I Totally Lost It.

[GlennSter]

...my patience, that is.

sumabog na ang tinitimpi kong pasensya ng matagal.

there was this l300 FB van na nag cut sami9n ng dad ko while making a u-turn under the gma fly over along edsa.tapos mejo hinabol ni dad...then sobrang ginigtgit kami at ayaw talaga kami paraanin.

ung driver may kasamang dalawang babae sa harap ng fb.driver lang siya ha.mind you.

tapos nung naabutan namin, sabi ko sa driver, "pare, ano problema mo?umayos ka naman!"

sagot sakin as far as i can remember was.."eh ikaw ano problema mo!?"

tapos nagmurahan sila ng tatay ko.tapos takbo nanaman siya.tapos ginitgit nanaman kami along timog ave in front of gma.sheesh.as in tamaan na ung pick up ng dad ko.nung naunahan namin siya, napahinto kami sa stop light.

then there.I WENT DOWN THE RIG, APPROACHED THE FB NA MADILIM NA ANG PANINGIN KO,KICKED THE GLASS (buti hindi nabasag) then KICKED THE DOOR AND ALL.lumubog ung door niya.

naaalala kong sinabi ko "T*N%INA MO!!LUMABAS KA DITO HAYOP KA!!MASYADO KANG MAYABANG PUT*8NA MO!"

then he was just staring blankly at me, never said a word anymore...na shock at natakot na yata.

my dad then approached me at hinila na ako.TAMA NA!!!sabi sakin. but before that i pulled its side mirror for a final "blow".

kinaladkad ako hanggang maksakay ako ng sasakyan.and then there was my mom, really furious about what happenned.

hanggang ngayon galit na galit samin ng dad ko.nagtext na ako at lahat, galit pa rin.hindi kami pinapansin.

when we got home, my dad talked to me and told me na hinay hinay lang.tama na ung magmurahan at mag pitikan.wala nang babaan ng kotse.

i then texted my mom, telling her na she knows na hindi ako ganung klase ng tao (not like dati na mainitin ang ulo) anymore.i am actually patient with stupid drivers since 2 years ago when i was in a similar situation.

but having a very bad week (nanakawan ako ng side mirror that cost 1,250 in my own freakin school, kept my cool), having very bad "break up" with a girl who had a boy pala while we were dating recently (kept my cool), my lola being sick of cancer right now, and many more problems at the side, I JUST LOST MY SELF.my patience...

now, my parents are paranoid since i destroyed the other party's property (door and side mirror) and made a scene along a major road. the lady beside the driver got our plate number, well, i got theirs too.(WWK 229, if i remember it correctly, company owned siya ng..photocomp!? im not sure about the sticker na nakalagay sa sides niya eh, nagdilim na talaga paningin ko).

I KNOW now na talagang mali rin ako dito.i admit that.if i could onlygo back in time, i would just have kept my cool, as always.wala dapat babaan ng kotse.i should've let it pass.

pero minsan iniisip ko, mahirap din magtimpi nang magtimpi.naiipon sa loob eh.dapat may outlet. i thought pumping iron every day was a good outlet for me, pero kulang pa pala.i should start boxing again like i used to.

sa inyong maiinit ang ulo, sana walang magaya sa situation ko.im usually a nice guy, pero pag nagalit talaga, darn.kakaiba.

now i know better.

peace to everyone.

[benchph1]

yap they say its bad to keep all that rage all up to yourself, sometimes you have to let it all out, but not through that way.

madami na rin akong close encounters sa mga anak ng tinapang mga driver sa kalsada, ang ginagawa ko lang: hinga ng malalim, mga 3 beses. ayun wala na.

ingat na lang parekoy

[GlennSter]

yeah..and i forgot.

i apologize to the driver.

i apologize to the ladies with him (nagpapa impress yata sa inyo ung driver niyo eh...ok tama na glenn)

i apologize to my dad.

i apologize to my mom.

i apologize to the tsikot community (wala naman pong sticker ung f150 ni papa, so ok lang.ahihihihi)

and i apologize to myself.i made a fool out of myself.

[Ungas]

At sino ang nasaktan sa pangyayari? Sinong kinalabasan na talo pag mapipikon sa trapik? :D

Just some points to ponder my pren!

[kimpOy]

well i guess you came to your senses kaso nga late na.

i guess if you CAN apologize to the other party PERSONALLY, the better you will feel my friend.

ROAD RAGE...it happens pare, close space, hot climate, stress, buti na lang walang nasaktan physically.

[boybi]

then there.I WENT DOWN THE RIG, APPROACHED THE FB NA MADILIM NA ANG PANINGIN KO,KICKED THE GLASS (buti hindi nabasag) then KICKED THE DOOR AND ALL.lumubog ung door niya.

pano mo sinipa yung glass? alin glass? marunong ka ba taekwondo?

[GlennSter]

un pong driver's window.i used to be a soccer player though.herhehrehr..pero as i was kicking...buti may ulirat pang natitira na hinaan ko ung sipa para di mabasag.

Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.

[doublea]

sometimes talaga kapag if we are burden with problems and worries, minsan umaapaw na rin. konting isyu lang sasambulat na. nagiging iritable na tayo.

When my mom was hospitalized, sa kakaisip ko, iyung pedicab na hindi agad ako pinasakay, inaway ko kaagad.

