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[yebo]

gentelemen don't ask nice girls to go see a movie on a first date, lalo na first time kayo mag-meet. madilim sa cine, dapat neutral territory ang first date. 1st date dapat you must be able to talk, feeling the waters kum baga. "a clean well lighted place", para makita mo din kung ano reactions nya sa sinasabi mo and vice versa.

ask her to lunch instead. or meryenda after work. don't go past dinner time.

next date yun pwede na dinner.

3rd date bahala na kayo san nyo gusto. biglang liko na kung ok sa kanya

[shadow]

gentelemen don't ask nice girls to go see a movie on a first date, lalo na first time kayo mag-meet. madilim sa cine, dapat neutral territory ang first date. 1st date dapat you must be able to talk, feeling the waters kum baga. "a clean well lighted place", para makita mo din kung ano reactions nya sa sinasabi mo and vice versa.

ask her to lunch instead. or meryenda after work. don't go past dinner time.

next date yun pwede na dinner.

3rd date bahala na kayo san nyo gusto. biglang liko na kung ok sa kanya

oh jasprit, makinig ka, nag reply na yun expert!!!

[jasprit]

point taken sir so a 1st date would probably be at lunch time. 1st time ko makikipag date ng totally stranger mga gano katagal kaya ang 1st date if ever na pumyag sya??? ty po

[shadow]

tama talaga si yebo huwag naman sine kaagad..lunch lang muna usap-usap lang lalo hinde sasama saiyo yun, diba ikaw yun height is 6'5" or 6'6"? eh kahit sino hinde sasama saiyo sa sine ng unang date eh...hehhehe takot lang niya...hehehe

[j_avonni]

Yayain mo ulit. Pag ayaw talaga, sabihin mo magdate kayo thru text.

[jasprit]

lang hiya sir 6'4" lng po :D

[chain]

let's break this down, shall we?

me:may date ka na ba sa valentines
she:ewan, pinag iicipan q pa...

since unsure pa sya, you decided to go swoop in, right? so here's what you said next:

me: bkit naman pinag iicipan mo pa? may nag yaya na sxu?
she:Yap..hehe,

this is where it gets a bit muddy. pwedeng interpret 'to as:

1) she might go out with you pero may nag-yaya na or
2) i don't want to go out with you (kahit wala talaga nag-yaya sa kanya)

me:Ay syang yayain sana kita eh... kaso may duty ako.. If ever na-una kitang yayain mag date sasama ka ba skin??

kudos for your courage. kaso, she said somebody already invited her out for Valentine's.. di bale, there's always a next time

THEn she replied NICE JOKE??? WTF!!!!
Ngyun tanong ko po bkit po kaya nice joke ang reply nya??
Mali yata hirit ko eh
Or ksi txt mates pa lng kami kaya ayaw nya pa mag-date???

hindi mali hirit mo. but yung reply niya can be interpreted in both ways:
1) maybe she's gauging you if you're serious or not.
2) or, kaya nice joke kasi maybe she's not interested din.

and, IMHO, I don't believe na kasi text mates pa lang kaya ayaw makipag-date...

[boybi]

baka naman taga Mindanao pa sya kaya NICE JOKE ang reply nya sayo.

[jasprit]

di po taga pasig lng po sya.
Sir dehedista nice Break down parang basketball game
Anyway mag hihintay ako ng isa png chance pag tumangi ulit alam ko na ibig sabihin nun:D

[baker123]

me:Ay syang yayain sana kita eh... kaso may duty ako.. If ever na-una kitang yayain mag date sasama ka ba skin??

jasprit i think dito po kayo sumabit sa question/reply nyo.

i think the term they use here is Fishing? meaning you were being "sigurista"

just ask her out bro. wag mo na isiping baka meron iba. isipin walang iba at ikaw lang talaga. sugod! hehehe

need not apologize. ask her out again if you really like her. and like everybody has suggested. eat out muna or somewhere public where you both can talk comfortably and not bothered. good luck.

[leinahtan]

Daming babaero dito, he he he.
Pag-ipunan mo muna bro, para pag um-okey na sya ituloy mo na sa isang place na kayong dalawa lang. Package deal 'ika nga. :***:

[Lucius]

DON'T ever say sorry to a girl you've just met. NEVER. This would totally show how kiss-ass / desperate you could be just to go out with her or something. Tell her that you are going out ANYWAY without her (ie. an event you are surely going with friends), thus making her think that you don't NEED her. Ganyan talaga ang mga girls, and making you come for more is the TRAP. And once you fall into it, you're dead hahahaha.

Remember boys, don't be a kiss-ass. Stand up for yourself. Don't be a wuss by going the way where she wants it to go, take the lead and BE A MAN. Don't ask her out like you're begging for it (ie. "Let's grab a lunch tomorrow"). You ask her but you DON'T ask for her approval. Make her prove herself to you. The constant replies? Don't lean on it. Better look at her body language when you guys meet. Lastly, sure ka bang type mo yan? Eh what if another POSER yan from friendster? Can you give us the link so we could take a look? GOODLUCK! Baka mamaya badinggerzie yan

[jasprit]

buti na lng nag tanong ako sa mga expert plano ko talaga mag sorry buti na lng nag tanong muna ako s mga babaero j/k

[jasprit]

ipmossible pong badingerz to for sure ako sya yun.
Kya lng naman po ako nahihirapan d2 ksi were both Indianz ika nga dba dapat daw di talo ako wala ako paki alam di ko naman sya relatives eh ka lahi ko lng dba?? 1st time ko lng mang ligaw sa indian.... And I'm pretty sure na sya yng nasa pic ayaw ko nga ibigay ang link.

[Tha_Mann]

nde pa pala kayo nag meet in person, natural lng na nde nya seryosohin ang sinabi mo. alam mo naman sa panahon ngayon, ang dali makipag flirt sa chat, txt, etc. ur first move should be meet her muna in person. malay mo iba itsura sa personal kesa sa picture, magsisi ka pa at niyaya mo ng date hehe. kaya ako dati pag may ka chat ako eh meet muna in person, pag ok eh di saka diskartehan. pag tagilid itsura eh at least nde muna ako nag pakita ng interes sa kanya hehehe

[kiper]

Eto para sakin..

Di ka talaga nya type/Di talaga sya interested sayo. Nagrereply lang sya sayo out of courtesy na lang. Maraming chikas ang gumagawa nito. Kaso marami ding barako ang nakakamisinterpret nito..hehe

Ung huling message reply nya.. nairita na talaga sya sayo. Valentine's Date is reserved for lovers/closed friends/bestfriends/MU/matagal nang manliligaw.. Not for the Bagong-Manliligaw type.. Scary yun for the girls kasi may intimacy factor na sa valentines eh. Buti na lang ako nung naligawan ko ung gf ko ngayon.. Mejo close na kami kaya pumayag sya agad..hehe

Ang dapat mong gawin.. hanap ka na ng iba. Wag mo na sya text. Save yourself.

[Zeus]

Pasimple ka pa Jasprit ha Kutob ko experto ka na dyan e

[Imau]

Ang dapat mong gawin.. hanap ka na ng iba. Wag mo na sya text. Save yourself.

this should always be the attitude, so that you won't appear desperate and saying sorry is a no no also at this stage. If I were you, i would delete her number from my phone so that I won't be tempted to text her first. If she really likes you...she has you number, she'll be the one texting you fist.

[pepengtom]

bigay mo # sakin ako didiskarte hehe joke lang

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

para nga kasing iba dating ng question mo...

sasama ka ba sakin?

hahaha! peace!