What Are You Thinking About?

**BlancNoir** · August 23rd, 2018 12:00 AM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

Hehe.. imo, with regard to the amount kung ano yung bukal sa kaluoban mo bro. Pwede ring overnight stay or gift checks...

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Pwede rin no? Good idea yung overnight stay.

Pero hindi ba dapat spec8al gift ko kasi ako yung bestman?

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**dr. d** · August 23rd, 2018 12:35 AM

for major ninongs,
you are "expected" (in our culture, that is) to provide the advice of the ages, and financial gains. be as generous as you can afford, without breaking your piggy of a bank.

the gift registry is aimed at the other guests.
main ninongs are a class all their own.

best men... you're there to provide a service for the groom. google your role, sir. you might be surprised. and since you are about as old as the groom, you will also probably be in the similar state of financial dis-repair as him. so... nothing much in financial help, may be expected of you.

**Jun aka Pekto** · August 23rd, 2018 03:43 AM

I'm done with my courses. So, I only go to the campus to drop off and pick up my kid. I like to watch coeds pass by while I wait. Maybe it's just me. But, there seems to be a lot more Asian-Americans on campus.

**ninjababez** · August 23rd, 2018 04:20 AM

Originally Posted by minicarph

Mapanga naman yun, actually tanggalin mo long hair muka sya lalaki

alam mo ba advantage ng mapanga na babae? or di mo malaman difference dahil mini ka nga?

**sean-archer** · August 23rd, 2018 07:12 AM

Originally Posted by BlancNoir

Pwede rin no? Good idea yung overnight stay.

Pero hindi ba dapat spec8al gift ko kasi ako yung bestman?

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More on the ceremonies yung part mo, stag party yes, not necessarily shoulder mo lahat gastos and dun sa muse na darating. Ikaw lng mag facilitate. Sa wedding mismo, yes, yung usual na kasama ka sa photos, nakadikit ka sa groom lagi para pag may kailangan sya etc., the speech of course. And pag flirt sa mga abay. Joke lng.

Sa gift, depende kung panu gumasta yung bibigyan mo. Magkano ma appreciate nya. Consider mo financial status nila, how much he make? Etc. Hanggang San makarating amount na bibigay mo.. The similar amount para maka pag overnight stay sila somewhere siguro is a good number na . Now, yung nagastos sa kasal, sa mga Ninong na yun! Haha

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**cast_no_shadow** · August 23rd, 2018 08:48 AM

^

Exactly, kaya nga sabi ko kami ni wifey hindi kami nag expect na yung mga friends namin is magbibigay nga ng monetary gifts.

Yung pag join nila as part of the entourage and pagpunta nila enough na.

Pero reading the replies of OP mukhang budget is not an issue. Go splurge with your gift.

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**BlancNoir** · August 23rd, 2018 11:13 AM

Thank you very much for your input bros!

Makes a lot of sense for the best man to be more of helping the groom than providing.

Tama ka doc! We are in the same state of financial dis-repair.

Bro archer, ako na bahala sa controversial bestman speech and pag alaga sa mga abay. [emoji23] maybe i'll buy them a gift voucher nalang for an overnight stay somewhere in MNL.

Shadow, budget is definitely my concern. Pero since this is one my best buds getting married, i want to give something special. Pero that special thing might not be monetary or material after all base sa comments ninyo.
It can be in the form of service during the prep and wedding itself and moral support from here on out since there is no turning back once he is married.

Thank you again bros! Mejo naliwanagan na ako! [emoji4]

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**minicarph** · August 23rd, 2018 01:49 PM

Originally Posted by ninjababez

alam mo ba advantage ng mapanga na babae? or di mo malaman difference dahil mini ka nga?

Si KC Nga ang nag-service sayo pero from your point of view sa itaas parsng si gabby gumagawa, ikaw na lang ninja

**brushless** · August 24th, 2018 07:12 AM

Just woke up with a splitting headache. I think I drank too much.

Oh FOK.

**MR_BIG18** · August 24th, 2018 08:49 AM

Originally Posted by brushless

Just woke up with a splitting headache. I think I drank too much.

Oh FOK.

In relation to your post, i had an argument with an old friend last sat...he said im not happy anymore coz ive been sober for 3 years...i told him being with them is happiness enough for me, he was obiviously drunk and kept on telling me that ive been missing a lot...di ko nalang pinatulan, buti i friend stepped in and changed the subject..

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