who do you ADMIRED the most

**ihateyouandme** · December 28th, 2005 08:53 PM

A gal who got herself pregnant and hooked a guy to marry him with threats in order for him to marry her? (Will you ever consider loving this kind of girl?)

or the gal who lets go of the guy even if it means she will be suffering from this incident. And the only thing she can do is let go and cry inside.

What can you say about the guy who is in this kind of mess? Is he worth the love of the gal who let go ? How many of you here guys would marry someone just because of a kid(on the way)? Thanks

**cutedoc** · December 28th, 2005 09:39 PM

imo id go against above views, id still marry for the sake of kids and try to work things out after, i know you might say mali na nga nagyari gagawa pa ng mali, for me you could still do damage control and save the future of the kid, hayaan mo na yung future ng sarili mo, pero wag mo hayaan ang future at kinalabasan ng kalokohan na nagawa mo=)

**mikey177** · December 28th, 2005 09:53 PM

The couple I admire the most is the one that controls the urge to have *** until after they have taken their marriage vows.

Call me old-fashioned, I don't give a hoot.

**BlueGirl** · December 28th, 2005 11:45 PM

kung ako yung girl at na preggy ako ng bf ko,il ask him kung gusto niya talaga ako pakasalan,kung dahil lang sa bata,hindi nalang...mahirap na baka maghiwalay din kami mas trauma ata un sa bata kesa maging single parent nalang ako.

**nugundam93** · December 28th, 2005 11:49 PM

cryptic pero andun naman sagot.

i admire that person who won't try to right a wrong with another wrong. :D

**just4u** · December 28th, 2005 11:58 PM

as for me, i don't admire anyone in the incident....

for the preggy one - i bet type na type niya iyong guy for her to threaten him...

for the one who is left crying - di naman siya sure kung labs nga siya nung guy - she's better off without him

as for the guy - mahina siya...(although, puwede niyang ikatwiran : gabi nun, madilim.....j/k)

imo

**ihateyouandme** · December 29th, 2005 01:43 AM

just to be clear this is a triangle mess

a gal(thirdparty), a guy (bf) , the one who was left crying (gf of the guy)
well i asked the guy how it happened he claimed to actually wanting the same thing happening and there was active participation.

my question is: will you guys actually is would you consider loving this gal (third party) who is threatening the guy and forcing him to marry her? do you respect that kind of gal. Someone who f*cks around anyone and who doesnt have a job?

**Chip** · December 29th, 2005 01:49 AM

well i asked the guy how it happened he claimed to actually wanting the same thing happening and there was active participation.
--what do you mean? what is this 'same thing happening'? ill assume na they both wanted to fool around

well i dont admire anyone in this situation. there's nothing admirable about cheating, about being a victim and about blackmail.

**oldblue** · December 29th, 2005 02:40 AM

support the incoming kid for life and marry who he really loves, that's the most admirable thing to do

**ihateyouandme** · December 29th, 2005 04:08 AM

Originally Posted by oldblue

support the incoming kid for life and marry who he really loves, that's the most admirable thing to do

Very well said!

Among the three who is the most admirable? i know that none may be admirable but rank them 1,2,3..1 as being the most admirable (judging by his/her virtues)