How do you deal with friends borrowing money?

[funkeemunkee]

^May nagsabi nga sa akin, kung may kaaway ka turuan mong mag-casino.

[shemcristobal]

If they are really your trusted friends, wala prob kung magpautang kasi you can collect through other means.

If friend lang sia in time of their need (and not when you have a need for them), pautang once, but never a second time unless bayaran ung first. Just be firm with your decisions and accept the consequences. Your friend will understand as long as consistent ka.

There is nothing wrong to ask questions why they are borrowing. Dig into the need for money and understand fully the situation. Its your hard earned money you'll spend without you directly benifiting (monetary or otherwise). Based on what you discover, you can decide how much to give. It is also good to sleep it out at least a night. Most borrowers are uptight during the time they borrow, but sometimes find a way to accept the situation or find a resolution the next day.




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[_Cathy_]

My friend did not tell me what it's for and when he will pay so I don't expect payment na. Isipin ko na lang I treated him out for dinner or bought him a gift.

It makes me wonder what happened to his finances e he used to be so galante.

[CVT]

[img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-g_CeucV11nM/U0pxQ_DAAUI/AAAAAAAACoA/lm5hzLnbj80/s1600/***y-healthy-breast.jpg[/img]

E, papaano naman kung ganito ang kaibigan mong nagmamakaawa sa iyo na pautangin siya?.....


“The measure of a man is what he does with power – LJIOHF!”
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[maverick74]

Magkano ba ang amount na kaya mung mapahiram na in case hindi kana mabayaran pwede mo nang idaan na tulong mo na lng yun sa kanya?? Sa akin kc nagpa hiram ako ng 10t pero nailista kasi sa tubig kaya ayun nakalimutan na. Since then hindi lumampas sa 10t pina hiram ko basta in dire need lng ang nghiram. Kaya may ceiling na ako na till 5t na lng.

[Monseratto]

[lowslowbenz]

^^

OT:

Nice bonsai you have there.

[greenlyt]

[img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-g_CeucV11nM/U0pxQ_DAAUI/AAAAAAAACoA/lm5hzLnbj80/s1600/***y-healthy-breast.jpg[/img]

E, papaano naman kung ganito ang kaibigan mong nagmamakaawa sa iyo na pautangin siya?.....


“The measure of a man is what he does with power – LJIOHF!”
24.7K:luvmenot:

isang buwan kong sweldo ibibigay ko sa kanya

[lowslowbenz]

^

teka, nag react si greenlyt.

interesting ang picture na yan.

hindi ko lang Makita.

[falken]

[img]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-g_CeucV11nM/U0pxQ_DAAUI/AAAAAAAACoA/lm5hzLnbj80/s1600/***y-healthy-breast.jpg[/img]

E, papaano naman kung ganito ang kaibigan mong nagmamakaawa sa iyo na pautangin siya?.....


“The measure of a man is what he does with power – LJIOHF!”
24.7K:luvmenot:

Ay sus! Check ko muna kung may lawit. Pautangin agad kung tunay na babae. :D