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[jut703]

I noticed that among my batchmates who've gotten engaged recently, most are from college and none are from high school.

I wonder why - is it a socioeconomic thing (Ateneans are more well-off than Pisay scholars, and thus are more financially capable early on thanks to mom and dad) or is it a professional thing (many Pisay alumni take up further studies - medicine, doctorate/masters degrees - and thus delay marriage)?

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[BratPAQ]

What's all the fuzz about Zarks burger? tried it today kasi the kids wants to have lunch there, di naman ganun kasarap, yung patty parang not 100% beef and soggy pa.

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Maybe because of this. Bad publicity is still publicity.
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[dr. d]

I noticed that among my batchmates who've gotten engaged recently, most are from college and none are from high school.

I wonder why - is it a socioeconomic thing (Ateneans are more well-off than Pisay scholars, and thus are more financially capable early on thanks to mom and dad) or is it a professional thing (many Pisay alumni take up further studies - medicine, doctorate/masters degrees - and thus delay marriage)?

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mas maraming mayaman sa arrhneo, kaysa pisay. there's this tuition fee thing, that somewhat screens out the non-rich from arrhneo.
they probably can get married earlier in their careers, because their backgrounds are... richer... more stable.

also, is it possible, that you are more in contact with your recent college classmates, and less with your not-too-recent high school classmates?
i mean, since their are college classmates, you and they have more in common than the diversity that your high school classmates might have hidden themselves in.

in my case, i know where one-third of my college and medical school classmates are.
i do not know where most of my high school classmates are.
if i am forced, i would guess that a larger proportion of my medical school classmates are un-married, than my high school classmates. but i guess, that is more an effect of "hazards of the profession". when it comes to statistics, keep the doctors out of it. they somehow "screw" the statistics, i.e., they do not follow population norms.

my opinion.

but i would be interested in a study regarding these parameters.

[jut703]

mas maraming mayaman sa arrhneo, kaysa pisay. there's this tuition fee thing, that somehow screens out the non-rich from arrhneo.
they probably can get married earlier in their careers, because their backgrounds are... richer.

also, is it possible, that you are more in contact with your recent college classmates, and less with your not-too-recent high school classmates?
i mean, since their are college classmates, you and they have more in common than the diversity that your high school classmates might have hidden themselves in.

in my case, i know where half of my college and medical school classmates are.
i do not know where most of my high school classmates are.

In the age of social media, it's easy to keep tabs on different groups. I'm FB/IG friends with about as many of my highschool batchmates as my college batchmates.

I also have more in common with my highschool batchmates than my college batchmates. Same socio-economic background, same intellectual interests, plus the big bonus of having the same experiences during the critical teenage years.

In fact I'm much closer to my high school barkada than my college barkada.

So it's really not a matter of the college set being more visible. I keep tabs on both and there are really more from the Ateneo crowd getting engaged. Your guess (socio-economic reasons) is probably the most plausible explanation.

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[falken]

What's all the fuzz about Zarks burger? tried it today kasi the kids wants to have lunch there, di naman ganun kasarap, yung patty parang not 100% beef and soggy pa.

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I had the same conclusion.

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[dr. d]

In the age of social media, it's easy to keep tabs on different groups. I'm FB/IG friends with about as many of my highschool batchmates as my college batchmates.

I also have more in common with my highschool batchmates than my college batchmates. Same socio-economic background, same intellectual interests, plus the big bonus of having the same experiences during the critical teenage years.

In fact I'm much closer to my high school barkada than my college barkada.

So it's really not a matter of the college set being more visible. I keep tabs on both and there are really more from the Ateneo crowd getting engaged. Your guess (socio-economic reasons) is probably the most plausible explanation.

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do we have classmates who got married, but did not want "the rest of the world" know about it?
the so-called "close family and friends only" type of wedding?

[jut703]

do we have classmates who got married, but did not want "the rest of the world" know about it?
the so-called "close family and friends only" type of wedding?

Yup merong mga intimate weddings. But may pakpak ang balita. So we found out anyway.

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[uls]

I noticed that among my batchmates who've gotten engaged recently, most are from college and none are from high school.

I wonder why - is it a socioeconomic thing (Ateneans are more well-off than Pisay scholars, and thus are more financially capable early on thanks to mom and dad) or is it a professional thing (many Pisay alumni take up further studies - medicine, doctorate/masters degrees - and thus delay marriage)?

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yes i think it's a socio-economic thing

and yes probably your HS batchmates are choosing further studies or career over marriage / lovelife

i notice rich parents would pressure their kids to get married soon after college

gusto na kasi nila ng apo

and also to see their kids move to the next stage of life

[badkuk]

^ imho, career concerns aside, at kung kaya suportahan, the earlier mag asawa the better...basta't matinong nagmamahalan at hindi trip trip lang.

