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**yebo** · February 13th, 2007 11:34 AM

gentelemen don't ask nice girls to go see a movie on a first date, lalo na first time kayo mag-meet. madilim sa cine, dapat neutral territory ang first date. 1st date dapat you must be able to talk, feeling the waters kum baga. "a clean well lighted place", para makita mo din kung ano reactions nya sa sinasabi mo and vice versa.

ask her to lunch instead. or meryenda after work. don't go past dinner time.

next date yun pwede na dinner.

3rd date bahala na kayo san nyo gusto. biglang liko na kung ok sa kanya

**shadow** · February 13th, 2007 11:37 AM

Originally Posted by yebo

gentelemen don't ask nice girls to go see a movie on a first date, lalo na first time kayo mag-meet. madilim sa cine, dapat neutral territory ang first date. 1st date dapat you must be able to talk, feeling the waters kum baga. "a clean well lighted place", para makita mo din kung ano reactions nya sa sinasabi mo and vice versa.

ask her to lunch instead. or meryenda after work. don't go past dinner time.

next date yun pwede na dinner.

3rd date bahala na kayo san nyo gusto. biglang liko na kung ok sa kanya

oh jasprit, makinig ka, nag reply na yun expert!!!

**jasprit** · February 13th, 2007 11:42 AM

point taken sir

so a 1st date would probably be at lunch time. 1st time ko makikipag date ng totally stranger mga gano katagal kaya ang 1st date if ever na pumyag sya??? ty po

**shadow** · February 13th, 2007 11:43 AM

tama talaga si yebo huwag naman sine kaagad..lunch lang muna usap-usap lang lalo hinde sasama saiyo yun, diba ikaw yun height is 6'5" or 6'6"? eh kahit sino hinde sasama saiyo sa sine ng unang date eh...hehhehe takot lang niya...hehehe

**j_avonni** · February 13th, 2007 12:24 PM

Yayain mo ulit. Pag ayaw talaga, sabihin mo magdate kayo thru text.

**jasprit** · February 13th, 2007 12:48 PM

lang hiya sir 6'4" lng po :D

**chain** · February 13th, 2007 01:21 PM

let's break this down, shall we?

me:may date ka na ba sa valentines
she:ewan, pinag iicipan q pa...

since unsure pa sya, you decided to go swoop in, right? so here's what you said next:

me: bkit naman pinag iicipan mo pa? may nag yaya na sxu?
she:Yap..hehe,

this is where it gets a bit muddy. pwedeng interpret 'to as:

1) she might go out with you pero may nag-yaya na or
2) i don't want to go out with you (kahit wala talaga nag-yaya sa kanya)

me:Ay syang yayain sana kita eh... kaso may duty ako.. If ever na-una kitang yayain mag date sasama ka ba skin??

kudos for your courage. kaso, she said somebody already invited her out for Valentine's.. di bale, there's always a next time

THEn she replied NICE JOKE??? WTF!!!!

Ngyun tanong ko po bkit po kaya nice joke ang reply nya??
Mali yata hirit ko eh

Or ksi txt mates pa lng kami kaya ayaw nya pa mag-date???

hindi mali hirit mo. but yung reply niya can be interpreted in both ways:
1) maybe she's gauging you if you're serious or not.
2) or, kaya nice joke kasi maybe she's not interested din.

and, IMHO, I don't believe na kasi text mates pa lang kaya ayaw makipag-date...

**boybi** · February 13th, 2007 01:29 PM

baka naman taga Mindanao pa sya kaya NICE JOKE ang reply nya sayo.

**jasprit** · February 13th, 2007 01:38 PM

di po taga pasig lng po sya.
Sir dehedista nice Break down parang basketball game

Anyway mag hihintay ako ng isa png chance pag tumangi ulit alam ko na ibig sabihin nun:D

**baker123** · February 13th, 2007 01:51 PM

Originally Posted by jasprit

me:Ay syang yayain sana kita eh... kaso may duty ako.. If ever na-una kitang yayain mag date sasama ka ba skin??

jasprit i think dito po kayo sumabit sa question/reply nyo.

i think the term they use here is Fishing? meaning you were being "sigurista"

just ask her out bro. wag mo na isiping baka meron iba. isipin walang iba at ikaw lang talaga. sugod! hehehe

need not apologize. ask her out again if you really like her. and like everybody has suggested. eat out muna or somewhere public where you both can talk comfortably and not bothered. good luck.