What Are You Thinking About?

**travajante** · May 6th, 2019 09:08 PM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

Yes! Goal ko yan... encyclopedic knowledge para alam ko pano mag psywar...

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Women aren't your enemies, ray bai.[emoji4]

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**_Cathy_** · May 6th, 2019 10:49 PM

Can a guy still afford to have an unknowing mistress at the age of social media?!?! My friends and I were just talking about it, parang hindi na possible. Tanga tangahan na lang siguro yung kabit, kunyari di niya alam may asawa but she knows.

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**jaggerx3** · May 6th, 2019 10:57 PM

Pg FuBu ba hindi muna nagpapakilala sa first meet?

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**StockEngine** · May 6th, 2019 11:33 PM

Originally Posted by jaggerx3

Pg FuBu ba hindi muna nagpapakilala sa first meet?

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mali ang term bro. friend with bens

**ray_noel** · May 6th, 2019 11:59 PM

Originally Posted by travajante

Women aren't your enemies, ray bai.[emoji4]

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Sige psylove na lang... hehehe...

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**_Cathy_** · May 7th, 2019 12:33 AM

Originally Posted by travajante

It'll be selfless of you, ma'am...as you'll be doing it for your mom. Don't overthink a beautiful reason.[emoji4]

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I wish it were simple but like I said, I can't procreate with just anybody. I could see myself with crush, but that's long over

Originally Posted by dr. d

errr... but how did you conclude that he has good genes?
...because he is built tall and powerful, has good teeth, sports a luxurious head of hair that puts a horse to shame, looks good and is intelligent?

malay mo, next time you meet in a couple of years, advanced stage na ang male pattern baldness niya... jabetic na siya.. may cancer na... etc?
perhaps you should have done genetic testing on his blood when you had the chance?

some folks say, jokingly but hitting the nail on the head, to look at the person's family and relatives, to get an idea of the person's potential genetic issues.
heh heh heh.

WOW doctor! You made me smile! I am amused that you described crush perfectly

He is in his mid 40s, dapat lumabas na yung baldness by then. Yung illness naman, kung magkaron, hindi na nakakapagtaka because of age. I am happy with what saw and know.

Originally Posted by bloowolf

If I may chime in, though I might be threading on thin ice here. When you meet a person, of course the positives are shown first. Positives are the looks, genes, work etc... But in choosing a potential future partner, you will have to look into the negatives & ask yourself “can I live with these?” There are small & big irritants in a partnership that you have to learn to accept & live with & those take time, patience & maturity.

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We weren't together long enough but I can't see any negative in him. He has a huge deal breaker (that I do not wish to discuss), if I can get pass that detal breaker, I could deal with everything else. Mahal na mahal ko talaga siya (wow lalim)

Originally Posted by badkuk

i kinda agree with sir here. Pinaka sakit ng ulo ng mga adoptive parents is the "history" of the child: me predisposition ba sa cancer, diabetes, etc? Me history ba ng mental illness? This is not only for the "convenience" of the parents, but they'd also want to know what to watch out for if their adoptive child is predisposed to anything(diabetes, cancer, a quirk for overusing double quotes, etc.).

The same situation kinda applies to "donors". Diba the sperm bank people are supposed to screen for that?

Of course, in the most idealistic sense, you are supposed to love your child, warts and all. But sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, i wouldn't blame people for wanting to know those details, and acting on them.

This is true, before I get involved with a guy I would find out if the family has a history of mental illness, suicide, homo***uality, crime/violence, addiction etc. All those are genetic. Pasado naman si crush, at pasado din family ko sa kanya haha. We have similar values

Originally Posted by CVT

That's why marriage is a gamble, no matter what.

You can probably minimize the risks, but there will be, definitely, down the road....

From 21 Suggestions to Success by H. Jackson Brown Jr.

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.

I couldn't agree more. I can't count the number of people whose lives changes (positively and negatively) through their choice of partner. May mga spouse din na nilalayo asawa nila from the parents and siblings.

I definitely need to stop talking about crush. I will throw a party when the day comes na I could 100% have no feelings for him anymore.

**sparc179** · May 7th, 2019 08:15 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

I definitely need to stop talking about crush. I will throw a party when the day comes na I could 100% have no feelings for him anymore.

JMHO but I think you're going about it the wrong way, the more you try to quash your deep emotions about someone you love then you end up feeling those emotions even more. You're in denial.

Better to just accept that you still love him and that you just need to move on. Lucky are those who found their possible soul mates but decided it wouldn't have worked out, saved themselves from all the misery and heartache of a bad break-up, or worse annulment/ divorce.

Yes, I'm speaking from experience. LoL.