What Are You Thinking About?

[kagalingan]

I meant not smart or madiskarte. My Aunt also keeps teasing my Uncle na maitim at walang alam. It's just so opposite from my parents na my Mom is so proud of my Dad's looks and she prefers Dad do the decisions because Dad knows what's best. I'm honesty stressed out. Example kanina natabig Uncle ko yung jar of food, galit na galit Aunt ko OMG.

cathey nagkakabwisitan na yan. Narealize na hindi sila match. Nung bata ba sila may kwarta uncle mo ?

Kaya pag nagsasalita si "intelligencia of the philippines" eh lagi tinatanong ano ba purpose bakit ka mag-aasawa; dahil gusto mag-anak? dahil para may mga alaga sa pagtanda? Para magkadirection buhay? All selfish oppurtunistic motive.

Kaya ako thankful nakita ko kagandahan ng singol and i reaping the benefits in this age. Pwede ako mag-asawa pero dapat match kami ng purpose. Hindi pwede typical pinoy family work anak work anak. Kapagod yun boring.

[dr. d]

I meant not smart or madiskarte. My Aunt also keeps teasing my Uncle na maitim at walang alam. It's just so opposite from my parents na my Mom is so proud of my Dad's looks and she prefers Dad do the decisions because Dad knows what's best. I'm honesty stressed out. Example kanina natabig Uncle ko yung jar of food, galit na galit Aunt ko OMG.

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it would appear, you are the one who's not happy...

they've been married for decades already.
pabayaan mo na sila. they wouldn't stay together that long, if they weren't happy with each other.

[_Cathy_]

cathey nagkakabwisitan na yan. Narealize na hindi sila match. Nung bata ba sila may kwarta uncle mo ?

Kaya pag nagsasalita si "intelligencia of the philippines" eh lagi tinatanong ano ba purpose bakit ka mag-aasawa; dahil gusto mag-anak? dahil para may mga alaga sa pagtanda? Para magkadirection buhay? All selfish oppurtunistic motive.

Kaya ako thankful nakita ko kagandahan ng singol and i reaping the benefits in this age. Pwede ako mag-asawa pero dapat match kami ng purpose. Hindi pwede typical pinoy family work anak work anak. Kapagod yun boring.

Hindi ko alam who had more money but my Uncle sacrificed a lot because it was my Aunt who wanted to migrate. Sa nakikita ko yung Auntie ko lang may animosity towards my Uncle kasi Uncle ko parang santo, verbal abuse na IMO pero hindi sumasagot. Aunt ko and Mom ko, they always put down my Uncle. Abogado daw pero walang alam. Hehe.

Anyway, not all marriages are stressful naman. My Mom told me she prays that I experience the joy of having a husband and children. Minsan nga pag masungit ako sinasabi Mom ko kaya masungit ako kasi walang asawa hahaha! Iba daw talaga nadudulot na saya ng may asawa. I guess for women who married well, life is good talaga. Who wouldn't want to wake up next to and raise children with the love of your life diba?

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[bloowolf]

^a marriage may be perfect to the couple involved but not all marriages are perfect to someone else’s eyes. You have to work on the marriage. Think of it this way, it’s a union of 2 people brought up entirely different from one another. Definitely, there will be conflict in it. Also, you’d never know the person unless you live with him. You have to live with the flaws.


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[CVT]

cathey nagkakabwisitan na yan. Narealize na hindi sila match. Nung bata ba sila may kwarta uncle mo ?

Kaya pag nagsasalita si "intelligencia of the philippines" eh lagi tinatanong ano ba purpose bakit ka mag-aasawa; dahil gusto mag-anak? dahil para may mga alaga sa pagtanda? Para magkadirection buhay? All selfish oppurtunistic motive.

Kaya ako thankful nakita ko kagandahan ng singol and i reaping the benefits in this age. Pwede ako mag-asawa pero dapat match kami ng purpose. Hindi pwede typical pinoy family work anak work anak. Kapagod yun boring.

Singol ka pa rin pala bro, katulad ni bro.uls and staying in the same area. Good common ground for an EB....😉😁😍🤗

[_Cathy_]

it would appear, you are the one who's not happy...

they've been married for decades already.
pabayaan mo na sila. they wouldn't stay together that long, if they weren't happy with each other.

I'm just stating my observation. Also, hindi mo rin naman nakikita dahil hindi ka nakatira with them. Married or not, nobody deserves to be treated that way. Even the helpers at our house are treated better, we never call them tanga or walang alam and we don't get mad at mistakes. Pag Dad ko nakabasag pinggan, my Mom never gets mad. Last week lang nakabasag ako bowl, my Mom just asked what happened, I said it slipped, end of story. Walang sigawan at sisihan. Nakaka stress yung lahat ng maliit na bagay e away. Small things pati the way my Uncle eats his fish cino control Aunt ko. Amount of food. Cups of coffee. Pag tulog. I love my Aunt but if I were a man, I wouldn't last a month like that.

^a marriage may be perfect to the couple involved but not all marriages are perfect to someone else’s eyes. You have to work on the marriage. Think of it this way, it’s a union of 2 people brought up entirely different from one another. Definitely, there will be conflict in it. Also, you’d never know the person unless you live with him. You have to live with the flaws.


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So are you saying kahit abusive ang marriage (not saying ganito ang Uncle and Aunt ko), basta masaya sila okay lang? That is a classic case of codependency
I'm sorry but I have to disagree, may marriages na toxic at meron din healthy. Just because matagal ang marriage e masaya na. I have another Uncle Dutertard and Aunt na my Aunt is vocal to us na if it weren't for the children and financial complications matagal na niya iniwan Uncle ko.

