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[uls]

I will never understand wives who dominate their husbands.

The husband makes the decisions and the wife is there for support. Even the bible says it. I can't help but SMH when I hear stories of wives na pati teritoryo ng lalaki pinapakialaman (such as cars)

pinoy men kasi are majority beta

kaya pansin mo sa mga mag asawa usually husband & wife decision-making pag bibili ng appliances, kotse, bahay

mas makulit pa nga mga misis madami tanong hehe

meron mga husband hinahayaan nalang ang misis mag desisyon

para walang away

happy wife happy life nga daw

[uls]

And yes Cathy when a woman has a high achiever alpha husband hahayaan nalang ng niya mag desisyon ung husband

coz tiwala naman siya na good decision maker ang husband niya

i know where you're coming from

ganyan kasi kinalakihan mo

[mda]

And yes Cathy when a woman has a high achiever alpha husband hahayaan nalang ng niya mag desisyon ung husband

coz tiwala naman siya na good decision maker ang husband niya

i know where you're coming from

ganyan kasi kinalakihan mo

Paano kung Alpha yung napang asawa tapos bulok pala mag decision...?

Tapos stubborn, ayaw sumunod sa pinagpapayo...

Hehe lagot

[shadow]

Tinging ko uls sa ngayon Pag mas mataas SES ng pamilya mas "husband and wife" ang decision since more or less equal ang educational background, both are earnings and couples are more open to communication.

Pag nasa C, D, E na. yun tatay na masusunod kundi bugbog yun asawa and walang sariling income yun babae. Wala rin Education so asa lang sa asawa na laborer.


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[uls]

Paano kung Alpha yung napang asawa tapos bulok pala mag decision...?

Tapos stubborn, ayaw sumunod sa pinagpapayo...

Hehe lagot

tulog pa yata si Cathy so spokesman ako

ganito po

basically, kailangan mabilib si Cathy sa isang guy bago niya magustuhan

since Cathy has good taste she's hard to impress

so kung nakita niya a guy has bad taste di na niya magiging bf yan in the first place

so hindi mangyayari na bad decision maker ang magiging husband ni Cathy

sabi nga niya either she meets one or she stays single forever

[dr. d]

tulog pa yata si Cathy so spokeman ako

ganito po

basically, kailangan mabilib si Cathy sa isang guy bago niya magustuhan

since Cathy has good taste she's hard to impress

so kung nakita niya a guy has bad taste di na niya magiging bf yan in the first place

so hindi mangyayari na bad decision maker ang magiging husband ni Cathy

sabi nga niya either she meets one or she stays single forever

the longer she remains single, the larger the looming probability that she stays single forever.

but hey! i know of folks who rued the day they got married.

[uls]

Tinging ko uls sa ngayon Pag mas mataas SES ng pamilya mas "husband and wife" ang decision since more or less equal ang educational background, both are earnings and couples are more open to communication.

Pag nasa C, D, E na. yun tatay na masusunod kundi bugbog yun asawa and walang sariling income yun babae. Wala rin Education so asa lang sa asawa na laborer.


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tingin ko pag sobra talino ung babae tapos ung lalake hindi kasing talino, i-do-dominate talaga ng babae ung lalake sa decision-making

[shadow]

tingin ko pag sobra talino ung babae tapos ung lalake hindi kasing talino, i-do-dominate talaga ng babae ung lalake sa decision-making

Eh ano yun "Khiang"? Mga lola yun unang tinatanong about sa GF ng mga apo nila. [emoji23]


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[uls]

Eh ano yun "Khiang"? Mga lola yun unang tinatanong about sa GF ng mga apo nila. [emoji23]


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yeah mga khiang poh

kawawa mga mister sa ganyan hehe

pero mga khiang poh gaw tan chi

magaling hawak business

[shadow]

yeah mga khiang poh

kawawa mga mister sa ganyan hehe

pero mga khiang poh gaw tan chi

magaling hawak business

Ano ba Khiang sa filipino? Ma diskarte or maabilidad?


