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[dr. d]

If I may chime in, though I might be threading on thin ice here. When you meet a person, of course the positives are shown first. Positives are the looks, genes, work etc... But in choosing a potential future partner, you will have to look into the negatives & ask yourself “can I live with these?” There are small & big irritants in a partnership that you have to learn to accept & live with & those take time, patience & maturity.


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i agree with the thin ice.
and by the time we "discover" that the ice is thin indeed, we'd be in the middle of the lake..., feeling all those little cracks around our feet...

life.
it's a gamble.

[badkuk]

errr... but how did you conclude that he has good genes?
...because he is built tall and powerful, has good teeth, sports a luxurious head of hair that puts a horse to shame, looks good and is intelligent?

malay mo, next time you meet in a couple of years, advanced stage na ang male pattern baldness niya... jabetic na siya.. may cancer na... etc?
perhaps you should have done genetic testing on his blood when you had the chance?

some folks say, jokingly but hitting the nail on the head, to look at the person's family and relatives, to get an idea of the person's potential genetic issues.
heh heh heh.

i kinda agree with sir here. Pinaka sakit ng ulo ng mga adoptive parents is the "history" of the child: me predisposition ba sa cancer, diabetes, etc? Me history ba ng mental illness? This is not only for the "convenience" of the parents, but they'd also want to know what to watch out for if their adoptive child is predisposed to anything(diabetes, cancer, a quirk for overusing double quotes, etc.).

The same situation kinda applies to "donors". Diba the sperm bank people are supposed to screen for that?

Of course, in the most idealistic sense, you are supposed to love your child, warts and all. But sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, i wouldn't blame people for wanting to know those details, and acting on them.

[CVT]

If I may chime in, though I might be threading on thin ice here. When you meet a person, of course the positives are shown first. Positives are the looks, genes, work etc... But in choosing a potential future partner, you will have to look into the negatives & ask yourself “can I live with these?” There are small & big irritants in a partnership that you have to learn to accept & live with & those take time, patience & maturity.


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That's why marriage is a gamble, no matter what.

You can probably minimize the risks, but there will be, definitely, down the road....


From 21 Suggestions to Success by H. Jackson Brown Jr.

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.

[ray_noel]

That's why marriage is a gamble, no matter what.

You can probably minimize the risks, but there will be, definitely, down the road....


From 21 Suggestions to Success by H. Jackson Brown Jr.

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.

What if makaliwa yung person, but you both inlove? Haha joke!

Does it matter if it’s needed to have a long engagement?
Kasi i think in marriage, sabi nila you will know the real him/her during your marriage life... for me long engagment is worthy kasi 90% you know the person na and that 10% pag nasa isang bahay na kayo...

pero if you are in the age na naghahanap ka na ng mag aalaga sayo i think marriage life can be your long engagement as well... heheh... tipong, may pera ka, may insurance, pwede na itoh... heheh...


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[bloowolf]

What if makaliwa yung person, but you both inlove? Haha joke!

Does it matter if it’s needed to have a long engagement?
Kasi i think in marriage, sabi nila you will know the real him/her during your marriage life... for me long engagment is worthy kasi 90% you know the person na and that 10% pag nasa isang bahay na kayo...

pero if you are in the age na naghahanap ka na ng mag aalaga sayo i think marriage life can be your long engagement as well... heheh... tipong, may pera ka, may insurance, pwede na itoh... heheh...


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If, for instance you are already serious enough with your partner to make that next significant step, try to listen to rumors also. For example, may balita na ubod ng babaero, may times na suspiciously inaccessible pagka tinatawagan, may balita ka na corrupt o killer, nasasayo yun kung acceptable yung mga yun. My Aunt told us once, if there is any doubt, then don’t.
OT this reminded me, ikakasal na si Maria Ozawa!


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[CVT]

Does it matter if it’s needed to have a long engagement?
Kasi i think in marriage, sabi nila you will know the real him/her during your marriage life... for me long engagment is worthy kasi 90% you know the person na and that 10% pag nasa isang bahay na kayo...

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Sadly, was a fallout of a long engagement, bro..😂😎🤔

Never looked back...

[travajante]

What if makaliwa yung person, but you both inlove? Haha joke!

Does it matter if it’s needed to have a long engagement?
Kasi i think in marriage, sabi nila you will know the real him/her during your marriage life... for me long engagment is worthy kasi 90% you know the person na and that 10% pag nasa isang bahay na kayo...

pero if you are in the age na naghahanap ka na ng mag aalaga sayo i think marriage life can be your long engagement as well... heheh... tipong, may pera ka, may insurance, pwede na itoh... heheh...


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One thing you should do if you're looking outside local, bai.....you have to do way more than flick tix & guided tours.....You gotta relocate.[emoji4]



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[ray_noel]

If, for instance you are already serious enough with your partner to make that next significant step, try to listen to rumors also. For example, may balita na ubod ng babaero, may times na suspiciously inaccessible pagka tinatawagan, may balita ka na corrupt o killer, nasasayo yun kung acceptable yung mga yun. My Aunt told us once, if there is any doubt, then don’t.
OT this reminded me, ikakasal na si Maria Ozawa!


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If in doubt, pero ang ganda and ***y naman bruh, i will risk my emotions in exchange for experience... hehe...

Sadly, was a fallout of a long engagement, bro..[emoji23][emoji41][emoji848]

Never looked back...

Ops, you’re one in those who are in 10yrs relationship but at the end, hindi rin pala kayo... sabi nga nila if 10years and hindi nyo dadalhin sa next stage ang relationship nyo like pakasal na kayo, malaki chance na magkahiwalay...
But good thing you’ve move on bruh! Kudos! Iba kasi nagpapari na lang or if not nagiging kags... [emoji3577][emoji4]

One thing you should do if you're looking outside local, bai.....you have to do way more than flick tix & guided tours.....You gotta relocate.[emoji4]



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Hahaha... sabi nga ni celine dion love can move mountains even the world... hmmm...


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[bloowolf]

If in doubt, pero ang ganda and ***y naman bruh, i will risk my emotions in exchange for experience...


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Yung walang ginawa kundi magpaganda, magpaseksi maghapon tapos mag selfie ng selfie at post sa social media? Wife material ba yun?


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[StockEngine]

If in doubt, pero ang ganda and ***y naman bruh, i will risk my emotions in exchange for experience... hehe...

please elaborate? ��

I mean hindi ka pa ba nag ka gf na ***y?