Why are ladies proud to be a single mom in the Philippines?

[yebo]

what a stupid thing to say!

agree. just because a child was raised by a single parent does not necessarily mean the child will grow up bad. "it takes a village".

[shadow]

They're proud because they're able to raise their child on their own.


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[XTO]

They're proud because they're able to raise their child on their own.


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Yes, majority of single moms today have work to rely on. Some who don't have sadly are those palipat lipat.

Eh totoo naman eh. Most Filipino men are bondying.

Naku, sobra dami nyan

[_Cathy_]

I think it is selfish to actively put a child in this world without a father. Kung hindi kailangan ng babae ng asawa, ang bata kailangan ng tatay.

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[holdencaulfield]

I think it is selfish to actively put a child in this world without a father. Kung hindi kailangan ng babae ng asawa, ang bata kailangan ng tatay.

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sus! di na kailangan ng daddy ni baby. nandiyan naman si ipad.

[_Cathy_]

I'm just wondering what kind of damage or mental and emotional toll for children (especially daughters) that NEVER met their fathers in their entire life.

I grew up with married loving parents and yet I have "issues". Nung lumaki ako halos wala ako kilalang broken family, much more anak ng single Mom (I guess also because it wasn't allowed in Catholic schools during my time) Siguro it's not so bad as long as the Dad is involved pero sa sa social media, I've read or watched so many cases na NEVER nakilala father nila How's that kaya? Parang hindi buo ang identity mo kasi hindi mo alam where you came from?

I have a relative that never met her father and she was a problematic child. My family talked about her recently na ang sama ng ugali (ingrata at maliciosa). It makes me wonder if being abandoned by her mother and not knowing who her father is contributed to that.

[Jun aka Pekto]

Why concentrate on the mom who is doing the hard work? I'd be more concerned about the deadbeat dad polluting the gene pool.

[Stigg ma]

Why concentrate on the mom who is doing the hard work? I'd be more concerned about the deadbeat dad polluting the gene pool.

we focus on the mom here because they have the deciding factor to say yes or no to a male partner to create a child, you just cant force it as its called rape...

[Yatta]

we focus on the mom here because they have the deciding factor to say yes or no to a male partner to create a child, you just cant force it as its called rape...

Woah, now its the woman's fault she got knocked up?

[Stigg ma]

Woah, now its the woman's fault she got knocked up?

is it the women's fault? no, its both their fault, but on the other side, it was the woman who decided to let the man in and thus resulted to an offspring... the question is why do they say on social media that they are proud single moms and when you ask them, they will respond they are not interested to get child support from the father?

[Jun aka Pekto]

is it the women's fault? no, its both their fault, but on the other side, it was the woman who decided to let the man in and thus resulted to an offspring... the question is why do they say on social media that they are proud single moms and when you ask them, they will respond they are not interested to get child support from the father?

Most single moms I've seen don't have time to hang around social media sites. But, you say you've seen them. What was their reason for not accepting child support?

You mentioned them saying the father is useless, lazy, no money, and is a headache... From my perspective, these are the kind of dads who cannot or will not provide child support anyway. So, it sounds very contradictory to what you're saying.

I've seen my share of single-mom Filipinas who got out of their marriage. They're friends with my wife and visit from time to time. They have no problems accepting child support from their ex-hubbies. In fact, the only deadbeat among them is the Filipino ex of one of them which was the last thing we expected. We expected a Caucasian ex to be more of an a-hole. But, no. It turned out to be the Filipino ex.

[Jun aka Pekto]

we focus on the mom here because they have the deciding factor to say yes or no to a male partner to create a child, you just cant force it as its called rape...

It's also usually the guy who makes big promises and sweet-talks his way into her pants.

[Juan Martinez]

alright. if you say so.

[dr. d]

Hello my fellow tsikoters

would you mind sharing your insights on why ladies in the Philippines are proud to be a single mom? (except to those ladies who their partner died, thus the reason why they are single moms)

i know majority of members here are men, but still what can you say?

i just want to be enlightened with this topic, in america, men are forced by government to provide financial support to their child in-case they separate via automatic salary deduction...

but here in the Philippines there is no such thing, i even hear from girls that they don't mind if the guy will not provide financial support (win x2 for the men and since he can get away with it, why not do it again!)

i want to find out why this is the trend because in the future, these children raised by single parent might be our next headache leaders because they were not raised in balance by a father and a mother...

wherever did you get this idea, po? the call centers, bpo, dating websites..?
i don't think these accurately represent the world of unwed mothers/ single moms.
is it possible, someone is confusing angst for pride?

[safeorigin]

having a fatherless family promotes the cycle of single parenthood especially in advanced countries.

female children tend to seek father figures

when puberty hits, they become less likely to discern good guys from bad guys just to fill the void

and the cycle continues as a result.



male children, on the other hand, don't have any fathers to look up to as their role model

when puberty hits, they're more likely to develop r selective traits

r/K selection theory - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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[CVT]

And based on my limited experience,- they are aggressive too.... Maybe, they're thinking that they have "no more" to lose... Huwag lang sanang makatiyempo ng isa pang loko....

Kawawa nga sila, but then again, you can only help them so much....


"The measure of a man is what he does with power" LJIOHF!

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[dishcom]

Proud siguro ang isang single mom kung napatapos niya ang lahat ng anak niya at asa maganda na silang kalagayan. Natawid niya mag isa...
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Pero doon sa case na anak lang ang gusto kahit walang asawa e medyo mahirap sa bata. Dadating ang pagkakataon na mag hahanap ng tatay ang bata at magkakaroon siya ng paki ramdam na laging kulang..

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[shadow]

That's so '60s woman staying in the marriage for the sake of children.




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[_Cathy_]

That's so '60s woman staying in the marriage for the sake of children.




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Some stay for financial reasons.

[Mentis]

Some stay for financial reasons.

True!

Yung GF ko nung 90's, lagi raw kwento ng mom nya...
" kung career woman lang ako, matagal ko ng hiniwalayan dad nyu"
Kaya ipinush talaga sya ng mom nya na maging career woman bago pa mag-settle and never ever to quit working.

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