted by misseksaherada
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February 19th, 2020 06:25 PM #5Dont worry din bruh, may relatives din ako... 55-60 age group sila, until now walang asawa.... sabi nila, may purpose bakit sila hindi nakahanap ng partner, kasi sila yung tumututok sa mga parents nila...financially stable naman at masaya sila na tumutulong sa family nila... Originally Posted by vinrem
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February 20th, 2020 12:31 AM #6Even your nieces? Women have a biological deadline kasi Originally Posted by vinrem
You brought tears to my eyes, thank you because I had to cry this out. I think I am falling into depression, one month na ko na once or twice a week lang pumapasok. Originally Posted by misseksaherada
Naiyak talaga ako dun sa mga bagay na hindi natin ma control. What's so tragic is I can't even control myself. My first step to freedom is to let go of crush. I will focus on my health, dati goal ko was to look good and show him what he is missing but now my goal is to have confidence to meet new people.
Starting today no more posts about crush.Last edited by _Cathy_; February 20th, 2020 at 01:00 AM.
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February 19th, 2020 04:55 PM #7Agree with you bro.... Originally Posted by shadow
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February 19th, 2020 04:50 PM #8follow your instinct.. kung di mo feel mag-asawa.. wag..
ako late ko lang talaga naramdaman.. saklap nga lang babae ako may expiration..
dati ayoko ng kids lalo na yung ngumangawa.. ngayon naiinggit na ako sa merong anak.. pero nung bata pa ako.. no way hi-way talaga ako.. parang di ko kaya mag pamilya.. ngayon I think ready na ako..
hirap naman makahanap ng good guys..
syempre tulad nga ng sabi ni Miss Cathy.. porket ba may edad na basta basta na lang din ba papatol sa tira? maghanap nga lang ng sapatos pinag iisipan at namimili ng husto.. pag aasawa pa kaya..
sana lang maka meet na soon at sunod sa timeline ng goals ko.. LOL [emoji23]
2020 please be good sa mga singles na looking for long time commitment / partnership..
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February 19th, 2020 05:40 PM #9Miss ex, nandyan lang si raynoel sa tabi2. Originally Posted by misseksaherada
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February 19th, 2020 06:54 PM #10On a brighter side, I have a couple of senior managers who seem to be happy with their state of single blessedness. They are quite happy and contented with looking where to invest their funds that they are often visited by real estate and insurance agents and bankers. In my line of work though (like Cathy's), it is quite common to see single women holding high level positions that men would feel intimidated.
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February 19th, 2020 07:15 PM #11Nagusap yun dalawang old maids. [emoji23] ✌🏼️
Then meron tayong 2 binata. Uls and Kags.
Alam na this!!![emoji180][emoji7][emoji8][emoji76]
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February 19th, 2020 07:22 PM #13Andyan ka rin pala!!! May the best man win na lang. Originally Posted by BlancNoir
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February 19th, 2020 07:24 PM #14Career muna. Pag kasing rami na watch collection ko with KingoftheNorth, baka pwede na. Originally Posted by shadow
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February 24th, 2020 08:29 AM #15Go for it Cathy! You can do this.
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February 24th, 2020 11:20 AM #16Dont be that desperate Cathy. The way you described him in your many posts is somebody to stay clear off. Way clear off. You are better off without him.
Your stories about him paint a really nasty picture.
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February 24th, 2020 12:08 PM #17Desperate would be when I make patol my manyak officemate hahaha. Originally Posted by EQAddict
Seriously, I've known SO since 2002 or 2003. I'm starting to miss his presence lang. Still blows my mind why I dated several guys since we knew each other pero dito sa last siya galit na galit
I appreciate your concern, I don't want a romantic relationship with him, still awkward seeing his Dad
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February 24th, 2020 12:19 PM #18 Originally Posted by _Cathy_
Desperate would be when I make patol my manyak officemate hahaha.
Seriously, I've known SO since 2002 or 2003. I'm starting to miss his presence lang. Still blows my mind why I dated several guys since we knew each other pero dito sa last siya galit na galit
I appreciate your concern, I don't want a romantic relationship with him, still awkward seeing his Dad
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di lang yata si older guy (SO) ang gumiv-up sayo dahil kay "crush"
naalala ko may kinwento ka isang guy na naturn-off dahil panay ng kwento mo tungkol kay "crush"
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February 24th, 2020 12:56 PM #19Which one :twak: Originally Posted by uls
I drove away so many people because of my obsession
Yung isa he was BF material (bonus pa Spanish) Even UF liked him for me. He lasted months, tapos nawala for a few weeks, when he resurfaced I was still talking the same so he finally gave up. He spent so much time and effort (totoo naman) but I don't listen to his advice daw.
May isa less than 24 hrs lang. We were having good conversation until he asked me about my last relationship He said I'm not over pa pala
Sa tsikot "friends" ko dami na rin lumayo sakin kasi narindi na
I'm cutting my losses. I feel more free now knowing that I took the first step na
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February 24th, 2020 12:59 PM #20 Originally Posted by _Cathy_
Which one :twak:
I drove away so many people because of my obsession
i don't remember which one
but i'm sure di lang si SO ang nawala sayo dahil sa obsession mo
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