Don't you just hate NAGGING!

**Djerms** · January 11th, 2005 08:00 AM

I'm really a hot-headed freak on the road, specially when stupid drivers cross my path. My mom's usual reaction is to NAG me and it irks me off more. Badtrip sobra! Instead of finding a way to cool down, lalo pako napoprovoke mag-init ng ulo! Hay buhay. Kayo, ano ang reaction ninyo pag nina nag kayo?

**Rediesel** · January 11th, 2005 08:53 AM

kakaasar talaga yan, kumukulo ang dugo ko dyan. Sabihan mo na lang ng PLEASE stop it !!!

**empy** · January 11th, 2005 09:09 AM

bwehehe...wait till you get a wife ;)

**badkuk** · January 11th, 2005 09:19 AM

ako, first i'd ask nicely, but in a stern voice, for the nagging(or chatter) to stop. usually they listen naman. if they don't, i can imagine myself putting on the hazard lights, park the car on the side, and basically go on strike until they stop. it might be a bit drastic, but hey, it's better than getting distracted on the road B).

**Djerms** · January 11th, 2005 09:31 AM

O nga eh. Yung GF ko and mom ko ang magkakampi. NAGGERS to the MAX!

**hagiber** · January 11th, 2005 09:32 AM

Listen to your mom and avoid being a hot headed freak on the road... that should stop the nagging and make everyone happy... :-)

**cyberdoc95** · January 11th, 2005 09:34 AM

I've done this before and have been effective. What I did when the passenger starts to nag, I casually stop calmly and get out of the car without saying anything, open the passenger door then insist to let the passenger drive instead. Don't give in when the passenger says he/she won't drive. Let them drive. That would take the pain of driving out of your way....he he he... Ako pa?! Kung gusto nila na sila ang magmaneho, then let them, di ba?! Kakapagod din yata magmaneho tapos bibigyan ka pa ng sama ng loob?! Sila na lang magmaneho, and let them nag themselves!!He he he!!Tapos, matulog ka na lang as the passenger! Relax ka pa!! He he he!!...That's what you call "negative reinforcement" for behavior modification....

That surely sent a good message cause after what I did, no mother or brother or wife has nagged me ever while I'm on the steering wheel!

**gretzy** · January 11th, 2005 09:41 AM

everyone does!

pero pasok sa isang tenga then labas sa kabilang tenga lang, pero pag napipikon ako, sumasagot ako.

**ess** · January 11th, 2005 09:49 AM

Originally Posted by cyberdoc95

I've done this before and have been effective. What I did when the passenger starts to nag, I casually stop calmly and get out of the car without saying anything, open the passenger door then insist to let the passenger drive instead. Don't give in when the passenger says he/she won't drive. Let them drive. That would take the pain of driving out of your way....he he he... Ako pa?! Kung gusto nila na sila ang magmaneho, then let them, di ba?! Kakapagod din yata magmaneho tapos bibigyan ka pa ng sama ng loob?! Sila na lang magmaneho, and let them nag themselves!!He he he!!Tapos, matulog ka na lang as the passenger! Relax ka pa!! He he he!!...

That surely sent a good message cause after what I did, no mother or brother or wife has nagged me ever while I'm on the steering wheel!

I did that once. But the nagging only continued.
ex.
"Ayan! Now this is the correct way to drive!
O, 'tamo? Pinabayaan ko na lang yung taxi na yan na gitgitin ako.
O, nakaabot naman tayo sa pupuntahan without exceeding 50kph. Ba't di mo magawa yan????"

**cyberdoc95** · January 11th, 2005 10:02 AM

Originally Posted by ess

I did that once. But the nagging only continued.
ex.
"Ayan! Now this is the correct way to drive!
O, 'tamo? Pinabayaan ko na lang yung taxi na yan na gitgitin ako.
O, nakaabot naman tayo sa pupuntahan without exceeding 50kph. Ba't di mo magawa yan????"

At least hindi ka pagod while being nagged. Kaysa pagod ka pa sa pagmamaneho tapos may mga naririnig ka pa. So, the next time you are with them, let them drive to avoid being nagged. Sabihin mo na lang na: "Dear, next time, pwede ikaw na lang palagi magmaneho kasi mas magaling ka naman keysa sa akin eh!" Tapos ikaw, either enjoying your text messaging or checking your email while siya ang nagmamaneho. Di ba, engrande pa yung serbisyo kasi may personal driver ka na?!

Tingnan natin if kaya din nilang magmaneho all the time. Then just for fun - ikaw naman ang mag-start to nag them, let's see how that would play....