senti mode // wails of a broken-hearted

[stinkaboy]

subside lg yan ;) there will always someone destined for you.we met the wrongs ones so we can finally be with the right one ;)

cheer up CG!

[CaRGirL]

I hope you get over this. And you learned something from it.

[SIZE=2] i hope so... i learned a lot... matigas lang talaga ulo ko e... [/SIZE]

[OiC65]

i've read this sa ibang forum....

ON LOVING AND LETTING GO...

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But sometimes, a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still it will not rain forever. One day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It's never too late.

You may find love and lose it but, WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER DIE WITH IT.
You cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a relationship is through the test of fire. You cannot be a loser with your mistake forever. We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders are not meant to bury us deep in misery, but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process... with love we learn how to CARE AND SACRIFICE. We learn to SHARE AND REACH OUT. We learn to be UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. Then, when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt.

But learning doesn't have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get
back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that LIFE DOESN'T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE'S NO FUTURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP
OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It's true, there is life in love. But, there can
still be life even after losing love. If you leave the past behind and let your heart heal, then you give yourself the chance to find yourself again. The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning, but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart.

Let us always remember that...HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE. There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels
nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end, our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING.

Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. IF YOU LOSE LOVE, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man...when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes a promise with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them.

IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER, BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL. Love makes us see the things through rose-colored glasses. Most of the time, we fail to recognize the danger sign that light up along our way. This feeling you have nurtured for so long isn't healthy anymore. You must realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your sanity. There is always a time to think and stop. A time to be sensible and not to allow our hearts to rule over our heads. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY NOT IN THE ARMS OF A MAN/WOMAN WHO KEEPS YOU WAITING BUT IN THE ARMS OF SOMEONE WHO WILL TAKE YOU NOW AND LOVE YOU FOREVER. If loving a person who is attached to someone else is a crime, then, maybe, many of us would have been jailed long before we realize what its consequences could have been. Loving someone is never a sin...it's what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. DON'T THINK ONLY OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR REAL LOVE DOESN'T HAVE A PLACE FOR SELFISH PEOPLE. When there is love, there is always sacrifice. When we love someone, we never easily give up on that person. Even is we get hurt badly, we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't hurt...it is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE ONE WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. Just like anything else, our love grows weak and dies, if not taken cared of. It can keep up with pain only to a certain extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies.

GOD WAKES US IN THE MIDST OF A STORM TO TEACH US A LESSON. HE TAKES AWAY PEOPLE WE LOVE SO WE CAN LEARN TO VALUE LOVE ITSELF. HE MAKES US CRY SO HARD SO WE CAN SEE CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES. HE MAKES US BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO GENUINE HAPPINESS IF WE THINK ONLY OF OUR OWN NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.

It is a resolution we make to ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new
beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and loneliest moments. There is always hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try.

LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME. There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but WE MUST ALWAYS BE SENSITIVE TO THE SIGNALS THAT TELL US WHEN TO RATIONALIZE AND BE SENSIBLE. There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn't be as interested as we are because his/her attention is focused on someone else. There are many times when we love but don't get love in return. THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THE SIGN AHEAD SAYS STOP BUT WE STILL STUBBORNLY HEAD ON. We would say our love is unconditional...but if it really is, then we should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.

BEING IN LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING WE COULD EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE FEELING BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLE BEING, THEN WE HAVE TO STOP AND LET OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR ACTIONS. ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR FATE AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR FAILURES CAN WE TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE. WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT WILL NEVER BE...

[KCboy]

oic65,
very deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep. made me think of some stuff....

[OiC65]

napulot ko lang sa ibang forum.....baka makatulong kay CaRGirL.

iniisip ko lang baka lalong maiyak si CaRGirL eh.

[mhelskie]

naduleng ako kababasa dun ah....pero okei na okei...d lang sa love ka mapapaisip kundi sa buhay na din.

