Sweldo ng Family driver

[_Cathy_]

we had a colleague once.
his driver was the most loyal and as good a driver as it can be.
but soon he was getting on in years, and it was beginning to show in his driving.
marster then retired him with a significant retirement package.
then he got a much younger replacement.

We had a driver that we "tested" like that. He was family driver in our village. Kaya pala he was let go or retired (?) because he was too old at palpak na. Even my friend who rode with me ONCE was so frustrated with me and talked to me about why my driver was like that haha. He followed up with us kung kukunin siya but I just made an excuse.

[_Cathy_]

Yes ULS, that thread.



Cathy, ask anyone here (except perhaps Kags) and they will say that that guy is a SLEAZE BUCKET. I wouldn't let him within 50 meters of my property or have any dealings with him based on the facts you provided.

Maybe you did listen and did not let him move in back then (good), but you eventually DID invite him to stay (with family) and now he's giving you problems (as usual). That negates the first half of the previous sentence (in other words, eh di ginawa mo rin).

Let's say you're desperate because you'd feel better na may kasama yung mga seniors at home, but as you've said, he's barely there anyway so what's the point? Kung may bigla emergency and he's out fooling around somewhere, the seniors will have to fend for themselves. And despite everything he's repeatedly been doing over the years you guys say you trust him??? Wake up, all of you.

By analogy, It's like reasoning I'm leaving my young daughter in the care of a pedophile, because I don't want her to be left all alone (!?!?!?) with some stranger I don't know. Di bale, I've known this pedo for a long time naman eh. Mahirap kasi makahanap ng mapagkakatiwalaan na iba (ha!?!?!)

Oi, I only mean well.
I'm probably the only one in the forum, saying out loud what every one else is thinking naman din.



"Brutal" yung mga ibang members kay Cathy at times. Sometimes, a little tough love is needed.

Can't say I blame him. Frustrating si Cathy minsan to be honest.

From the time na may manyak siyang office mate; may gullible friend (alias "He Huang" ) siyang dating a married man who's obviously playing around; and now this sleazy stay in driver to give a few examples... forum members here would voice their indignation at the situation, and then offer sound advice, which often goes out the other ear. After a really long winded discussion, ganun pa rin mangyayari (haaay). Then some time later, a new follow up thread would come up complaining about the result. Paulit ulit lang.

Mabuti nga medyo nag-mature na (konti) eh. In the old days, aawayin pa yung member(s) that are only trying to help.

I know you mean well and I apprecicate advise without sugar coating naman. We had no complaints when he was stay out for more than 10 yrs, lumabas ugali nung nag stay in That's my major issue talaga, yung nawawala. I talked to him several times about it but he doesn't listen at all. Pero when I was in the US, he doesn't go out at all. I think he knows kasi I'm here so he is complacent na.

[_Cathy_]

Your definition of trustworthy and loyal is kind of strange ... loyal but then prioritizes the sidelines ...

There is no such thing as "sayang" with regards to bad employees ... Your "all around" has more sense than you, he knew the problems that would come with the so-called "trustworthy" driver ... so he left to avoid becoming the patsy for whatever the driver is going to cause in the future ...

My Kuya came over today and told me to let go of our driver, dunno paano niya nabalitaan na our driver would wash all of his family's clothes here at home haha. It's no big deal to me kasi mura lang naman tubig. My issue yung nawawala siya parati and lately bakit ang lakas na niya tumapak sa gas tapos ang tigas mag brake. I've told him countless times nahihilo ako sa braking niya. My Kuya said kasi mas gusto niya sideline niya I can't just let him go na walang kapalit. If I let him go, for sure I wont be able to call him na when I need him.

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Pag naghanap ka personal driver ngayon mahihirapan ka na kumuha hehe nandun na sila lahat sa vinfast green gsm

Malaki ba sweldo dyan? Yung driver namin nag sideline dati grab pero tinigilan na niya

[GTcervan]

"Brutal" yung mga ibang members kay Cathy at times. Sometimes, a little tough love is needed.

Can't say I blame him. Frustrating si Cathy minsan to be honest.

From the time na may manyak siyang office mate; may gullible friend (alias "He Huang" ) siyang dating a married man who's obviously playing around; and now this sleazy stay in driver to give a few examples... forum members here would voice their indignation at the situation, and then offer sound advice, which often goes out the other ear. After a really long winded discussion, ganun pa rin mangyayari (haaay). Then some time later, a new follow up thread would come up complaining about the result. Paulit ulit lang.

Mabuti nga medyo nag-mature na (konti) eh. In the old days, aawayin pa yung member(s) that are only trying to help.

Intriguing. Parang ansarap tuloy mag-popcorn tuwing may mga ganyang sensitive na personal topics or discussions. Kaya lang pag walang exercise or exertion, magiging bad ang maraming carbs sa body hehe.