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[uls]

Ano ba Khiang sa filipino? Ma diskarte or maabilidad?


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i think "khiang" is combination of matalino and mataray and malakas ang loob

kasi may matalino na tahimik and submissive eh

like mataas ang pinag aralan pero submit sa husband

like diba meron traditional na babae na hindi nakikialam sa business and hindi nag iinteract outside her social circle

meron naman mga babae nagpapatakbo ng business, dealing with customers, dealing with govt people, etc

ung ganyan babae i see as "khiang"

[shadow]

Tiger mom. [emoji23]


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[_Cathy_]

tulog pa yata si Cathy so spokesman ako

ganito po

basically, kailangan mabilib si Cathy sa isang guy bago niya magustuhan

So kung nakita niya a guy has bad taste di na niya magiging bf yan in the first place

so hindi mangyayari na bad decision maker ang magiging husband ni Cathy

sabi nga niya either she meets one or she stays single forever

Thank you. ULS said it all. Strong personality at decisive ang gusto ko sa lalaki. Ayoko ng kaya kong i dominate.

I want someone that can manage and control me. For a guy to do that, kailangan strong personality because I can be very stubborn. Pag nakita ko na I can trust a guy, that is when I submit.

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[shadow]

Thank you. ULS said it all. Strong personality at decisive ang gusto ko sa lalaki. Ayoko ng kaya kong i dominate.

I want someone that can manage and control me. For a guy to do that, kailangan strong personality because I can be very stubborn. Pag nakita ko na I can trust a guy, that is when I submit.

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Eh bakit Hinde na lang kayo ni uls maging Couple? You know each other so well naman. [emoji7]

Cath, 40 ka na sa October. [emoji4]


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[_Cathy_]

Tinging ko uls sa ngayon Pag mas mataas SES ng pamilya mas "husband and wife" ang decision since more or less equal ang educational background, both are earnings and couples are more open to communication.

Pag nasa C, D, E na. yun tatay na masusunod kundi bugbog yun asawa and walang sariling income yun babae. Wala rin Education so asa lang sa asawa na laborer.


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Middle class kami, not C, D or E but my Mom submits to my Dad. My Mom is in her 70s and I would think empowered for her generation. She has a masters degree and started driving in the 60s, right after college. Kahit strong and independent Mom ko she still lets my Dad be the man of the house.

I grew up in a family that looks up to men - when they deserve it.

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[shadow]

Middle class kami, not C, D or E but my Mom submits to my Dad. My Mom is in her 70s and I would think empowered for her generation. She has a masters degree and started driving in the 60s, right after college. Kahit strong and independent Mom ko she still lets my Dad be the man of the house.

I grew up in a family that looks up to men - when they deserve it.

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Generally ganun tingin ko. Of course theres always exceptions to the rule.


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[_Cathy_]

Eh bakit Hinde na lang kayo ni uls maging Couple? You know each other so well naman. [emoji7]

Cath, 40 ka na sa October. [emoji4]


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Eh di 41 ka na this year? Hahah. Pinapatanda mo ko parati. Grrr.

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[shadow]

I think I'm gonna watch Mary Magdalene the movie today.


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[mda]

Middle class kami, not C, D or E but my Mom submits to my Dad. My Mom is in her 70s and I would think empowered for her generation. She has a masters degree and started driving in the 60s, right after college. Kahit strong and independent Mom ko she still lets my Dad be the man of the house.

I grew up in a family that looks up to men - when they deserve it.

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Driving in the 60s... Masters... hindi ata kayo middle class haha

[uls]

Middle class kami, not C, D or E but my Mom submits to my Dad. My Mom is in her 70s and I would think empowered for her generation. She has a masters degree and started driving in the 60s, right after college. Kahit strong and independent Mom ko she still lets my Dad be the man of the house.

I grew up in a family that looks up to men - when they deserve it.

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di ka middle class

your ancestors are landowners