Cheer up CG, try to pamper yourself muna, shopping, spa, vacation, makakalimutan mo din yan.

Pero pag inuman, sami kami dyan

[BlueBimmer]

hanap 'boytoy' para distraction hehehe

[CaRGirL]

hanap 'boytoy' para distraction hehehe

[SIZE=2]hanap nyo ko! hehehe [/SIZE]

[CaRGirL]

napulot ko lang sa ibang forum.....baka makatulong kay CaRGirL.

iniisip ko lang baka lalong maiyak si CaRGirL eh.

[SIZE=2] salamat po... na enlighten ako... kahit mejo na duling ako nung binabasa ko.. :P [/SIZE]

[BlueBimmer]

apply na mga tsikoteers...boytoy hehehe

[KCboy]

cg,
if u can, go somewhere alone on sunday and think abtthe hurt n joy you had with him, after that, u simply let go and find your closure. then u move on. i did that last year when i got busted...spent a few weeks sa canada, then when i acame back, i was ok na, although minsan, napaisip ka ulit,but the pain isn't that painful anymore.

[Bogeyman]

OiC65: Puro all-caps, ehehehe.

It is impossible to love someone if you do not learn to love yourself first. Kailangan may pagpapahalaga ka rin sa sarili mo. Kaya tama ang sinabi ni mhelskie. Take the time out to look after and pamper yourself for a change. Isipin na lang you gave your best, kung hindi nagbunga eh 'di wala, basta ba hindi ikaw yung nagkulang. There's always another tree to climb, after all.

Side note: Men are like grapes turning into wine. Women have to stomp the sh!t out of them, so that they can become something more suitable to have dinner with.

[ILuvDetailing]

CarGirl: Buy a new set of Mag Wheels . Seriously, its nice to have a hobby to keep your mind off the him...

Big time pala si KCboy, sa Canda ang sinisilungan. hehehe

[jvdejesus05]

[SIZE=2] i hope so... i learned a lot... matigas lang talaga ulo ko e... [/SIZE]

when it comes to love, walang matigas ang ulo... you're just expressing your love for someone even if everybody's telling you that it's not worth it. that's life, you took the risk of loving someone which you know would bring you to a dead end. besides, i bet both of you did have a great time with each other's company, so just remember those things, forget the bad one's and try to move on... life isn't fair that's what they say, and it is true. you'll just have to learn how to let go and live your own life without him. you still have your friends and family to love you back. enjoy mo muna being single. sooner or later you'll know what i mean.

sayang hindi tayo magkakilala, malamang mukha ko palang mapatawa na kita... hehehe... SMILE NAMAN DIYAN... sige ka papangit ka nyan ng todo...

[BlueBimmer]

punta bar..hanap 1 nytstand..hehe

[quiksie]

take the time off. Its summer, dami pwede magawa! Sama na kasi sa EB hehe. Organize ka ulit ng EB tapos sama ka na ok para masaya

[van_wilder]

you'll never know if you've met the right one if you haven't met the wrong guys...

love is a reciprocal relationship... impossibleng isang side... dahil kung isang side lang, hindi love yun, parasitism yun... sorry for the word. read SCOTT PECK's THE ROAD LESS TRAVELLED. sobrang enlightened ka.

[CaRGirL]

[SIZE=2] buti na lang nandito mga tsikot peeps... pinapagaan nyo loob ko... salamat sa inyo...[/SIZE]

[falken]

Read or watch humorous stuff, check out the just for laughs thread once in a while to get your mind off things.

[Belisarius]

Love is blind and when we fall out of love we realize how blind we are, but to move on is difficult if we cannot let go. Time will tell and the more times we fall in and out of love strengthen our resolve to move on. My first breakup took me a month to get over, my 3rd break up took me a little more than 2 weeks, the heart will overwhelm the mind but in the end the mind will prevail over the heart. Take care of your little boy, it is a joy to behold God's gift to us, and will make it a little easier to forget the past. God bless and good luck CG

In my prayers
Belisarius