I used to have a bad temper. But I met a new friend and he keeps telling me that life is too short, be happy. When I got my permit to practice driving my husband told me to keep my cool at all times, don't look at the driver if they cut you off or what have you on the road. Don't honk, don't give a dirty look or do the dirty finger. Just ignore it. Three years ago, I had a bad day and I ran into a 4-way stop crossing and this guy just went ahead of me. I chased him, he got mad and we were exchanging dirty fingers and foul language at each other. When I got home, I felt bad and couldn't sleep. What did I get from it? Hatred. It's not worth it.