senti mode // wails of a broken-hearted

[quiksie]

hu hu hu naiiyak na ako ang lungkot kasi ni car girl. Cheer up dami pa diyan hehe 1 lang yun. Ano bugbugin namin hehe joke lang.
Pag umiyak ka papangit ka kaya smile, show thos pearly whites!

[CaRGirL]

[size=2] 18 mos of being together... i though that was more than enough for him to fight for me... but i think not... on our 18th monthsary, i thought it would be a happy day for me, but otherwise happened. he texted me and told me that if his dad calls me, i tell him that we were just friends and we met in tsikot, thats it... but when his dad called, i did not answer the phone... i felt so bad, he did not even do anything... he told me that his dad is blaming him for losses in their business because of me (meaning he spends more time with me, than his business)... after a few exchange of SMS, he just told me that we need to lie low... not to call, not to text, not to see each other... seems so hard for me... we ended up deciding to break up... [/size]

[ILuvDetailing]

mmm... tough choice, family or love... is he by any chance a fil-chi?

[CaRGirL]

[SIZE=2] nope... [/SIZE]

[odell]

hei.. everythings gonna be alright.. thats what you call life.. though i may not be there to experience the hurting.. but i tell you i know how it feels or even worse than what you feel.. its gonna happen talaga lalo na pag destined... life life... just be happy of what you have.. live life to the fullest!

[ILuvDetailing]

Ok just verifying. anyway hope that everything works out.

[Bogeyman]

*waxing spiritual*

CarGirl, just remember Psalms 30:5b, "Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning." Er, bagay ba?

Anyway, pardon me for saying so, but any person who doesn't think that your love is worth fighting for, isn't worth loving. Not today, not for a lifetime. Hindi pinaghihinayangan yung mga ganyang klaseng tao.

I would advise that you save your tears for the people who truly love you: your family, your friends and tsikot.com! :D

The worst thing you can do is to blame yourself. And don't EVER do that.

[ILuvDetailing]

Lets give the other party the benefit of the doubt.... am not saying that what he did was right, but maybe thats what he had to do so he won't be disowned by his family. Its not as simple as we might think

[Bogeyman]

Lets give the other party the benefit of the doubt.... am not saying that what he did was right, but maybe thats what he had to do so he won't be disowned by his family. Its not as simple as we might think

Ewan ko ha, pero I have a VERY low opinion of guys who don't have the balls to break it to their girlfriends in person. Dinadaan sa tawag, sa text, sa sulat, sa nanay, sa tatay, sa kaibigan, ad nauseum, anything but face-to-face. Where's the sincerity in that?

Alam niyo, even if the message is far from happy, the girl has the right to see the honesty and the hurt in the guy's face, kung totoong ngang nasasaktan din yung guy. Once you bring the message across in a questionable way, it puts your sincerity in doubt as well.

Besides, you basically have the other party's story right there: the guy turned tail and fled. Took the easy way out. Any reason he may have had in hindsight could never erase the girl's indignity at having been deprived of a formal closure to their relationship.

Breaking up through SMS? WTF?! He can take his cellphone and shove it up his *bleep*

[Mardim]

Always remember that after every storm that comes in your life, there will always be a rainbow that will shine your path to lead you to where God wants you to be.

Stay strong and be calm, the best thing you can do is to wait for your rainbow

[V-dub*chic]

Anyway, pardon me for saying so, but any person who doesn't think that your love is worth fighting for, isn't worth loving. Not today, not for a lifetime. Hindi pinaghihinayangan yung mga ganyang klaseng tao.

totally!!!

[van_wilder]

the only person that deserve your tears is the one who won't make you cry...

so i a person made you cry, dont cry for her, she doesnt deserve your tears...

[quiksie]

aawww sad pala kaya pala. Hanap ka iba pagkakaabalahan para hindi ka na masad

[van_wilder]

opinion ko lang ito... makikita ang pagkalalaki ng isang lalaki on the way he handles responsibilities and if he stands up for what he believes and standing up for someone who he truly loves...

may natakot lang din sha... maybe he's not that mature... pero one day he'll be better... and maybe you'll find someone better... theres always someone for each of us right?

[falken]

It's better to find out early that he doesn't have the balls to fight for you rather than to find out too late.

[jepoy]

It's better to find out early that he doesn't have the balls to fight for you rather than to find out too late.

tama! its better than late than later! joke lang po.

give it some time... masakit lang talaga sa una... pero kaya mo yan...

ayaokong sabihin sayo na wag mong iyakan yung tao dahil di ka pinaglaban... kung kailangan mong umiyak, umiyak ka. imo kasi mas makakagaan ng pakiramdam e.

the best payo that i can give you is to pray... kasi subok ko na to e.

God bless po

[Poops]

Each situation is unique and it's best not to be judgemental. That said, we have to stay away from the negative outlook and view the bigger picture.

One year from now you'll probably look at this chapter in your life with a smile, a great learning experience which made you a whole lot better as a person, hopefully even from a spiritual standpoint. Question now is how do you make it so?

He will just be one of many people in your life. When you're old and gray, he will be just a memory overshadowed by other people more significant in you life.

So what's my point? It's up to you how you make this experience into something positive. As Buffy would say, seize the moment - life is short. Or something to that effect

Cheers.

[ILuvDetailing]

IMO lang. Lets not rush to judgement that a person is "not worth it". Maybe the guys parents pressured him into choosing between them and CG. He picked the former. Life is about decisions he made his decision, regarding whether he should have to told CG in person or in text is another matter altogether. Let this be a learning experience... what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

[karlbo]

what happend? Cg...

[ts1n1ta]

hmmm i am for not judging hastily...

so sorry cargirl. Iiyak mo lahat ng maiiyak mo. Tomorrow is a new day.