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[bloowolf]

I'm just stating my observation. Also, hindi mo rin naman nakikita dahil hindi ka nakatira with them. Married or not, nobody deserves to be treated that way. Even the helpers at our house are treated better, we never call them tanga or walang alam and we don't get mad at mistakes. Pag Dad ko nakabasag pinggan, my Mom never gets mad. Last week lang nakabasag ako bowl, my Mom just asked what happened, I said it slipped, end of story. Walang sigawan at sisihan. Nakaka stress yung lahat ng maliit na bagay e away. Small things pati the way my Uncle eats his fish cino control Aunt ko. Amount of food. Cups of coffee. Pag tulog. I love my Aunt but if I were a man, I wouldn't last a month like that.

So are you saying kahit abusive ang marriage (not saying ganito ang Uncle and Aunt ko), basta masaya sila okay lang? That is a classic case of codependency
I'm sorry but I have to disagree, may marriages na toxic at meron din healthy. Just because matagal ang marriage e masaya na. I have another Uncle Dutertard and Aunt na my Aunt is vocal to us na if it weren't for the children and financial complications matagal na niya iniwan Uncle ko.

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No, I’m just saying you have to work it out, give it a chance. You can’t just give up on it. If, in spite of your efforts & things don’t change, then the marriage is not worth keeping.


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[CVT]

"Lift your head
Baby don't be scared
Of the things that
Could go wrong
Along the way
You'll get by
With a smile...
You can never be
Too happy
In this life....

Cause in a world
Where everybody hates
A happy ending story
It's a wonder love
Can make the
World go 'round...."

[ray_noel]

"Lift your head
Baby don't be scared
Of the things that
Could go wrong
Along the way
You'll get by
With a smile...
You can never be
Too happy
In this life....

Cause in a world
Where everybody hates
A happy ending story
It's a wonder love
Can make the
World go 'round...."

Too doo doo doo...


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[MR_BIG18]

Suicide you mean? People who do that have mental illness. What is alarming is when kids do it. I heard the 15 y/o son of a well known Sports surgeon took his life almost 2 months ago. Reason for it is really vague, one is gf issues & another is not being accepted into an IV league school.


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my staff committed suicide last thursday..he was 24 years old..

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[MR_BIG18]

I meant not smart or madiskarte. My Aunt also keeps teasing my Uncle na maitim at walang alam. It's just so opposite from my parents na my Mom is so proud of my Dad's looks and she prefers Dad do the decisions because Dad knows what's best. I'm honesty stressed out. Example kanina natabig Uncle ko yung jar of food, galit na galit Aunt ko OMG.

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thats how marriage is..

Understanding Your Love Language. Jeff Allen - YouTube

but they cant live without each other..when you get married youll understand

[ray_noel]

thats how marriage is..

Understanding Your Love Language. Jeff Allen - YouTube

but they cant live without each other..when you get married youll understand

[emoji4] ma cath. [emoji106]


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[_Cathy_]

No, I’m just saying you have to work it out, give it a chance. You can’t just give up on it. If, in spite of your efforts & things don’t change, then the marriage is not worth keeping.


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Agree on that. In my generation daming hiwalay na

thats how marriage is..

Understanding Your Love Language. Jeff Allen - YouTube

but they cant live without each other..when you get married youll understand

I'm a believer of love languages! Mine is gifts Surprisingly, that was introduced to us in school, sa values and ethics class.

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[shadow]

Naguguluhan na ako. Is there somethjbf going on between cathy and Ray noel?


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[ninjababez]

Naguguluhan na ako. Is there somethjbf going on between cathy and Ray noel?


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ayaw ni cathy siguro ng something to go on, kaya pumunta ng us of a [emoji23][emoji1787]

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[_Cathy_]

Naguguluhan na ako. Is there somethjbf going on between cathy and Ray noel?


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Ganyan siya sa lahat ng babae sa board

ayaw ni cathy siguro ng something to go on, kaya pumunta ng us of a [emoji23][emoji1787]

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Hahahaha

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[travajante]

ayaw ni cathy siguro ng something to go on, kaya pumunta ng us of a [emoji23][emoji1787]

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Nah...it's more like a test of determination.[emoji4]

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[ray_noel]

Naguguluhan na ako. Is there somethjbf going on between cathy and Ray noel?


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ayaw ni cathy siguro ng something to go on, kaya pumunta ng us of a [emoji23][emoji1787]

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Ganyan siya sa lahat ng babae sa board

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Nah...it's more like a test of determination.[emoji4]

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Si cathy yung special na prutas na kay hirap abotin kasi napakalayo at nag iisang bunga... kailangan mo akyatin at gumamit ng mahabang panungkit, to reach her... she’s sweet, delicious and makinis... she will be a great wife if ever...


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[shadow]

Si cathy yung special na prutas na kay hirap abotin kasi napakalayo at nag iisang bunga... kailangan mo akyatin at gumamit ng mahabang panungkit, to reach her... she’s sweet, delicious and makinis... she will be a great wife if ever...


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Type mo talaga si cath? Kahit hinde mo pa nakikita?


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[BratPAQ]

Si cathy yung special na prutas na kay hirap abotin kasi napakalayo at nag iisang bunga... kailangan mo akyatin at gumamit ng mahabang panungkit, to reach her... she’s sweet, delicious and makinis... she will be a great wife if ever...


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Mahaba panungkit mo?

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