[baludoy]

My doctor classmate from high school just got married sa huwis recently. He kept it on the downlow for some reason. 15 persons nga lang daw invited. Kung hindi pa nya ata nabuntis iyong colleague nya hindi pa pakakasal yon [emoji3]

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[minicarph]

Pag Maaga ka mag-asawa maaga ka tataba, pero maaga ka din mag-gym lalo na pa naalibadbaran na kayo sa isn't isa dahil pareho kayo with fats

There's a limit though pag inabutan kayo dalalwa ng 40 na pero pareho pa din kayo mataba, prepare for a life of misery na coz napakahirap na nyan talaga for both of you, your psyche, your energy and even your well-being. Matigas na din ulo.

[uls]

^^

madami naman mataba na may edad na, single pa

[MR_BIG18]

Pag Maaga ka mag-asawa maaga ka tataba, pero maaga ka din mag-gym lalo na pa naalibadbaran na kayo sa isn't isa dahil pareho kayo with fats

There's a limit though pag inabutan kayo dalalwa ng 40 na pero pareho pa din kayo mataba, prepare for a life of misery na coz napakahirap na nyan talaga for both of you, your psyche, your energy and even your well-being. Matigas na din ulo.

well dapat spouses support each other...my wife nag aaya mag hiking..sabi go lang, naka sched na kami sa, nagpatong rock, batulao etc..next week daranak falls...

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[minicarph]

Singles can always fall in love and get motivated to get thin. Pero pag may asawa ka na, even if you do fall in love with someone else, your partner will drag you no matter what.

Para sakin kasi if you fall in love with someone else from the office tapos umuuwi ka sa nagging opinionated fat white, The lord is throwing you a lifeline to save yourself to change your course. Pero pag napansin ng wife na ikaw lang ang pumapayat, sasarapan nya lalo Luton nya coz alam na alam ng fat wife, na meron ka inspiration other than her. So llalo ka nya patatabain para hinde ka maging marketable and sa kanya ka Nalang forever together with your stock of crispy pata, lechon belly , liempo sa fridge.

Only a few men can get out of that.

[Egan101]

well dapat spouses support each other...my wife nag aaya mag hiking..sabi go lang, naka sched na kami sa, nagpatong rock, batulao etc..next week daranak falls...

Keep it simple. Happy wife, happy life!

[uls]

ok gets ko ung may nag aalaga na misis kaya mga mister tumataba

pero bago mag asawa mga lalake may nag aalaga naman na nanay so madami mga lalakeng single mataba

[_Cathy_]

Keep it simple. Happy wife, happy life!

My ex and I talked about this and we both hate it. So if the husband can't keep the wife happy then everything goes to sh1t? The husband is supposed to dedicate his life pleasing his wife? It's like saying I will be good to you only IF you are good to me. Wow. How abour marriage is a partnership and making each other happy.

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[CVT]

Singles can always fall in love and get motivated to get thin. Pero pag may asawa ka na, even if you do fall in love with someone else, your partner will drag you no matter what.

Para sakin kasi if you fall in love with someone else from the office tapos umuuwi ka sa nagging opinionated fat white, The lord is throwing you a lifeline to save yourself to change your course. Pero pag napansin ng wife na ikaw lang ang pumapayat, sasarapan nya lalo Luton nya coz alam na alam ng fat wife, na meron ka inspiration other than her. So llalo ka nya patatabain para hinde ka maging marketable and sa kanya ka Nalang forever together with your stock of crispy pata, lechon belly , liempo sa fridge.

Only a few men can get out of that.

Hahaha! Ayos talaga ang intriga sa kwento mo bro....

Mysterious Ways nga...

Parang kwento ng traffic - nuong "mag-un" pa,- okay lang kahit magdamagang traffic,- basta magkasama kayo.. How sweet....

Pero pag mag-asawa na - l!nt!k na traffic iyan,- Bwis3t!!!

[CVT]

Keep it simple. Happy wife, happy life!

Naka-order ka na ba bro ng roses and chocolates + dinner date + gift ?...

"Compliment what she does
Send her roses just because
If it's violin she wants
Let them play
Dedicate perfect songs
And hold her closer
All night long
Love her today
Find one hundred ways!!!!"

[uls]

My ex and I talked about this and we both hate it. So if the husband can't keep the wife happy then everything goes to sh1t? The husband is supposed to dedicate his life pleasing his wife? It's like saying I will be good to you only IF you are good to me. Wow. How abour marriage is a partnership and making each other happy.

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iba iba kasi dynamics ng mga couples

meron dominant ang lalake

meron co-equal

meron dominant ang babae

madami pinay strong personality kaya dominante