[ross]

Bro at least you realize your own mistake but hindi rin kita masisi sa nangyari kc it happened to me kasama din ang parents ko with my kumpare(parang body guard!). Bumaba din ako sa oto as a driver then bumaba ang driver ng jeep eh nag kataong mabilis pala itong si kumpare ayun may nakatusok agad sa leeg nung driver ng jeep ang thats the time i realize na sana pinalagpas ko nalang.You know what happened? ako na ang umawat, ako parin ang nag sorry sa jeepney driver.hahaha nakakatawa talaga.That was 5 yrs. ago at hanggang ngayon pinagsasabihan ako ng parents ko na hwag mainitin ang ulo pag nag da drive.Pero minsan nangyayari parin even here in japan salita nga lang ang away walang hahawak sa oto dahil pag nagasgasan ang oto pera ang kapalit kahit na tama ka..........
Hay naku ang dami talagang barumbadong driver............

[odell]

oks lang yan pareng glenn.. kaya nga naintindihan kita kahit panay hirit mo sakin dito sa tsikot ;)

[otanex]

sir cool lang ( kahit madaling sabihin mahirap gawin ) . we know that na walang patutunguhan ang ganon... buti walang nasaktan sa both parties. mahirap din kasi ang ganyan, hanggat maaari, iwasan na lang talaga. yung gitgitan, pagpasensyahan na natin. ika nga, kung g#g$* ang nakakasabay mo sa daan, hayaan mo na lang na mauna at iwasan na lang.. wala namang magiging price pag nauna sya eh. ( unless racing yun ;-) )

Let's just control our temper na lang. Look what happened, nagalit and mom mo sa inyo kasi nga nag aalala sya sa mga ganong sitwasyon.

I'll just pray na maintindihan ka na rin ng mommy mo at wag na masyado mainit ang ulo....


OT : san ka nagbubuhat ng bakal?? sama ako :D

[GlennSter]

salamat sa pag intindi mga peeps.

as ive told you, im usually cool about it...sumabog lang talaga..haaayyy

otanex:sa fitness first abs cbn po....

odell...alam mo namang lambing lang namin sayo un eh....hehrherherehr

[Bud_wiser]

in any argument, it takes two to make it happen. stepping back from a situation will often diffuse it before it gets out of hand.

I've often had moments that make me want to get out of my cars and beat the living _____ out of the idiot who pissed me off. But i always keep from doing it coz I remember that you never know who or what your facing when you do so. The tabloids always have a story about someone accosting another driver and getting shot or stabbed.

It's not worth it. Making him or her realize their stupidity is not worth the risk of escalating a trivial issue to a life-threatening one.

always think defensively.

[wowiesy]

bad trip nga yan.. at least sa kahuli hulihan walang nangyaring untoward / violent.. charge mo na lang to experience... at sana ay wag nang maulit muli...

pag dating naman sa outlet para pasingawin yung nabubuong pressure / stress sa loob.. ganyan din ako... i thought i've tried everything... you are into weightlifting.. and i've tried that before... here are some others that you can try (warning though, some of them are really maintenance heavy..):
- target shooting (for fun or competitively)
- aikido (very effective for me because of ukemi)
- talking it over with someone who's willing to listen (mura lang to)
- scuba diving (nakaka relax talaga pag makakita ng maraming isda)
- iiyak mo (sometimes it works.. if you're that type of person)...

always don't forget to pray for guidance...

[kiper]

Eto lang lagi tinatandaan ko sa pagmamaneho. Hindi mo kailangan bumaba sa level nila para lang makalamang ka, Ung ginawa nilang katahangan malaking bagay na un kung hindi mo gagayahin. Relax lang kuya Glenn..!! Kuha ka na ulit ng boxing lessons..sarap nun!!

[odell]

Originally posted by GlennSter
salamat sa pag intindi mga peeps.

as ive told you, im usually cool about it...sumabog lang talaga..haaayyy

otanex:sa fitness first abs cbn po....

odell...alam mo namang lambing lang namin sayo un eh....hehrherherehr

ang sweet naman ni kuya glenn. hahahaha

[HrTBr8K3R]

i have an admin friend here na once naisakay ako sa star-ex nya.. and we wer cruising along monumento near grand central, ng bglang may nag cut sa min na passenger jeep. mdyo may kakulitan ung driver sa kakagitgit so ang gnawa ng may ari ng star-ex..ng matapatan namin ung jeep, binuksan ang bintana. tpos nag speech: pare..sira ba ang side mirror mo? sagot ng jeepney driver: nde baket? sagot si admin na may ari ng star-ex:
gs2 mo sirain ko yang side mirror mo at basagin ko syo?! lolz.. tawa kami ng tawa ng mga kasama ko sabay nag wang wang kse mukhang police character ung admin d2 eh. parang NBI chief.

hope naaalala mo pa un scene na un JON! hahahahahahahaha! miss ka na namin ng mga taga #K..

[gretzy]

anyway, bati na ba kayo ngayon ng mom mo?

[Hero]

ingat lang tayo sa daan, maraming mas lokoloko diyan buti hindi ka binaril... o hindi rin siya lumabas at naglabas ng tubo... or may mobile na nakakita sa inyo.. lalaki lang at dadagdag ang mga problema mo and hey di pa ba tayo nasasanay sa manila driving?..

nangyari na rin sa akin yan sa buendia..mainitin din ang ulo ko kasi noon but now i've mellowed down, just be aware when you're about to turn green with anger and breathe... relax lang..

[notEworthy27]

just my thoughts exactly..I've been wanting to do what you just did glenn...but then, of couse, may taga awat. hehe well, what I could say is...

"a closed fist shuts off the mind to think of possibilities of self control and physical agression"

I always say this to myself whenever I encounter these type of people or so called "drivers". Isipin mo na lang na makitid na lang ang kanilang idea of safety and professional driving. :D